Accepting That I'm Not Actually Gay

[RGHRGH]

While I'm certainly not pushing a label on you (I'm not sure if many folks nowadays actually are),

It sounds to me like you've developed a stronger attraction to your fetishes and/vices than one to the sexes.

There's nothing wrong or "flawed" about this. It's simply another neat mark on the human sexuality spectrum.

I think sometimes some of us (which includes myself) forget that sexual orientation includes things outside the general focus on gender. For some people, they are attracted to specific parts of some (not all) women, while attracted to different parts of some (not all) men. So, would they be Gay? Straight? Trisexual?

??????

As at least one pointed out, it's a reminder that labels don't always work.

Simply embrace one as is and dont limit oneself to have to fall into a category.

 

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

This thread is a great read. I can relate to a point.
As a teen I jerked off to both guys and girls - in my 20s I convinced my self that I was 100% gay and the hot women were just a cover for the guys.
In my 40s I’m still gay but mostly watch straight porn - though my sexuality has moved towards kink as opposed to penetration (which as a teen is I thought sex was and nothing more).

I feel we are living in the age where male sexuality is being broadened and more accepting - don’t bog you self down obsessing about labelling yourself

Interesting. Thanks for your input! ^^ it's glad to see that nobody how scary things get, there's still a future that we can manage

 

[Twisted_GardenofOenothera]

While I'm certainly not pushing a label on you (I'm not sure if many folks nowadays actually are),

It sounds to me like you've developed a stronger attraction to your fetishes and/vices than one to the sexes.

There's nothing wrong or "flawed" about this. It's simply another neat mark on the human sexuality spectrum.

I think sometimes some of us (which includes myself) forget that sexual orientation includes things outside the general focus on gender. For some people, they are attracted to specific parts of some (not all) women, while attracted to different parts of some (not all) men. So, would they be Gay? Straight? Trisexual?

??????

As at least one pointed out, it's a reminder that labels don't always work.

Simply embrace one as is and dont limit oneself to have to fall into a category.

Loved this. You hit the nail on the head. ^^