after sex

[molotovmuffin]

thanks girls for all the excellent replies. i wish i could respond to each of you and thank you individually but you get the idea.

i really did not have any idea if clean up after vaginal sex was mandatory ? optional but frequent ? optional but occasional ? optional but infrequent ? rare ? never ?

i would say based on the replies that no one senses the need for immediate, mandatory clean up and you are ok with just going to sleep and taking a shower in the morning, and no douching even necessary. that... i did not know.

back to my much earlier point for asking the question, i am not too familar with bareback anal but i would imagine that bareback anal (even with your monogamous long term disease free partner) would instead likely result in clean up after sex, but i may be wrong about that.

thanks again ladies, aloha abu

In some cases, mine for instance, requires clean up almost immediately or at least it did when I was younger. If I didn't, I'd end up with a bladder infection. I had to empty my bladder and wash within minutes of sex. Not fun but it was necessary. Now, I don't have to.

 

[abu101]

thanks girls for the replies.

remember, i am a dude, who was asking you ladies about habits for post-sex cleanup. you can re-read the thread from the start but to summarize, my partner and i are monogamous and relaitvely young and inexperienced, he early 20s, me 30s, and disease free, we have done anal with a condom but never bareback, and since his orgasms are so friggin intense and he produces such a huge amount of cum (and explosively so) i just wanted to feel what it feels like inside. and didn't want to have to think about clean up at THAT point, if i didn't have to.

so you guys have been great, someone else asked me to post a writeup after it all occurs. i kinda feel weird about that since it seems a private experience, with someone i am intensely in love with and who just puts me in a complete state of prolonged ecstacy, out of this world,
but on the other hand i am on a blog spilling my guts to complete strangers around the globe, so who knows......

thanks again for all your suggestions, abu

 

[LaFemme]

And thanks for being so respectful and cool! :smile:

 

[AlteredEgo]

And thanks for being so respectful and cool! :smile:

I second this!