I'm a women and I don't get it. I go back and forth with my opinions. What makes me skeptical is the fact that they may ruin their chances with women of a certain quality that they would normally be interested in, because of this. It may be wrong but that's reality, you just need to ask various bi men on any conversations when coming out to straight women. This is a little more severe, as it's online forever, for everybody to look at, including friends, in laws and children . The harrasment and constant need to defend their partners sexuality and not let it effect them, would not be worth it unless they were emotionally involved before hand. He makes the decision and the women endure the after effects. Then when children come along and not it's all about protecting them from the inevitable. These men are curious ans desperate enough apparently, to risk it all. Take away the men who were addicts and the young men who were manipulated into it, as there was many.
Some then say that men are good for sex but women are for relationships. Well I call BS. If you can do the most intimate action that a human being can do, when you are in your most vulnerable state with a man, then you can have an everyday vanilla relationship. So women are walking wombs, and a nice cover story for the world to see, just to make life easier. Take away all types of stigma and a woman's womb, then what would happen? I'm annoyed when i hear this, and I don't know why others are not.
Maybe these men didn't or don't think about the future? Maybe it's all about the here and now with them and focusing on this amazing orgasm thats to be had? Maybe they don't care what they come up against, or their partners, as they plan to just rise above it. I just think that if more thought about the ramifications that could come from this job, whether they are gay or straight, then some of them may be alive today. What ever they do now going forward, I hope they make choices that will give them peace but will not draw anyone else in as collateral damage. What a messy situation to live in. I couldn't do it but I'm an insecure bitch. What's mine, is mine.
Aiden, I would still say protests too much. I think a lot of them needed therapy before porn and after, and Aiden is one of them.