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This should have stayed in the drafts
Nice body, unattractive face, unattractive attitude. He blocked me for implicitly sexual emojis, or fire emojis, I don't quite remember. I thought fire emojis were fine. I thought those were the rules of thirst traps, you don't type in english sentences, you resort to codified emoji hieroglyphs. My advice to anyone interacting with him is don't be gay and do not find him attractive, or if you do be very good at hiding it especially if you meet him in public.
I definitely need to work on my boundaries when it comes to instagram. It's for hot people to show off. it's a flesh-peddling site where you can show everything except tits (if female) and genitals (obvious contours of genitals are ok) to drive up engagement. One must be quietly horny and scroll along. They are allowed to sexualise or objectify themselves on their own terms, and they have the power to gate-keep who enjoys it or who gives it attention. It's all quite ugly and hypocritical but that's the social media/porn world we live in now. We uglies have to just... be ugly and anonymous and let the beautiful and powerful reign supreme.
As an ugly person (whose only option for dating involves invites to chemsex parties or anonymous hookups with other uglies) I use the internet far too much. I would never put myself in situations with hot people deliberately, yet there's a deluge of them on the internet to gawp at. Perhaps if life in the big city wasn't so miserable, lonely and atomised I wouldn't resort to sexualising asshole influencers from the safety of my own home.
I definitely need to work on my boundaries when it comes to instagram. It's for hot people to show off. it's a flesh-peddling site where you can show everything except tits (if female) and genitals (obvious contours of genitals are ok) to drive up engagement. One must be quietly horny and scroll along. They are allowed to sexualise or objectify themselves on their own terms, and they have the power to gate-keep who enjoys it or who gives it attention. It's all quite ugly and hypocritical but that's the social media/porn world we live in now. We uglies have to just... be ugly and anonymous and let the beautiful and powerful reign supreme.
As an ugly person (whose only option for dating involves invites to chemsex parties or anonymous hookups with other uglies) I use the internet far too much. I would never put myself in situations with hot people deliberately, yet there's a deluge of them on the internet to gawp at. Perhaps if life in the big city wasn't so miserable, lonely and atomised I wouldn't resort to sexualising asshole influencers from the safety of my own home.
Exactly, that’s why I just gave you mine, and you’re mad about it.
I “defend” performers that are being trashed by people who are mad, like you, because they refused their sexual advances.
You are not entitled to anything. If you think you are, you’re the problem in all this because you give those people more and more attention.
Bro, allow me to give you some advice, seek help, it's not healthy to think or even feel like that about yourself and about how you see others, therapy can help.
Have you considered moving past being horny for this guy to actually listening to his advise as applying in order to stop being ugly?
Do that challenge.
I'm absolutely sure he knows what he's doing with this grey underwear
![Snapinsta.app_video_An8d8SmYwTTfMD9PGwRolwnlLjL0ogEkhlQMhN8qEf6U-QlRsYEmHZQIlm3GwXhHv1AhCxd0ox...mp4]( "Snapinsta.app_video_An8d8SmYwTTfMD9PGwRolwnlLjL0ogEkhlQMhN8qEf6U-QlRsYEmHZQIlm3GwXhHv1AhCxd0ox...mp4")
It's probably a double edged sword. He knows that he's showing off but he's also quick with the "how dare you thirst after me". It's tiresome
'Bro,' talking to a psychologist does not alter the reality of one's body, face or disabilities. I actually find being truthful about myself quite empowering.
You should know that telling people with a lot of experience of therapy in the past to 'get therapy,' like they've never encountered the concept or indeed been through it is rather patronising.
Thanks for your 'advice' though. I'm sure you have a complete stranger on the internet's best interests at heart, or whatever.
It's funny how we live in a such an image, porn and social media saturated world, and yet you don't identify that as a problem. It's my fault something designed to be insidiously addictive and play on our basest instincts has affected me!
Priceless. What piffle! I'm sure therapists love you though, and i'm sure they love instagram. I daresay it keeps them in business with endless hoards of self-loathing teenagers paying their bills every year. Happy days!
Well he's entitled to show off, he's entitled to sexualise himself and present himself for public consumption, but nobody else is entitled to sexualise him...? I really don't know how this works. Seems inherently hypocritical and contradictory to me!
Stop! He's doing this almost naked posing for the love of the sport and it is a you problem (the Royal you that is) that you find it sexual. LOal
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Quite simply, he's a hypocrite.
Both sides are wrong. But I have some personal rules when finding IG of this kind of man:
1. Do I see other people commenting something I feel like commenting?
2. Does he gives these comments a like? (No - I will most likely not comment, then / Yes - I will comment, maybe he is ok with it, but...)
3. Is my comment appropriate or do I sound like a desperate, horny loser? Do I really have something interesting to comment or I just have my left hand on my dick?
I love myself too much to expose myself lacking common sense and lifting someone's ego. I'm sure most of those guys already think too much of themselves and some of you are frustrated because you can't inflate them even more.
1. Do I see other people commenting something I feel like commenting?
2. Does he gives these comments a like? (No - I will most likely not comment, then / Yes - I will comment, maybe he is ok with it, but...)
3. Is my comment appropriate or do I sound like a desperate, horny loser? Do I really have something interesting to comment or I just have my left hand on my dick?
I love myself too much to expose myself lacking common sense and lifting someone's ego. I'm sure most of those guys already think too much of themselves and some of you are frustrated because you can't inflate them even more.
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His flexing videos are great though
![Snapinsta.app_video_An_x5ziNO1cpu-gukXstcMngdB3soiHEqNFAwt46QjA63an9w5UczR2d85iQ65J4ibx2w27i30...mp4]( "Snapinsta.app_video_An_x5ziNO1cpu-gukXstcMngdB3soiHEqNFAwt46QjA63an9w5UczR2d85iQ65J4ibx2w27i30...mp4")
Voy a pedir algo muy específico, pero nadie vio un vídeo de él (que subió a tiktok) hace dos años aproximadamente, era corto y básicamente era el, acercándose a la cámara y abriéndose bruscamente la camisa y sacandosela del pantalón, después se queda mirando a la cámara y se le notaban esas tetas enormes que tiene y los abs, y listo. Es el video con el que lo conocí justamente pero al parecer el al tiempo lo eliminó jajaj
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