Alex Kent (@thebigkent) - English bodybuilder

[carmensandiego]

his body is so crazy

 

[XY_Z]

Nice body, unattractive face, unattractive attitude. He blocked me for implicitly sexual emojis, or fire emojis, I don't quite remember. I thought fire emojis were fine. I thought those were the rules of thirst traps, you don't type in english sentences, you resort to codified emoji hieroglyphs. My advice to anyone interacting with him is don't be gay and do not find him attractive, or if you do be very good at hiding it especially if you meet him in public.

I definitely need to work on my boundaries when it comes to instagram. It's for hot people to show off. it's a flesh-peddling site where you can show everything except tits (if female) and genitals (obvious contours of genitals are ok) to drive up engagement. One must be quietly horny and scroll along. They are allowed to sexualise or objectify themselves on their own terms, and they have the power to gate-keep who enjoys it or who gives it attention. It's all quite ugly and hypocritical but that's the social media/porn world we live in now. We uglies have to just... be ugly and anonymous and let the beautiful and powerful reign supreme.

As an ugly person (whose only option for dating involves invites to chemsex parties or anonymous hookups with other uglies) I use the internet far too much. I would never put myself in situations with hot people deliberately, yet there's a deluge of them on the internet to gawp at. Perhaps if life in the big city wasn't so miserable, lonely and atomised I wouldn't resort to sexualising asshole influencers from the safety of my own home.

Cut it all out. It's a clusterfuck of insecurity, wrong expectations and marketing. These guys want numbers - they don't care about "feelings." If you want a "human" experience, it ain't gonna be found here.

 

[deleted25028341]

He’s just vile. Vile. He’s rude, arrogant and privileged. Not to mention the whole “here’s me in my underwear but please don’t mention my body” attitude.

He recently coached an Insta-gay from London. Didn’t even follow him back despite following all his straight clients. Hes just vile

 

[iriome]

He’s just vile. Vile. He’s rude, arrogant and privileged. Not to mention the whole “here’s me in my underwear but please don’t mention my body” attitude.

He recently coached an Insta-gay from London. Didn’t even follow him back despite following all his straight clients. Hes just vile

who hurt you?

 

[skeldare]

He’s just vile. Vile. He’s rude, arrogant and privileged. Not to mention the whole “here’s me in my underwear but please don’t mention my body” attitude.

He recently coached an Insta-gay from London. Didn’t even follow him back despite following all his straight clients. Hes just vile

Is this an attempt to say he's homophobic because he didn't follow the guy on Instagram?

 

[Darthchi]

Is this an attempt to say he's homophobic because he didn't follow the guy on Instagram?

He should have followed Rupaul too you know. Not following Rupaul is MAGA….

 

[XanderCage]

He's CLEARLY homophobic. Very. You're blind and/or delusional if you don't see that.

 

[Albedo bing]

He's CLEARLY homophobic. Very. You're blind and/or delusional if you don't see that.

You're most probably here because of his looks, not his personality. He's homophobic or not isn't gonna change how he looks.

 

[MainWater]

Damn, his defenders who believes they will get fucked by him are already here

 

[iriome]

Damn, his defenders who believes they will get fucked by him are already here

Honey, it's the ones calling the guy homophobic that are upset for they're not going to get fucked by yet another straight they fantasize about.

 

[Yasuke9]

You "pick me" gays are exhausting! You realize he thinks you're degenerate too right? He's not sitting by his computer going "oh wow look the ones defending me are clearly 'good ones'" or whatever you're fantasizing. No idea what you think you're getting out of this but it's bizarre

 

[Askyourdaddy]

If jerking off to someone you assume is homophobic is wrong then I don't wanna be right

 

[Yasuke9]

Of course it's fine to jerk off to him. Just cringe to defend him from every criticism on here.

 

[WisteriaDay]

All I've seen is him not entertaining people who think they can sexually harass a man because he's posing in trunks. So I am still waiting on some receipts of him actually being homophobic. And I'm being 100% serious here; I unfollow bodybuilders for being problematic all the time... it's a shame, really!

 

[Yasuke9]

All I've seen is him not entertaining people who think they can sexually harass a man because he's posing in trunks. So I am still waiting on some receipts of him actually being homophobic. And I'm being 100% serious here; I unfollow bodybuilders for being problematic all the time... it's a shame, really!

People on this thread have said he blocked them for no reason, without them even messaging him. And I 100% believe it because I once "liked" a story of his, something I do mindlessly all the time while scrolling through all the new stories every morning and got a long stream messages from him about how I was "objectifying" him and being "disrespectful" to him and "I didn't need to know you jerk off to me". Keep in mind I never said anything about jerking off! I literally just tapped the little heart in the bottom right without even thinking about it. I had a long back and forth with him where I told him straight up he was being ridiculous. I truly have no idea why he did not block me even though he has blocked others. The only reason I'm not sharing screen caps is because I'm still not blocked somehow and one of you "pick me" stans would absolutely go tattle to him so he blocks me. Even now if he monitors this thread i may have already said enough that he finds the chat and blocks me.

But liking a picture isn't "sexual harassment" and his response was completely insane and all of you insisting it's normal are as ridiculous as he is.

 

[WisteriaDay]

People on this thread have said he blocked them for no reason, without them even messaging him. And I 100% believe it because I once "liked" a story of his, something I do mindlessly all the time while scrolling through all the new stories every morning and got a long stream messages from him about how I was "objectifying" him and being "disrespectful" to him and "I didn't need to know you jerk off to me". Keep in mind I never said anything about jerking off! I literally just tapped the little heart in the bottom right without even thinking about it. I had a long back and forth with him where I told him straight up he was being ridiculous. I truly have no idea why he did not block me even though he has blocked others. The only reason I'm not sharing screen caps is because I'm still not blocked somehow and one of you "pick me" stans would absolutely go tattle to him so he blocks me. Even now if he monitors this thread i may have already said enough that he finds the chat and blocks me.

But liking a picture isn't "sexual harassment" and his response was completely insane and all of you insisting it's normal are as ridiculous as he is.

Forgive me for being a little skeptical, but how on Earth did it start with Liking a Post, and escalate to "I didn't need to know you jerk off to me". Are you *sure* you aren't omitting anything? Like some eggplant emojis or some *yes daddies?* Is your IG name GooningBatorGay69? I highly doubt he accuses every single person who likes his posts of being a muscle worshipping baguette lol

 

[Yasuke9]

Forgive me for being a little skeptical, but how on Earth did it start with Liking a Post, and escalate to "I didn't need to know you jerk off to me". Are you *sure* you aren't omitting anything? Like some eggplant emojis or some *yes daddies?* Is your IG name GooningBatorGay69? I highly doubt he accuses every single person who likes his posts of being a muscle worshipping baguette lol

No. I don't do any of that stuff anyway but even the minor stuff I do often send to IG bodybuilders like "wow your chest looks awesome dude" I specifically would *never* send to him because I already knew from this thread and his stories he's insanely sensitive. My IG name is a generic play on my initials I've used for all social media since I was in high school. My IG DOES clearly show that I'm gay. Plenty of pics of me at drag shows, pride events, vacationing with my ex if you go through it but nothing explicit or unusual. I don't take thirst traps. I was genuinely shocked at his comments about jerking off. It came midway through the back and forth out of nowhere. He accused me of saying it to him early in the conversation but I did not! Mostly I was saying I just admire bodybuilders, it's not even fully a sexual thing for me, and he was saying stuff like "if you actually respected the sport you'd watch woman bodybuilders too but you don't, you just objectify the men"

But again multiple people on this thread have said that he blocked them just because they sent a heart emoji or some people claim they didn't interact with him at all and still caught a block. That is not normal, and I follow A LOT of bodybuilders too. Like I said I consider it luck he didn't block me or maybe he was just busy and forgot, idk. I have not messaged or interacted with any of his content in any way since that day because as weird as he is, he IS nice to look at. This was more than a year ago.

 

[iriome]

the odds of you harassing him vs him being homophobic are exactly the same right now, but he’s not the one here campaigning against someone…

Buddy, you’re sore and its not on the right place, move on, it happens.

 

[Jop88]

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[Jop88]

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