Abagnale12
Superior Member
I'm not the best at judging guys but you look normal to me. If I can suggest anything it's that hygiene, and how you dress helps. If you look good you'll feel good. I'd say lose the nose ring, get a haircut, dress nicer. And one thing some people don't like to admit it's how your body looks. Plenty of "diesel" guys get laid and are ugly. If those same guys were fat they wouldn't get as much action.
Start hitting the gym and don't quit. It will take a while but before you know it a year has passed and your body will look good. This is not only for the looks, it's for your own health. You will be healthier and you will feel the difference. If you look good you feel good. I let myself get a huge gut and noticed the difference not only with my wife but with other girls. I got nowhere near as much attention as before. I'm now 20 pounds lighter and just started the gym to build some muscle. Also it's about confidence. Don't be an arrogant prick but know your worth... nobody likes a Debbie downer.
Start hitting the gym and don't quit. It will take a while but before you know it a year has passed and your body will look good. This is not only for the looks, it's for your own health. You will be healthier and you will feel the difference. If you look good you feel good. I let myself get a huge gut and noticed the difference not only with my wife but with other girls. I got nowhere near as much attention as before. I'm now 20 pounds lighter and just started the gym to build some muscle. Also it's about confidence. Don't be an arrogant prick but know your worth... nobody likes a Debbie downer.