Am i really that ugly?

[Abagnale12]

I'm not the best at judging guys but you look normal to me. If I can suggest anything it's that hygiene, and how you dress helps. If you look good you'll feel good. I'd say lose the nose ring, get a haircut, dress nicer. And one thing some people don't like to admit it's how your body looks. Plenty of "diesel" guys get laid and are ugly. If those same guys were fat they wouldn't get as much action.

Start hitting the gym and don't quit. It will take a while but before you know it a year has passed and your body will look good. This is not only for the looks, it's for your own health. You will be healthier and you will feel the difference. If you look good you feel good. I let myself get a huge gut and noticed the difference not only with my wife but with other girls. I got nowhere near as much attention as before. I'm now 20 pounds lighter and just started the gym to build some muscle. Also it's about confidence. Don't be an arrogant prick but know your worth... nobody likes a Debbie downer.

 

[italianguy606]

Dude, I agree with most of the posters above, there's nothing ugly about you. You've got a kind of "geeky" look going on: but do you realize how many people these days are very turned on by that look?
What I disagree with: you don't have to spend a year working out at the gym before you'll be an attractive catch. You just need to tweak your look a little bit. The face jewelry needs to go, I think: that sends an off-putting vibe out, like you're out of sync with society. A single, subtle piece of jewelry (on the nose or ear) could work, but don't overkill on that. Same with hoodies: nothing wrong with them, esp for guys your age: just get a nice-fitting hoodie and accessorize! (You can do it very cheaply at Marshalls or similar place.)
Look at "Mr. Robot"! He's the heart-throb of many a teenager these days!

 

[sundancer]

I might have missed someone saying this, so if its a repeat, forgive me. . It may not have anything to do with how you look, but more about your body language. . if you don't look approachable, people won't come talk to you. . So, you might ask a friend or two "Hey, when out, do I look approachable?" Smile, make eye contact.. . You are worried about how you look, when in fact, how you look may not play into it at all, it may be that people see you as standoffish and so won't come up and talk to you. Just my two cents. Good luck, hope you are able to attract the right people to you.

 

[FleshFan69]

Everywhere I go people just look at me with disgust. I’m gay/queer and whenever I go to a bar or a club people just stare at me or ignore me. I find it hard to approach people enough as it is so this makes it worse

I’m 21 and am at college so I go to class a lot. My fashion sense is boring. I love wearing hoodies and boots.


Please be honest. I need constrictive criticism to work on my look.

You are not at all unattractive. When I was younger I struggled with social anxiety because I too had an exotic and un-common look and people frequently looked (stared?) at me because they found my face interesting. I'm sure it's the same with you.
Also, you have a very youthful face with particularly sensitive, open eyes so perhaps people in bars are looking because you seem younger than the legal age.
Often our insecurities mis-translate and lead us to misinterpret our readings of people's faces and intentions and amplify those insecurities as a result. I know I'm guilty of that even today. Be aware of that. Even change the script in your head to a dialogue of, "They find me interesting."

I'll tell you something my mother once told me that stuck with me because of its wisdom. She said that it would be worse if absolutely no one took note of you or noticed you. Be proud of not blending in with the crowd.

Experiment with clothing, hairstyles and accessories that speak to you and above all be you. It's more difficult than those two small words would have one think but nevertheless it's a pursuit that is well worth the effort. BE YOU. Oh, and a big hug.

P.S. I quite like the glasses!

 

[Hairylegs]

Nah, not just you, but since I'm not attracted to men I didn't want to critique.

Hey Tex, me too re the turn off, and I am most definitely attracted to men. Piercings are gross mutilations and a major turnoff. Although I will admit that the pulling a guy around by his PA penis ring does excite the perv in me. As is hooking a battery up to a guy's nipple bar.

 

[sodominsane]

not remotely close to ugly....and I think the piercings make you unique...and are often good convo starters

 

[rtg]

The piercings for me are a total turn-off. Not many people mentioned them so maybe that's just me

I’m with you there. I decided not to mention it as I know some people like piercings. But it’s not my jam. It seems kind of juvenile to me.

 

[MisterB]

What is ugly? What is attractive? What's ugly to one can be attractive to another; what's attractive to one can be ugly to another.

You are young. You'll grow into yourself and hopefully one day realize that you are YOU. YOU. The one person out there who's like no one else. YOU are special. Embrace it. Maximize it. Work it.

Set some goals. Take stock of where you are now, and where you want to be in say, six months, one year, five years, ten years, and so on. Now, what are you doing to reach that goal(s)? Want a better job? Maybe need some schooling. Want to look better naked? Maybe work out, and/or watch what you eat.

My point? Posting a woe is me am I ugly or am I fat or is my penis big or thick enough or is my ass perky is wallowing. I don't know you, but I'll bet you're better than that, eh? Get busy finding YOU!

I wish you the best!

 

[twoton]

To be honest, before I clicked your pics I was prepared to see an ogre.

Dude--you look completely o.k., good, fine, etc.
I'd definitely lose the piercing shit, though.

Remember: beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I know a young woman who thinks she's found the perfect guy in her boyfriend. She says, "He's so nice AND so good looking!" I know another young woman who looks at him and says, "I fail to see what she sees in him."

 

[igotthebigone]

Everywhere I go people just look at me with disgust. I’m gay/queer and whenever I go to a bar or a club people just stare at me or ignore me. I find it hard to approach people enough as it is so this makes it worse

I’m 21 and am at college so I go to class a lot. My fashion sense is boring. I love wearing hoodies and boots.


Please be honest. I need constrictive criticism to work on my look.

You're cute

 

[693987]

I think piercings can be attractive, though I know plenty of folks (like many who have posted in this thread) do not. You look as though you may have a little extra weight, like many people do. You do have a very youthful face. I do not find your facial features ugly. Your post does imply to me you may have some problems with confidence. If you want to change up your wardrobe, great! If not, it doesn't sound out of the ordinary, especially for a student.

 

[Infernal]

You're not ugly at all. What I notice is that you look VERY young, and I mean underage young. That may put off people from approaching you. It's not a bad thing, so enjoy it. I got carded into my mid-30's and then it all went to hell

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I think piercings can be attractive

+1

I find various forms of body modification attractive.

 

[nailz]

I'm fine with piercings, but I don't think the ones in the third pic are attractive.
The more subtle nose ring in the second one looks much better to me

 

[rayray]

Everywhere I go people just look at me with disgust. I’m gay/queer and whenever I go to a bar or a club people just stare at me or ignore me. I find it hard to approach people enough as it is so this makes it worse

I’m 21 and am at college so I go to class a lot. My fashion sense is boring. I love wearing hoodies and boots.


Please be honest. I need constrictive criticism to work on my look.

I read every post on here and the one thing I agree on that most everyone has said is that no you aren't ugly . I looked at your gallery to try and catch a bit more of you but was not successful . You had a zillion cock and ball pics . One thing I did notice was the thousands of postings and the thousands of likes you have accumulated since you turned 18, 3 years ago . Youre like a good football team on paper, but a lousy one out on the field . I hope you understand what I am saying . Yes you look very, very young for your age, that in itself is a hindrance Unfair as it may seem most college girls ( not all ) are looking for that super cool looking jock.( most of which are dumber than dumb) I'm a guy and that's what I was attracted to too, (I was stupid looking for cool looking dumb) go figure . I'm in my 50s now. When I was coming of age I had a few brothers who helped me through those awkward looking years . One of my older brothers took me to a barber and told the barber to give me a new look . Oh and I gotta say, back then we got exercise naturally outdoors . Tag football, hide n seek , freeze tag , softball . Toilet papering friends houses and running all hours of the night . (lol) I was a competitive diver and on the swim team . Who needed a gym back then? We got exercise naturally .My fashion style were Levi straight legs and a t-shirt for most of my youth . You kids today do not have the social interaction that most people my age had back then growing up in the 70s and 80s . So I guess what I'm saying is, if you are one of those kids today that are stuck behind a computer behind a closed bedroom door and most of your socialism is done on computer apps. So I guess the question you are asking total strangers is maybe a question you should be asking, I'm hoping a few close friends that you have .

 

[Nexolaris]

You're not ugly but to be honest I think you're not tapping the full potential your body has on offer.
In my opinion, you shouldn't overdo it with those facial piercings, and I'm sure you'd be able to find a nicer pair of glasses than the one you're currently wearing. Also, as has been mentioned before, a little more attention to working out and your eating habits could do wonders for you.

 

[Anton565]

Have to run to work but thought this was important enough to stop and skim...

IMO, your glasses and haircut aren't flattering. But your face is fine. Clothes? Just my preference, but try fewer patterns and more solid colours.

Facial iron? Maybe that IS an issue, but I think haircut and glasses are a bigger deal.

My major appearance issues and i have to get ready for work now. More later if you're interested.

 

[EllieP]

A lousy self image is a downward spiral. And it affects your personality. I was wear you are now when I was in school. No dates, no suitors, nothing. I thought I was pretty outgoing, but all I had were girl friends. My Mum had to say I was pretty because she was my Mum, I thought.

You are not ugly. First, face that fact and go forward with that. Get a little bit of confidence and you'll be on your way! Trust me. Once I finally got confidence (when I was 23!) things changed for the better! They will for you, too!

 

[Snakebyte]

+1

I find various forms of body modification attractive.

Definitely. But tbh I wouldn't like my girl to have a nose ring. A nice lil stud is totally fine. But a heavy ring hanging down from her nose? No thanks.

 

[mtguy1972]

Not ugly, and while I would certainly not be rude to you, I wasn't "attracted" to you. As others mentioned, the piercings were a turn off. But for some it may be fine. I was also put off by the two fingers in front of your face. The whole selfie, narcissistic vibe really puts me off and seems to reflect insecurity. Try a natural smile or neutral face. Your hair didn't really have a style-get a good, more modern cut and put some effort into styling it a bit. You also came off as "gay" or possibly effeminate, and I tend to be attracted to more masculine types. No judgment, just my tastes, and for everything I mentioned, there is probably someone who disagrees and sees it as attractive, so take all these comments with a grain of salt. Be yourself in a genuine way, and you will attract friends and partners. Also, people's responses may be about your behavior and not your looks. If you are loud, fake, annoying, socially inappropriate, etc, that may elicit such reactions so consider that as well. Good luck my friend!