Bathhouses Good? Bad?

[VinT60]

So I visited my first bathhouse, Club Orlando 15 plus years ago. I was nervous, scared and intimidated but very curious. I exploded the steam room, sauna, maze and more. I was approached by several men but I never did anything, spending a total of maybe an hour there.
Several years later, I visited Flex Phoenix. When I went to check in the attendant asked if I had ever been to a bathhouse before (I guess I looked nervous) and even though I had, I felt like the proper answer was no. So he said, "Come on back and take a tour" it was a Fri afternoon and the crowd wouldn't arrive for hours. So he led me around, showing me the amenities, explaining the rules and just making me feel relaxed and comfortable.
Now after our tour in which he would ask me questions regarding my experiences, preferences and different things we were back at the check in and he suggested a Private Room with a shower, a one month membership, an enema hose, poppers and lube. All in it was close to a hundred.
He escorted me back to my room, asked if I needed anything and took off.
So I explored, it was basically dead, people not off work, so I was chill'n in my room stroking to some gay porn with the door closed and it had to be about 6ish someone is knocking on my door, I opened the door and the attendant is there with a change of clothes and asked if he could shower in my room because the staff isn't supposed to use the public shower.
He was sexy, he was kind so I let him in. He walks into the bathroom, turns on the shower and says "Hey you can come in with me" I walked into the steamy hot small 2 x 2 shower stall and I'm poked by his semi hard 9" thick monster!
He fed me his cock, teaching me how to swallow it slowly without pressure or fear of gagging or worse.
He licked my tight hole for a good 30 minutes explaining how to use poppers and when. He put on a condom, lubed me up, instructed me to slowly inhale in each nostril, hold and then very slowly entered me as I released the fresh poppers from my lungs. A huge euphoric rush as he slowly but firmly fucked me from behind. After 5 minutes, I was riding him like a champ! Every position we could manage, we both came multiple times over the hour we spent together.
Exhausted, he left, thanked me and said "Now, you don't have to be nervous, you have already done more than you expected so if nothing else happens at least you are satisfied."
And he was right! I was exhausted, I had another 9 hours on my 12 hour rental so I closed and locked the door and fell asleep.
After, waking I jumped in the shower, use my hose to clean things up and feeling refreshed I figured I'd venture out and get some fresh towels. Place was getting busy, there were men in every area and amenity but not like active.
I got my towels, walked back in my room, I has left my door open but I was only hanging up towels ... This well built toned man walked in stroking his cock and asked if I was a top or bottom! Like wow! Let's just get to it, no pleasantries, no warmth ... So I turned around, I stared at him and without a reaction I dropped to my knees, grabbing my poppers I sucked him until he asked to FUCK me. Of course!!! So I lubed up, he put on a condom and he fucked my good and hard!!!
He left, I'm exhausted, I shower, and while drying off I could hear the place has really started to pop!
I wrap my towel around my throbbing, bulging cock and walk into the maze. There in total darkness, someone lightly grabs my cock and leads me to his mouth. As he's blowing me (he's seated on a bench) another guy is fingering my ass. Next thing ya know, I'm standing on the bench my cock and nut sack in this guy's mouth all while having my ass eaten!!!
I was fucked 6 times that night!!!
Since that time I've visited clubs in Phoenix, Dallas, Houston, Chicago, Georgia, Vegas and I have visited Club Orlando since to redeem myself.
So I personally LOVE BATHHOUSES!!!
How bout you??

 

[GS_PL]

I've never been to one, and any time I've e-mailed, I NEVER get any reply back. From your description, these clearly are the places to be to get fucked.

If you ever find out the name of the studs that won any of the "Mr. Flex Phoenix" contests, please share!

 

[VinT60]

They don't check emails. Go to the website and figure out what it's gonna cost, at least get a cheap room, that way if you want to chill and have a lil privacy you can.
Bring flip flops and just go.
Weekends are always good time.
Have fun

 

[jaybee0560]

So I visited my first bathhouse, Club Orlando 15 plus years ago. I was nervous, scared and intimidated but very curious. I exploded the steam room, sauna, maze and more. I was approached by several men but I never did anything, spending a total of maybe an hour there.
Several years later, I visited Flex Phoenix. When I went to check in the attendant asked if I had ever been to a bathhouse before (I guess I looked nervous) and even though I had, I felt like the proper answer was no. So he said, "Come on back and take a tour" it was a Fri afternoon and the crowd wouldn't arrive for hours. So he led me around, showing me the amenities, explaining the rules and just making me feel relaxed and comfortable.
Now after our tour in which he would ask me questions regarding my experiences, preferences and different things we were back at the check in and he suggested a Private Room with a shower, a one month membership, an enema hose, poppers and lube. All in it was close to a hundred.
He escorted me back to my room, asked if I needed anything and took off.
So I explored, it was basically dead, people not off work, so I was chill'n in my room stroking to some gay porn with the door closed and it had to be about 6ish someone is knocking on my door, I opened the door and the attendant is there with a change of clothes and asked if he could shower in my room because the staff isn't supposed to use the public shower.
He was sexy, he was kind so I let him in. He walks into the bathroom, turns on the shower and says "Hey you can come in with me" I walked into the steamy hot small 2 x 2 shower stall and I'm poked by his semi hard 9" thick monster!
He fed me his cock, teaching me how to swallow it slowly without pressure or fear of gagging or worse.
He licked my tight hole for a good 30 minutes explaining how to use poppers and when. He put on a condom, lubed me up, instructed me to slowly inhale in each nostril, hold and then very slowly entered me as I released the fresh poppers from my lungs. A huge euphoric rush as he slowly but firmly fucked me from behind. After 5 minutes, I was riding him like a champ! Every position we could manage, we both came multiple times over the hour we spent together.
Exhausted, he left, thanked me and said "Now, you don't have to be nervous, you have already done more than you expected so if nothing else happens at least you are satisfied."
And he was right! I was exhausted, I had another 9 hours on my 12 hour rental so I closed and locked the door and fell asleep.
After, waking I jumped in the shower, use my hose to clean things up and feeling refreshed I figured I'd venture out and get some fresh towels. Place was getting busy, there were men in every area and amenity but not like active.
I got my towels, walked back in my room, I has left my door open but I was only hanging up towels ... This well built toned man walked in stroking his cock and asked if I was a top or bottom! Like wow! Let's just get to it, no pleasantries, no warmth ... So I turned around, I stared at him and without a reaction I dropped to my knees, grabbing my poppers I sucked him until he asked to FUCK me. Of course!!! So I lubed up, he put on a condom and he fucked my good and hard!!!
He left, I'm exhausted, I shower, and while drying off I could hear the place has really started to pop!
I wrap my towel around my throbbing, bulging cock and walk into the maze. There in total darkness, someone lightly grabs my cock and leads me to his mouth. As he's blowing me (he's seated on a bench) another guy is fingering my ass. Next thing ya know, I'm standing on the bench my cock and nut sack in this guy's mouth all while having my ass eaten!!!
I was fucked 6 times that night!!!
Since that time I've visited clubs in Phoenix, Dallas, Houston, Chicago, Georgia, Vegas and I have visited Club Orlando since to redeem myself.
So I personally LOVE BATHHOUSES!!!
How bout you??

Started going to Bathhouses about 20 years ago when I was living in Chicago for a bit.
Spent a year working in the burbs with no real local mates and nothing much else to do so, looked up what sort of cruise spots were about and SteamWorks piqued my interest.

My experience was that steamworks was pretty great. On a weekend it would get pretty busy so, you had to line up and wait to get in - but once in - the place went off.

At the time I was an early 30's gym rat Aussie living in the USA when being an Aussie was a bit of a selling point. If anything - it could be a little overwhelming with people crowding for a grope. Before I got used to what the whole gig was like I spent most of my time walking fast, avoiding eye contact until I partially scoped enuff of the talent to start targeting in on what I wanted rather than swiping away a bunch of unsolicited prying hands.

Developed a love for Bathhouses simply because they're easy, if you dont wanna get laid you can always watch other people fuck or just sit back and jerk off in the porn lounge.

I'm now mid 50's and an aussie living in Australia so, operate on a much more discrete level of celebrity I guess. Still in decent shape and still ok looking so - still tend to do well but, its different than it was in both good and bad ways.

I think people experience of a bathhouse depend on a great many things tho - the variety and number of men that your city brings to this space - the attitude of the blokes (I find Melb sauna's way way easier than say - Sydney ones) - what you bring to the game - the hotter you are the more attention you are gonna get - some of that will be welcome attention and a lot of it wont.

if you are not appealing at all - It can be pretty brutal. Having said that - appealing isn't one thing, lid for every pot and all that and different nights work differently for different types - its all a bit of a mystery.


So - you need to have a pretty thick skin - adopt a pretty relaxed attitude to your expectations. Stand your ground on what you will and wont do and kinda go with the flow.

I'm getting to love getting fucked in the dark rooms these days cos I love the idea of other people getting fucked near me - being able to bail when I want without worrying about whether the other guy will have his feelings hurt - and I do love a group gang bang.

Having said all that - if anyone is in Melb - Gonna hit up Wet this arvo probably from around 2 to 3 - come on down!

 

[aussieguy2023x]

Late 20s here - have had amazing bathhouse experiences!!
Similar to @jaybee0560 I started out going in the US - first bbc was at a bathhouse (fucking incredible) - a lot of fun ever since! Its a great way to have a good time and try new experiences - very freeing.

Sometimes there's rejection, but all part of the experience

Have taken a lot of anon cock at bathhouses, best way to get bred in my opinion (more loads the better in an evening). Recommend for all

 

[NullGuy]

From what I understand, NYC was once the flagship for bathhouses, but these days they’re considered obsolete due to the apps and overall tolerance.

I did attend them here when nightlife was getting redundant and venues were getting shut down left and right. To make a long story short, the quality and clientele declined due to further changes like stricter house rules, deteriorating infrastructure and than the pandemic.

One key location was shut down, so it’s just one left with the regulars who are a toss up between fetishists (unhealthy fetishes) and meth addicts. They can be rude people too, those regulars. You’re better off (and safer) on the apps.

 

[headhunted_]

So I visited my first bathhouse, Club Orlando 15 plus years ago. I was nervous, scared and intimidated but very curious. I exploded the steam room, sauna, maze and more. I was approached by several men but I never did anything, spending a total of maybe an hour there.
Several years later, I visited Flex Phoenix. When I went to check in the attendant asked if I had ever been to a bathhouse before (I guess I looked nervous) and even though I had, I felt like the proper answer was no. So he said, "Come on back and take a tour" it was a Fri afternoon and the crowd wouldn't arrive for hours. So he led me around, showing me the amenities, explaining the rules and just making me feel relaxed and comfortable.
Now after our tour in which he would ask me questions regarding my experiences, preferences and different things we were back at the check in and he suggested a Private Room with a shower, a one month membership, an enema hose, poppers and lube. All in it was close to a hundred.
He escorted me back to my room, asked if I needed anything and took off.
So I explored, it was basically dead, people not off work, so I was chill'n in my room stroking to some gay porn with the door closed and it had to be about 6ish someone is knocking on my door, I opened the door and the attendant is there with a change of clothes and asked if he could shower in my room because the staff isn't supposed to use the public shower.
He was sexy, he was kind so I let him in. He walks into the bathroom, turns on the shower and says "Hey you can come in with me" I walked into the steamy hot small 2 x 2 shower stall and I'm poked by his semi hard 9" thick monster!
He fed me his cock, teaching me how to swallow it slowly without pressure or fear of gagging or worse.
He licked my tight hole for a good 30 minutes explaining how to use poppers and when. He put on a condom, lubed me up, instructed me to slowly inhale in each nostril, hold and then very slowly entered me as I released the fresh poppers from my lungs. A huge euphoric rush as he slowly but firmly fucked me from behind. After 5 minutes, I was riding him like a champ! Every position we could manage, we both came multiple times over the hour we spent together.
Exhausted, he left, thanked me and said "Now, you don't have to be nervous, you have already done more than you expected so if nothing else happens at least you are satisfied."
And he was right! I was exhausted, I had another 9 hours on my 12 hour rental so I closed and locked the door and fell asleep.
After, waking I jumped in the shower, use my hose to clean things up and feeling refreshed I figured I'd venture out and get some fresh towels. Place was getting busy, there were men in every area and amenity but not like active.
I got my towels, walked back in my room, I has left my door open but I was only hanging up towels ... This well built toned man walked in stroking his cock and asked if I was a top or bottom! Like wow! Let's just get to it, no pleasantries, no warmth ... So I turned around, I stared at him and without a reaction I dropped to my knees, grabbing my poppers I sucked him until he asked to FUCK me. Of course!!! So I lubed up, he put on a condom and he fucked my good and hard!!!
He left, I'm exhausted, I shower, and while drying off I could hear the place has really started to pop!
I wrap my towel around my throbbing, bulging cock and walk into the maze. There in total darkness, someone lightly grabs my cock and leads me to his mouth. As he's blowing me (he's seated on a bench) another guy is fingering my ass. Next thing ya know, I'm standing on the bench my cock and nut sack in this guy's mouth all while having my ass eaten!!!
I was fucked 6 times that night!!!
Since that time I've visited clubs in Phoenix, Dallas, Houston, Chicago, Georgia, Vegas and I have visited Club Orlando since to redeem myself.
So I personally LOVE BATHHOUSES!!!
How bout you??

Hey that was so hot! Loved hearing how your experience went. I've never been to one myself but after reading about your hot night I think I would love them to!! Thanks for sharing

 

[quicksilver1]

After college, I went to a bathhouse for the first time. I was a bit nervous. In the locker area, there were already a few guys changing. Get naked and wrap a towel around your waist. I walked around to view the layout and to see how it really looked like based on the online descriptions. I looked in a few private rooms but wasn’t looking for that. I watched a couple guys shower, and that was hot. I went to this room that had a raised floor that was all cushions and stayed in a corner. There was a tv with a video on and other guys in the large room too. I was getting hard watching the porn video and could see others aroused as well. A guy sat across from me and with one leg up, I could see his hard dick under his towel. So I did the same. Another guy was to my right. We all ended up jacking off watching each other. I stayed there watching other guys who played solo or were coupled up. I wanted to just be a voyeur, and it was perfect. I eventually left and went into the tv lounge. No sexual activity at all, regular chatting, and everyone in their towel. I finally decided to explore the dark area that was like a maze. A lot of guys in here. I watched guys getting blown through the glory holes, guys being fucked. So much to watch, I was edging myself, didn’t want to cum yet. In a hallway I’m watching another guy at a glory hole, and I am hard and stroking a little. I thought I’d go to the showers to eventually relieve myself. All of a sudden I hear a guy say to stick it through. I hesitate because I wasn’t exactly looking for that. He says he wants to suck my cock. The guy I was watching says it’s ok. I have no idea why a stranger saying that made me more comfortable, but it did. It was full force. I tell him I’m going to cum, but he doesn’t stop, and he swallows my load. He finally releases my dick, and I stand back against the wall in this bliss. No idea who was on the other side. That was a good day.

 

[theplayerking]

Huge fan. Before I met my husband I would always check out the local bathhouses whenever I was in a new city to sample the local dick and ass. Some were better than others, but great to land in a strange city and find guys to play with, even if you don’t know the language. Universal hand gestures are enough to get the job done.

 

[Capitolhillguy]

In my 20s till my 40's I went regularly. I had a lot of fun and was safe and caught nothing. I was very handsome so I did well there. I don't know what they are like now. I am not cut out for the emotional ups and downs of a boyfriend so it was a good solution. Just be aware you will rarely get a "boyfriend" experience there. I hired escorts occasionally for the kissy/huggy stuff and it was very therapeutic.

 

[chrisrobin]

Back in the day I did all the bathhouses and saunas and gained so much sexual experience and satisfaction. My favourite, now demolished, was a Victorian edifice and full of white tiles but without the benefit of private rooms. So all sucking fucking was on view, and, after the first time it didn't matter that you had an audience, it didn't matter that you were the audience taking a breather before going in for another round of slutish behaviour. Being versatile helped a lot as did having an eager mouth so being fucked doggy while sucking a guy was not unusual - and there were the daisy chains as well. A great place to visit (twice a week) for total sexual satisfaction, the atmosphere so relaxed that automatically I was relaxed and able to accommodate cock after cock after cock. The other advantage was that the clientele varied so there were more cocks to try and different cum to swallow.

 

[Capitolhillguy]

Back in the day I did all the bathhouses and saunas and gained so much sexual experience and satisfaction. My favourite, now demolished, was a Victorian edifice and full of white tiles but without the benefit of private rooms. So all sucking fucking was on view, and, after the first time it didn't matter that you had an audience, it didn't matter that you were the audience taking a breather before going in for another round of slutish behaviour. Being versatile helped a lot as did having an eager mouth so being fucked doggy while sucking a guy was not unusual - and there were the daisy chains as well. A great place to visit (twice a week) for total sexual satisfaction, the atmosphere so relaxed that automatically I was relaxed and able to accommodate cock after cock after cock. The other advantage was that the clientele varied so there were more cocks to try and different cum to swallow.

I hated people that wanted privacy only. I got so miffed as I loved to watch. I really got pissed as I started eating the ass of a guy who was fucking a bottom bare and he got up and left. He could have politely signaled me to stop. Just because conversation during sex is out at the baths doesn't mean you can't communicate if needed. Frankly, if anyone wanted to eat my ass I'd never protest.

 

[678wsb]

I've always wanted to try

 

[Sandymat]

Always thought of it as a gay naked fun house , with twist and turns, various lighting play areas and glory holes .. I love it

 

[al1011]

The only issue I had with Korean Bath House, people out of shape lol.. My stomach hurt lol

 

[Saboteur]

Anyone in LA looking to try one? I’m college age looking for guys around my age to go with.

 

[joey21]

I hated people that wanted privacy only. I got so miffed as I loved to watch. I really got pissed as I started eating the ass of a guy who was fucking a bottom bare and he got up and left. He could have politely signaled me to stop. Just because conversation during sex is out at the baths doesn't mean you can't communicate if needed. Frankly, if anyone wanted to eat my ass I'd never protest.

I realized early on that I didn't really crave relationships. Sure I've had a few but all of them were "organic" - I meet someone in a social setting, we hit it off, start dating. I've never done the entire "looking for relationship" schtick. So bathhouses hit the spot for me. I could visit one as often as I wanted, and hookup with a bunch of guys, and leave it all behind until next time. My last relationship was with a woman and we dated for a little over a year. When we broke up and I went to a bathhouse for the first time again, it was like coming home lol. Not only because of the casual settings, but because I've only had pussy for a year so I defo went on a cum-eating binge haha.

 

[deleted22110431]

I’ve just recently been to a new (to me) bathhouse a couple times. I like the vibe, and have questions.

I’ve mostly fooled around before at the gym steam room/sauna or a public, non-sexual Korean spa or Japanese public bath (men only sections). I enjoy the public aspect, and the anonymity of jerking off in public with other guys, watching and being watched, and maybe the threat of getting caught.

At the bath house, is there a way to signal that this is what I’m into there too? Given the setting, at this location anyway, guys seem to be looking for some more one-on-one time than I’m looking for. I’m a look but don’t touch guy myself, mainly. No kissing or genital touching, (I’m partnered) and I don’t really touch anyone.

Any thoughts?

 

[joey21]

At the bath house, is there a way to signal that this is what I’m into there too? Given the setting, at this location anyway, guys seem to be looking for some more one-on-one time than I’m looking for. I’m a look but don’t touch guy myself, mainly. No kissing or genital touching, (I’m partnered) and I don’t really touch anyone.

Any thoughts?

Basically the same: body language with some adjustments. For example, you're sitting in a dry sauna and someone comes in and sits next to you. If you don't like him, your body language is to kinda turn or face away, move away a little, stand up and sit somewhere else, or actually leave. But you like him, so you don't do any of that.

Instead, you open your towel and start jerking a little. He does too. Now you're in your element. But then he slowly bends down, intending to suck your dick. You raise your hand and gently block him, but otherwise not move away and continue jerking. So you're communicating that what was going on previously was fine, but you don't want to escalate. At this point he might pivot from body language to verbalizing what he wants e.g. look at you and say "let me suck it". You shake your head and say no, but continue jerking. You can even verbalize too e.g. "I Just want to jerk". If he's not satisfied with your limits, he might stop engaging and put his dick away or even leave altogether.

Some guys can be insistent. Just hold firm and don't be shy about pushing them away.

The key is staying in "public" areas. Following or inviting someone to a room carries with it the assumption that there will be sexual contact. Don't go to dark rooms either. You won't be able to see anything and you WILL be touched.

 

[Senpa123]

I went to a Korean Spa once. It was amazing…so much nudity. It was late and I was the last body scrub of the day. Up walked a perfect korean man. He told me to get on the table, face down. the table was in a 3 walled room, but the opening was to the showers. No one was in the place at this point….he tapped me on the shoulder and motioned if I minded if he took off his shorts…he was going to get wet. I said sure…and he then displayed a huge dick with a beautiful bush. Everything was normal until he got out my ass…he began to wash it and slip a finger inside me each time he passed. I bucked a bit and moaned….I looked over and his dick was hard as a rock. All of a sudden I felt something wet on my hole and realized it was his tongue. He tongued me for a good 10 minutes….he went deep. Once he was done, he asked me to flip over.

He began washing my body and doing his normal thing….but when he was done he just bent over and stuck my dick in his mouth. He then hopped on the table and we had about 10 minutes of 69 while I also fingered him. I started to let him know I was about to shoot and he began shooting in my mouth. I shot in his….when we were done he hugged me and washed me off…..it was amazing.

Where was this Korean spa? Also this sounded like a happy ending massage. How much was it?