Being a total bottom means...

[Scott8361]

Being bi I find myself being a TOTAL bottom. For me that means my sexual desire comes from my ass and not my dick. When I am with a man I see my dick as a clitoris of sorts. I don't want to even cum from penile stimulation.

When I have a cock offerred to me I want nothing more that to serve it and its its owner. I offer my body up to them and do to them whatecer they ask. I find my deep inner core craves cock. My prostate aches for stimulation and pleasure.

If the guy wants penetration from my cock i prefer to rim, use my fingers or a toy on him. I really don't ever want to too. I just want his cock and his cum in me in any way. Oral, hands, fucking, licking.

Strangely, my cock doesn't crave attention or stimulation. Its all about a stronger, inner craving that seems to center on my prostate.

What does being a bottom mean to you?

 

[18wheeler]

Being bi I find myself being a TOTAL bottom. For me that means my sexual desire comes from my ass and not my dick. When I am with a man I see my dick as a clitoris of sorts. I don't want to even cum from penile stimulation.

When I have a cock offerred to me I want nothing more that to serve it and its its owner. I offer my body up to them and do to them whatecer they ask. I find my deep inner core craves cock. My prostate aches for stimulation and pleasure.

If the guy wants penetration from my cock i prefer to rim, use my fingers or a toy on him. I really don't ever want to too. I just want his cock and his cum in me in any way. Oral, hands, fucking, licking.

Strangely, my cock doesn't crave attention or stimulation. Its all about a stronger, inner craving that seems to center on my prostate.

What does being a bottom mean to you?

You just described me nearly 100%. However. If my partner wants me to do something. I’m more than willing. I see myself wanting to give pleasure more than anything, and honestly don’t care if it’s reciprocated

 

[goldscorpguy]

I find my deep inner core craves cock. My prostate aches for stimulation and pleasure.

Those words like 'crave' and 'aches for' describe the feeling perfectly for me.

 

[ilovetowatchcs]

Until a guy has a hard cock fucking his ass - from a guy who knows what to do, never say you wouldn't love it.

 

[Scott8361]

Those words like 'crave' and 'aches for' describe the feeling perfectly for me.

Yes, there is that desire to receive cock and semen. As a bottom i don't have any inner need to "sow my seed".

When younger that drive to want to procreate was there driving my desire to fuck. Not dure if age has anything to do about my fundamental change in sexual desires?

 

[bravesoldier]

Being bi I find myself being a TOTAL bottom. For me that means my sexual desire comes from my ass and not my dick. When I am with a man I see my dick as a clitoris of sorts. I don't want to even cum from penile stimulation.

When I have a cock offerred to me I want nothing more that to serve it and its its owner. I offer my body up to them and do to them whatecer they ask. I find my deep inner core craves cock. My prostate aches for stimulation and pleasure.

If the guy wants penetration from my cock i prefer to rim, use my fingers or a toy on him. I really don't ever want to too. I just want his cock and his cum in me in any way. Oral, hands, fucking, licking.

Strangely, my cock doesn't crave attention or stimulation. Its all about a stronger, inner craving that seems to center on my prostate.

What does being a bottom mean to you?

Can identify with you. In the sex act it's my place to totally please him. I so love pleasing men, watching and hearing them in total pleasure. I guess it's a peculiar thing to want to give pleasure more than to receive it, but all I know is it is very true and powerful when it's your niche.

But, I can't say I never like to be pleased. I've been lucky to have had a few lovers that lavished pleasure on me. At heart though, I'm just a man pleasing bottom.

 

[dimru]

What does being a bottom mean to you?

It means being in the female role in sex, always.

 

[Uncle_Bob69]

Affirmatively answering the “Do you like to get buttfucked ?” “Wanna Fuck?”, “Can I Fuck You?”, Questions

 

[ArabicBottom]

Your description is close to mine. I don’t have a feeling in my penis nor do I get hard. So it doesn’t necessarily feel like a clit since it can’t be stimulated, but most of my sexual desire comes from wanting my hole stretched and used. Having prostate stimulated is the only way I can cum, I’ve learned how to focus on it and cum hands free just by getting fucked. Bring a bottom feels more like having different sexual physiology if it makes sense, more focus on the prostate and hole as a pleasure center rather than genitals. I also have sensitive nipples and neck things that aren’t as common in men.

 

[JonFranklin]

I agree with all of the bottoms on here. When I have a cock in front of me thats all I can think about, my mind goes blank and all I want to to is worship the cock and its owner. If the guy is dominant it's even better because it so much easier for me to make sure I do everything he wants, exactly how he wants it..

I dont care if I cum, all I want to do is please, no matter what it takes. I'll pretty much do anything when I'm in that mode.

 

[bi2]

Until a guy has a hard cock fucking his ass - from a guy who knows what to do, never say you wouldn't love it.

I loved this response because I think its rings so true. In regards to anal sex, my fuckbuddy is perfect from my point of view, which is always why I have always said yes when he messages me to hookup to fuck. In every way, as a submissive bottom, I feel so lucky and privileged that he wants to fuck me. He feels so lucky that he has a fuckbuddy in me, that enjoys receiving anal sex, so in many ways we are grateful for the other.

I think thats why neither of us play games, create drama or unnecessary stress for the other. Whenever we hookup, we have a good fucking experience.

In regards to MM sex, there is so many wonderful things you can do with one another, but for me, nothing at all compares to the enjoyable experience, when he "aggressively" manhandles me and with force and takes me from behind doggy style. His dick in my ass, just stimulates me on so many levels, sexually, psychologically and emotionally. He enjoys the fucking and having an outlet to blow his load into, but he told me its not just the anal sex with me that he loves. He loves "overpowering" me and physically forcing himself into me with me "resisting". He feels strong, powerful, virile and very masculine over me and I love that I can make him feel this way.

 

[Thickstick]

Those words like 'crave' and 'aches for' describe the feeling perfectly for me.

This comment and the quote make me leak to breed a sub bottom. Love the hunger.

 

[bi2]

What does being a bottom mean to you?

To make myself almost always available for my fuckbuddy whenever he wants/needs to fuck.

As mentioned above, I happilly and willingly take up a very submissive feminine role with my fuckbuddy, where our mutual goal is totally focussed on him cumming inside me.

 

[bi2]

Affirmatively answering the “Do you like to get buttfucked ?” “Wanna Fuck?”, “Can I Fuck You?”, Questions

Means I am ALWAY open for business for my fuckbuddy.

He knows within a 99% degree of certainty, that when he wants to fuck me, its not a matter of would I or a need for foreplay or dating, its about when this will happen. We lead busy private and personal lives, we dont have time to waste playing games.

 

[sundragon]

Being bi I find myself being a TOTAL bottom. For me that means my sexual desire comes from my ass and not my dick. When I am with a man I see my dick as a clitoris of sorts. I don't want to even cum from penile stimulation.

When I have a cock offerred to me I want nothing more that to serve it and its its owner. I offer my body up to them and do to them whatecer they ask. I find my deep inner core craves cock. My prostate aches for stimulation and pleasure.

If the guy wants penetration from my cock i prefer to rim, use my fingers or a toy on him. I really don't ever want to too. I just want his cock and his cum in me in any way. Oral, hands, fucking, licking.

Strangely, my cock doesn't crave attention or stimulation. Its all about a stronger, inner craving that seems to center on my prostate.

What does being a bottom mean to you?

As a top, this totally turned me on... Hearing someone demonstrativly describe their desires like this as a bottom is super hot

 

[Gracious_living]

Being a bottom means my pleasure comes from his pleasure
I switch so it's not always the case for me but when I'm on bottom, its service, attention and love for my top and their body.
I cum from performing oral, so pleasure wise I actually need to slow myself down or I'll bust my loads too early while I'm going down.

Being a bottom is my secret pleasure, I'm more dominant in my personal life so it's very freeing and liberating!

 

[Lance V]

I am a neophyte to anal sex. And the other guy was as well. So with complete inexperience it was like being a virgin with a virgin all over again. Except we took turns.

I have learned by experience that I am not a bottom. It was pleasurable but only to an extent. Topping, on the other hand, is my jam!

He is the only man that I've had that kind of sex with. Now I'm interested in finding some of my old BJ partners to tell them what I learned!

Now, I say I'm not a bottom. But maybe with an experienced top I may change my mind.

 

[Uncle_Bob69]

Means I am ALWAY open for business for my fuckbuddy.

He knows within a 99% degree of certainty, that when he wants to fuck me, its not a matter of would I or a need for foreplay or dating, its about when this will happen. We lead busy private and personal lives, we dont have time to waste playing games.

Thanks for the information

 

[Scott8361]

Your description is close to mine. I don’t have a feeling in my penis nor do I get hard. So it doesn’t necessarily feel like a clit since it can’t be stimulated, but most of my sexual desire comes from wanting my hole stretched and used. Having prostate stimulated is the only way I can cum, I’ve learned how to focus on it and cum hands free just by getting fucked. Bring a bottom feels more like having different sexual physiology if it makes sense, more focus on the prostate and hole as a pleasure center rather than genitals. I also have sensitive nipples and neck things that aren’t as common in men.

Exactly! Same here! Well stated!

 

[ilovetowatchcs]

I loved this response because I think its rings so true. In regards to anal sex, my fuckbuddy is perfect from my point of view, which is always why I have always said yes when he messages me to hookup to fuck. In every way, as a submissive bottom, I feel so lucky and privileged that he wants to fuck me. He feels so lucky that he has a fuckbuddy in me, that enjoys receiving anal sex, so in many ways we are grateful for the other.

I think thats why neither of us play games, create drama or unnecessary stress for the other. Whenever we hookup, we have a good fucking experience.

In regards to MM sex, there is so many wonderful things you can do with one another, but for me, nothing at all compares to the enjoyable experience, when he "aggressively" manhandles me and with force and takes me from behind doggy style. His dick in my ass, just stimulates me on so many levels, sexually, psychologically and emotionally. He enjoys the fucking and having an outlet to blow his load into, but he told me its not just the anal sex with me that he loves. He loves "overpowering" me and physically forcing himself into me with me "resisting". He feels strong, powerful, virile and very masculine over me and I love that I can make him feel this way.

Wonderful comment to read. But with me, I like the anticipation of being with another guy. I like the fact it's (for me) really forbidden sex (with another man). And I like undressing a guy - undoing his pants - and taking his cock out. My cock gets hard from the time another guys says yes to going to a motel, or apartment, or house with him.