Being black with a big cock

[deleted15807]

So... let's try to get back on topic, shall we?

The topic being how can a big dick help me get laid? The ladies have answered that question numerous times in numerous ways.

Might I point you to this thread:

Saying NO to a big cock

 

[WillyLong]

Why would it be his job to combat a stereotype? Im not even sure why this topic comes up as much as it does.

He identified the conflict, but he didn’t identify a solution to the conflict. If he perceives the stereotype to have a negative impact on black men, yet he purposely shows off his big black man bulge in public, then he’s not part of the solution, he’s part of the problem. However, if he perceives the stereotype to have a positive impact on black men, and he publicly plays up his big black man bulge, then bulge on my brother, bulge on.

 

[xmarksbreakdownx]

The topic being how can a big dick help me get laid? The ladies have answered that question numerous times in numerous ways.

Might I point you to this thread:

Saying NO to a big cock

I don't understand the joke you're trying to make, but it's OK.

 

[965025]

Do I think race plays a part in it? It could. Until proven whether it does or doesn't I think it'd be naive to definitively say it doesn't. I say this considering the numerous amounts of things that race affects. I think people only get butt hurt because it's a group of people that may have bigger penises on average. If it was any other thing other than sexual organs or the brain their definitely would be far far far far less butt hurting.

Do I care? Not really. Even if they answered this tomorrow. It's not going to do jack shit for me. I'm still going to be the same size. If i "win" I am not going to get some inches in the mail. If I "lose" I ain't getting inches lopped off my dick either.


As a black male with a dick that is 7x5.5 NBP. Above average, still feel small as fuck.

I don't like that expectation.
I don't have a BBC, it's not going to live up to that standard. It's more like a disappointment if anything. I'm pretty sure if I wasn't black, it might be acceptable and even a positive, but idk. Not saying I'd change race or anything, it's just how I feel.


It just feels like at my size I'm broaching the realm of big. Like dipping your feet in the pool but I haven't plunged into it. However black dudes are supposed to have that BBC which is in the deep end of the pool. At 120lb 5'8 I'd hardly even be a "black bull" either, more like a joke. I guess I'm glad the punch line isn't as strong as it could be.


I'm not a saint either. I would like it if I actually benefited from it... but I don't so i don't like it. Just being honest

You are making the most important argument. I used to trick for a gay black man who had been home schooled. He had watched lots of porn and was ashamed he didn't have a HUGE DICK. That was one example of the psychology. He DID have a big dick. 7 plus and thick. But IN HIS MIND he was small. And since I was longer our relationship was fraught with race and self-esteem therapy. Another black male I tricked for just used to jerk off while muttering, "Bigger than a nigger." Mind you, this was Baltimore before 2010. So the ramifications of BBC on the psychology of inferiority in both white and black men is to be approached with trepidation.

 

[eveready6969]

Even though there are small cocks and big cocks in every race I do think some races have MORE of one than the other...and yes....blacks have a better chance of having a big cock than other races....unless I have just been lucky with the black men I have been with....lol

 

[365562]

I've actually mentioned to the last few females that I wasn't very big before we have slept together. Some have dismissed it and "said whatever". Others have simply ignored the comment and said "I'm sure you are fine".

I know based on being on this site I'm above average. The problem... I still believe as a black male it's not enough.

Glad to know I'm not the only guy that is screwed up over his.

 

[blackthunder79]

You're in some company. I'm 9 inches but due to stupid porn, I think as a black man I look small. Plus being in the medical field I've seen TONS of flaccid dicks that are easily bigger than mine (7"; didn't measure there obviously but I can tell).

In case some are wondering, I've had tons of women be frank with me about my size and all but a handful have said its the biggest or one of the biggest they've seen. But believe me I've seen 9" flaccid dicks (black>white) that would dwarf many.

 

[Grower82]

You don't look small. I've seen some guys with bigger dicks (soft) than yours, but I wouldn't say tons, lol.
Black more so than white, yes. But if you've seen tons of dicks, think of this: Haven't you seen tons that are a lot smaller than yours?
Wouldn't the majority of them fall in that category? You are big guy, face it. I think black guys who are big don't give themselves credit for being big for some reason. But being objective, it's big. Only not big to epic porn units.

You're in some company. I'm 9 inches but due to stupid porn, I think as a black man I look small. Plus being in the medical field I've seen TONS of flaccid dicks that are easily bigger than mine (7"; didn't measure there obviously but I can tell).

In case some are wondering, I've had tons of women be frank with me about my size and all but a handful have said its the biggest or one of the biggest they've seen. But believe me I've seen 9" flaccid dicks (black>white) that would dwarf many.

 

[D_22]

This is a topic that some times gets to me but have to just accept it and be happy with what I have. I have had a ton of people assume that I have a big dick but I'm really in the completely average size when it comes to length and girth. I've had people say they think I'm bigger than I say I am based on our hook ups but most black dudes I have hooked up with have been bigger than me. Only a very small number, select few have been smaller or same size.

It can really mess with your mind and self esteem but is what it is.

 

[Grower82]

What is the size on yours? I'd have said it was big from looking at your pictures.

This is a topic that some times gets to me but have to just accept it and be happy with what I have. I have had a ton of people assume that I have a big dick but I'm really in the completely average size when it comes to length and girth. I've had people say they think I'm bigger than I say I am based on our hook ups but most black dudes I have hooked up with have been bigger than me. Only a very small number, select few have been smaller or same size.

It can really mess with your mind and self esteem but is what it is.

 

[blackthunder79]

I think with me I don't need to have the biggest schlong on the street, but as a black guy, there is that unspoken of pressure (well not discussed heavily) that when I do drop the trousers my penis should unequivocally be a large penis and not just "ok" "good enough" or "works for me".

bottom line is there will always be someone bigger but we as black men are expected to be at the top 5% and some of us struggle when we are not.

 

[darkmusclemeat]

The BBC label will always be around, can't do anything about that. Just gotta be confident in who you are and what you're working with and try not to get in your head with the bbc expectation. Like stated before, there will always be bigger and smaller out there...whatever you got, pound it out!! That's the best part...haha!

 

[912164]

I was under the impression that the majority of women say that size does not matter. If that is the case, why would this become an issue?

 

[Triasco]

The problem is not just an issue about women. The problem is an issue with the stereotype and not living up to it. Even if a women has no preference in regards to size, she (and males as well) may have an unconscious expectation that, frankly, most Black men don't live up to. The effect this has them depends on the maturity, awareness, and discipline of the individual in question. In the wrist car scenario, their reaction is inconsiderate, callous, and immature, which can do damage to the psyche of all but the most confident male.