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I am fine with taking it slow even tho I want it so bad. I think i am more nervous than he is. I am fully in love with him and i am terrified that he might just be one of those bicurious guys that tries it once and realizes its not for him. I am pretty sure he is gayer than he lets on but i can't be sure and i am not ready for this to be over so being stuck in this over the pants limbo is fine for now.
 
I am fine with taking it slow even tho I want it so bad. I think i am more nervous than he is. I am fully in love with him and i am terrified that he might just be one of those bicurious guys that tries it once and realizes its not for him. I am pretty sure he is gayer than he lets on but i can't be sure and i am not ready for this to be over so being stuck in this over the pants limbo is fine for now.
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If you think he might be down for some "vintage" era vids...

Take a look at some Jeff Stryker Videos to have ready (During his early & then Prime years)

Covers the esthetic & categories of:
- Clean Cut / Mostly Clean Shaven Bodies Men
- Usually Big Cock (Especially Jeff's huge cock)
- Hairy Cock (the era).... if he's into that guy in the pic posted above, he should be into gay vintage since the men in vintage vids usually come with the "Big Hairy Cock" combo ^_~
- Abs / Fit usually
- Cheesy Porn Factors:
- Predictable cheesy music
- Scene build up / 1/2 story lines
- Male moaning / egging on the bottoms (Jeff does this good in my opinion)

And Jeff Stryker comes with the added bonus of "relating" to your bi-curious friend since he started off as a Straight Porn actor before he dove into the big hairy cock deep end of Gay Porn.

"Jeff Stryker: Underground" is one of my all time favorite vids of his

Jeff Stryker: Underground Full Video on Spankbang

Just a suggestion for you ^_~

Will be looking forward to reading some XXX-Rated highly detailed updates from you either way
 
Yeah we were both hard as fuck while we laid in bed together for hours touching all over and kissing. I don't see him very often and the pain of missing him is killing me right now.
Maybe try to kiss on his body next time(neck,nipples, chest, stomach) so it can lead to what both of y’all want.
 
I am fine with taking it slow even tho I want it so bad. I think i am more nervous than he is. I am fully in love with him and i am terrified that he might just be one of those bicurious guys that tries it once and realizes its not for him. I am pretty sure he is gayer than he lets on but i can't be sure and i am not ready for this to be over so being stuck in this over the pants limbo is fine for now.
Awwwww. I know your heart is already in it but don’t walk into getting hurt. Probably just talk to him about it? Like ask him how he feels.
 
Maybe try to kiss on his body next time(neck,nipples, chest, stomach) so it can lead to what both of y’all want.
Oh i do that. I have kissed him all over, we just dont take our pants or shorts off, ive sucked his nipples while playing with his dick over his shorts and he will let out the hottest little moans and tell me to stop when he feels like he might cum. Ive felt his precum through his shorts, he precums a lot. And he has tugged on my dick over my briefs, we basically have just been edging each other for hours at a time with it getting more intense each hangout.
 
I am fine with taking it slow even tho I want it so bad. I think i am more nervous than he is. I am fully in love with him and i am terrified that he might just be one of those bicurious guys that tries it once and realizes its not for him. I am pretty sure he is gayer than he lets on but i can't be sure and i am not ready for this to be over so being stuck in this over the pants limbo is fine for now.
Only you can fix this.
 
Hi you can easily find all of these "types" of men and porn on the free porn sites, Twitter, etc. I don't like the fan sites but I can understand if people who have certain kink, fetish, or a sort of internet crush or obsession with certain people in porn want to go on to see their favourite person. A gay friend who loves body builders he goes on the pay sites to see certain models and before that would buy videos muscular porn men would film and sell of themself or that were available by purchase from a studio via mail such as Pete Kuzack masturbation videos, he is too roided out and the body shaving and waxing many body builders do is a turn off.
 
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I am fine with taking it slow even tho I want it so bad. I think i am more nervous than he is. I am fully in love with him and i am terrified that he might just be one of those bicurious guys that tries it once and realizes its not for him. I am pretty sure he is gayer than he lets on but i can't be sure and i am not ready for this to be over so being stuck in this over the pants limbo is fine for now.
Huh? Talk to him. Don't assume or like live in theory or "what if". Also keep in mind even if he does want to date you that you shouldn't move too fast as for many people this is a turn off or red flag.
 
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Huh? Talk to him. Don't assume or like live in theory or "what if". Also keep in mind even if he does want to date you that you shouldn't move too fast as for many people this is a turn off or red flag.
Its not that simple, he literally doesn't know his sexuality yet and I can't expect him to as it has never been tested. After we fuck there will be some clarity. It could go either way. I assure you i am not moving too fast. We have been best friends for 4 years and its been over a year since he told me he was bicurious. I have told him many times that i will love him however he wants to be loved.
 
Its not that simple, he literally doesn't know his sexuality yet and I can't expect him to as it has never been tested. After we fuck there will be some clarity. It could go either way. I assure you i am not moving too fast. We have been best friends for 4 years and its been over a year since he told me he was bicurious. I have told him many times that i will love him however he wants to be loved.
Bro u r lit! Good shit man.
wish I had a friend like u man, playing with bros isn’t as easy on my end lol can’t wait to hear the updates
 
Not pushing you but...

I think you need to have a conversation with him along the lines of, "I'm cool with where we are right now, but I'd like to take it to the next level." Do you think that would freak him out? I'm just wondering if maybe he is waiting for you to make the next move. Have you tried to unbutton his pants or take down his zipper? As you're rubbing him, and he is hard, could you say, "I really want to suck your dick"?

As much as it pains you, another approach might be the next time he comes over to just talk about what you are thinking/feeling and find out from him the same. "I know you're trying to work/figure things out and I want to help in whatever way I can. I want you to know how badly I want you, but I am willing to take it as slow as you want/need to." Again, if you are gay he may be waiting for you to take the lead. Just my thoughts.
 
Not pushing you but...

I think you need to have a conversation with him along the lines of, "I'm cool with where we are right now, but I'd like to take it to the next level." Do you think that would freak him out? I'm just wondering if maybe he is waiting for you to make the next move. Have you tried to unbutton his pants or take down his zipper? As you're rubbing him, and he is hard, could you say, "I really want to suck your dick"?

As much as it pains you, another approach might be the next time he comes over to just talk about what you are thinking/feeling and find out from him the same. "I know you're trying to work/figure things out and I want to help in whatever way I can. I want you to know how badly I want you, but I am willing to take it as slow as you want/need to." Again, if you are gay he may be waiting for you to take the lead. Just my thoughts.
He knows how bad i want him. I tell him all the time how bad i wanna suck his dick. When i play with his dick over the pants i am kissing his body and sucking his nipples and he stops me just above the waist and tells me he can't. He says he would cum so fast. He says it is hard for him to wait too but he is scared. He doesn't like change. He is scared what gay sex will do to his mental health and how his life might change on the other side. I remember before my first time it felt like a big life changing decision that i couldn't step back from like once you do it you are gay forever, and i didn't want to be gay. I don't think he wants to be a gay man but he is undoubtedly horny for dick. When i am with him we have very open and honest conversations about it all, when im not with him he doesn't give me much. Without pushing too hard i try and take it to the next level everytime i see him, i dont see him often tho, he is traveling for work right now and i likely wont see him til mid September. I miss him painfully.
 
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He knows how bad i want him. I tell him all the time how bad i wanna suck his dick. When i play with his dick over the pants i am kissing his body and sucking his nipples and he stops me just above the waist and tells me he can't. He says he would cum so fast. He says it is hard for him to wait too but he is scared. He doesn't like change. He is scared what gay sex will do to his mental health and how his life might change on the other side. I remember before my first time it felt like a big life changing decision that i couldn't step back from like once you do it you are gay forever, and i didn't want to be gay. I don't think he wants to be a gay man but he is undoubtedly horny for dick. When i am with him we have very open and honest conversations about it all, when im not with him he doesn't give me much. Without pushing too hard i try and take it to the next level everytime i see him, i dont see him often tho, he is traveling for work right now and i likely wont see him til mid September. I miss him painfully.
adjsksjdjs this is just like a gay drama but more reality im cryingg TvT
 
He knows how bad i want him. I tell him all the time how bad i wanna suck his dick. When i play with his dick over the pants i am kissing his body and sucking his nipples and he stops me just above the waist and tells me he can't. He says he would cum so fast. He says it is hard for him to wait too but he is scared. He doesn't like change. He is scared what gay sex will do to his mental health and how his life might change on the other side. I remember before my first time it felt like a big life changing decision that i couldn't step back from like once you do it you are gay forever, and i didn't want to be gay. I don't think he wants to be a gay man but he is undoubtedly horny for dick. When i am with him we have very open and honest conversations about it all, when im not with him he doesn't give me much. Without pushing too hard i try and take it to the next level everytime i see him, i dont see him often tho, he is traveling for work right now and i likely wont see him til mid September. I miss him painfully.
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