Big Dick Privilege

That’s hard to believe. Younger guys especially are mad about big cock. I’m sure that if you go on Grindr you’ll find several guys interested.
Yeah I don’t think so my cock isn’t that sexy or appealing to the eye
 
Oh I see. I hope I don't loose friends because I'm out there having my best large penis life and turns out some of them were very insecure about the matter. I always offer to discuss the issues open-mindedly, though. There're a lot of preconceptions to unpack.
I would hope that your friends are treated equally regardless of their size, their insecurity aside. I mean, unless your friends are friends with benefits and/or in a humiliation fetish/kink relationship out you.

Talking is good.
 
I'll copypaste the original reddit post to have as reference and discuss:

Big dick privilege is real
tag: Dick-scrimination
I've had a girl just ask me to be her "partner" for her OnlyFans because she says she will get more views and it's hard to find my size
Size doesn't matter... unless you have it
 
Having a big dick isn’t anything to be proud of hell I’m embarrassed for the way my dick is bigger and shit I have girls only fans girls message me asking for me to fuck them to get more views so I say having a big dick is a curse a burden
 
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Bdprivilege is: usually when I'm having a bad day, I'll take a shower.
When I take my clothes off before getting in the shower and look at myself in the mirror, I usually think:
"well, at least I got that going for me" 20240617_004520.jpg
 
Do you feel like you can push the envelope a bit more with people because of your size? Act certain ways and people will just take it because they know you're hung? Dated/married someone who was just as proud of your endowment as you and wanted to share it with the world?

I'll answer this one first. No.

So, what kind of privileges/experiences has your big cock granted you?

The main privilege--and it is a privilege--is choice. Choice from a number of women (and men) who want to get with me because of my size.

It started with my older sister's friends most of whom had to try it then a girlfriend and a circle of her friends, a few women at the pool, then women at the hotel where I worked during college where tips turned into paid sex work even cucking husbands. Then the 40-something regional VP who had me each time she visited said there were VIP women "interested in the service" she'd send my way. Most were wealthy women--some international--but some were Hollywood celebs--actresses. College was a fuckfest too though I missed most of the parties working weekends. GAs even a few profs got naked with me.

Things quieted down a lot after college/hotel but medical school opened the door to nurses--their reputation deserved. After I dropped out of medicine I went holistic teaching.yoga and doing MT. Women started asking for individualized yoga therapy which became code for hookups. Some of my massage clients also became regular hookups. I even made house calls. Women fucking their yoga teachers & massage therapists? It happened. Not in huge numbers but lots of repeat business like with women at the hotel.

After I closed the MT practice in my early 30s I joined the business world but located in a city with an enormous state university opportunities have never stopped. For example I agreed to be on a big cock challenge list for a sorority and hooked up with all the girls in that particular house. Then there are friends and acquaintances. A forty something mom and her twenty something daughter then one of her ex-boyfriends. A young grandmother then her daughter and now years later two granddaughters who are at university. Three generations of women from one family. I'm an old family friend they call Uncle Hal, lol.

And lads. Gay/bi uni students. One from China whose mom hooked up with me when she visited. A divorced friend of a friend who hooked up with me at an out-of-state wedding years ago then her son for four years when he was a student here. I met the frat boy cocksuker who told me about this site ten years ago in a sports bar. He blew me weekly the last semester of his senior year.

Lots of miscellaneous hook ups--too many to list here.

People talk about erection size. My older sister and her friends were the first I overheard long ago. Word spread and still spreads. I was (and still get) approached. Subtly or not.

It's mate selection in our species. Like the vast majority of terrestrial vertebrate species it's females who chose the males they want not the other way round. The instinct is to procreate but the intent of the vast majority of sex in the modern world is recreational not procreative.

tl;dr I get laid a lot. :cool:
 
I'll answer this one first. No.



The main privilege--and it is a privilege--is choice. Choice from a number of women (and men) who want to get with me because of my size.

It started with my older sister's friends most of whom had to try it then a girlfriend and a circle of her friends, a few women at the pool, then women at the hotel where I worked during college where tips turned into paid sex work even cucking husbands. Then the 40-something regional VP who had me each time she visited said there were VIP women "interested in the service" she'd send my way. Most were wealthy women--some international--but some were Hollywood celebs--actresses. College was a fuckfest too though I missed most of the parties working weekends. GAs even a few profs got naked with me.

Things quieted down a lot after college/hotel but medical school opened the door to nurses--their reputation deserved. After I dropped out of medicine I went holistic teaching.yoga and doing MT. Women started asking for individualized yoga therapy which became code for hookups. Some of my massage clients also became regular hookups. I even made house calls. Women fucking their yoga teachers & massage therapists? It happened. Not in huge numbers but lots of repeat business like with women at the hotel.

After I closed the MT practice in my early 30s I joined the business world but located in a city with an enormous state university opportunities have never stopped. For example I agreed to be on a big cock challenge list for a sorority and hooked up with all the girls in that particular house. Then there are friends and acquaintances. A forty something mom and her twenty something daughter then one of her ex-boyfriends. A young grandmother then her daughter and now years later two granddaughters who are at university. Three generations of women from one family. I'm an old family friend they call Uncle Hal, lol.

And lads. Gay/bi uni students. One from China whose mom hooked up with me when she visited. A divorced friend of a friend who hooked up with me at an out-of-state wedding years ago then her son for four years when he was a student here. I met the frat boy cocksuker who told me about this site ten years ago in a sports bar. He blew me weekly the last semester of his senior year.

Lots of miscellaneous hook ups--too many to list here.

People talk about erection size. My older sister and her friends were the first I overheard long ago. Word spread and still spreads. I was (and still get) approached. Subtly or not.

It's mate selection in our species. Like the vast majority of terrestrial vertebrate species it's females who chose the males they want not the other way round. The instinct is to procreate but the intent of the vast majority of sex in the modern world is recreational not procreative.

tl;dr I get laid a lot. :cool:
Yeah I never got laid or sucked stupid big dick I have should get it removed what’s the point of having a big dick if you don’t get it used or shit
 
I have a friend that I have sex with and he is pretty long and thicker at the base. He is very humble and he does not think he is big until I had a conversation with him really expressing how big he is. He is very gentle with me cause he now understands what he is packing. Sine he is more conscious about his size, he takes his time and can go very deep. I found out he was this big size since childhood and now understands why being so aggressive with people before me is a reason people stayed away. Now he knows how to use it and the sex is amazing. He is very humble and sweet not mean or rude to anyone. And I think that makes him a person with big dick privilege.
 
Yeah, overall I believe I wouldn’t have fucked so many girls and ladies if I weren’t hung. It’s def a big confidence boost. I even had a gf who used to brag to her friends about how big I am.

I'll start with a story an ex of mine told me that encapsulates the privilege perfectly. There was this guy she used to fuck who she described as, "a total and utter asshole." They never got along, always argued, never saw eye-to-eye, he would say things just to piss her off. But he was packing a cock the size of her forearm that she could not get enough of. They fucked for a summer, and even then she said he didn't even have to put in much effort. He would just stand behind her, while she rocked back and forth on his giant cock, making herself stretch out slowly and cum uncontrollably. She recalled having a chiseled jawline that summer because of how wide she had to open her mouth to suck his monster cock. So, even though he was highly unlikeable and mean, his cock won the day every time.
This story kinda reminds me myself in early 20s. I wouldn’t say I was an asshole but I definitely wasn’t the most active in sex. I’d just have the girls ride me or rock on my cock and I was just smug about how this made them cum like crazy
 
I have some stories about big dick privilege.

First it's the fact that most women detect big dicks (when they want to) and act differently. I have a friend who is average looking (almost bold, not fit but not obese) but has a big dick. I once saw his dick while pissing and it was about 6-7'' soft but very thick. He had numerous proposals for threesomes etc. The fact that he had a big dick spread from mouth to mouth. Once he left a club with 2 escorts for a 3some all for free and after they got banged real good they called a married friend (she was an escort too) and she came to fuck him too. Many times women sucked him in public places and many married women still call him (he is 45 now) to just fuck (they tell him that they are friends of a past adventure).

The same thing is verified with my wife. Her ex was huge (around 9'') and he was in a relationship with her. She told me that various women approached her asking if he was really that hung and some of them even asked permission to fuck him. When my wife was still his gf she went to another city to work (where we met). From what she learnt, every day, every single day, he had proposals. We don't know how many women he fucked during that time but the fact is that at least 4 of them couldn't take him.

My wife, in order to prove her shelf, cheated her ex some times. One time was with a BB player (around 6'6'') who was very popular with women at her home town. Everyone knew about his big dick and everyone wanted to fuck him. She had a perfect body back then, she was a nerd (very good studies) so she was something like a trophy to him (and he for her). So he fucked her one night (2 sessions) and she said it was really good fucking but it wasn't like her ex (the BB player was around 8''). He was a BB player who couldn't become a big name, his job would be to take over his father's small company, his dick was smaller that her ex and he had fucked (and could and would fuck) many women there. So it was just a night stand to prove she could fuck the popular guy, who was popular through BB and then his big dick.

Since my wife has fucked the biggest, and chose <6'' instead of 9'', she is really not interested in dicks (she argues). Sometimes I present her pictures of big dicks and she is not impressed at all. All the 7''-8'' guys (Johnny Sins, Alberto Blanco etc) are big but normal to her. Only Danny D is huge and equivalent to her ex but she really doesn't care (she says). We even saw a guy changing at the beach a few days ago who he had a thick >6'' flaccid and she didn't even bother to comment. BUT, her body is sometimes telling the truth. I have tested her and when we have a sex talk before we fuck (we talk about ex gfs or bfs) and the conversation goes to her ex her pussy afterwards is wide open. If there is no mentioning of her ex she is tight and needs exactly 2 fingers to satisfy her pussy. When we mention her ex she can take 4 fingers just like when we first met and she was asking me to put another one inside her. That my friends is the big dick privilege... her body will remember him till the last breath... and she admitted that not even one time did she tell him his dick was huge or big or perfect, thing that made him curious and mad sometimes (that's why he cheated on her).

Last thing I remembered. A month ago we had a fight (nothing intense but it was like a sudden storm). After the fight she was extremely horny for 2 days. One day, while the kids where playing in the living room, she literally attacked me in the bedroom. She grabbed my dick, stroked it, she asked me to finger fuck her and then, she couldn't hold hershelf anymore so she grabbed my dick and took me to bathroom to fuck (twice in 1 hour). She was moaning, she was cumming, she grabbed everything she could (balls, her breasts, furniture, devices etc). After that fuck we had another talk. Finally she revelead that she can orgasm from multiple positions (not only riding as she was telling me) but she needs a bigger dick to do so. I told her to fuck to various places (inside the car, beach etc) but she told me these days are gone now that we have a home and family. And as a closing line: my ex every new years eve brought me back home and we fucked in the car in order to have a good and horny year... privilege of the big dick...
 
I used my cock to get what I wanted from cruisers in my 20's. i have had tons of sex because ladies noticed my bulge and I was oblivious.
The biggest drawback is that we will always be being challenged about it.
The confidence that comes when the idea sinks in is crazy and great.
I have been worshipped based on my cock. (not like true worship)
One ass hole jacked off across the street from me in public. jerk.
How gross.
It gets you into swinger clubs.
It got me a gold membership here.
When I use it right , people get cum drunk over it.
 
I have a friend that I have sex with and he is pretty long and thicker at the base. He is very humble and he does not think he is big until I had a conversation with him really expressing how big he is. He is very gentle with me cause he now understands what he is packing. Sine he is more conscious about his size, he takes his time and can go very deep. I found out he was this big size since childhood and now understands why being so aggressive with people before me is a reason people stayed away. Now he knows how to use it and the sex is amazing. He is very humble and sweet not mean or rude to anyone. And I think that makes him a person with big dick privilege.
I love this he sound like amazing man
 
I was once pursued by a hot woman over a decade younger than me.
I didn't want to date her because she had a flat chest, but she persisted.
One night, she asked me if she could come over after she got off work & I bluntly told her that if she did, I was going to fuck her & she said that would be great.
Within minutes of walking through my door, she dropped to her knees, pulled my cock out & immediately compared her forearm to it & she was hooked on it.
This continued almost every night (that I didn't have a real date with several other women at the time) for several months without me making any effort.
I'm not proud of using my big dick privilege to not properly treat a women as I usually do, but she got what she wanted & she bragged to her hot friends about my cock so much that I married one of them!