BJs — What do hung guys want out of a blow job?

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So few can throat I've never expected it or attempted to force it though it's a pleasant surprise when someone can without gagging or vomiting outright. There's a mood killer.

Here's what makes me crazy every time: mouth round my head with lips stroking it, one hand around the base of my shaft holding it in place so mouth/lips can do their magic and the other hand cupping my balls but with a couple fingers straight back resting against or slightly rubbing my perineum (aka taint) stimulating prostate underneath.

Do that and I will begin oozing copious amounts of precum in your mouth. Keep a steady rhythmic pace of lips stroking head if you want me to come fast. Vary it if you want to tease/edge me making it last. Expect a blast.

It's called head for a reason. ;)

That said I like variety. My glutes are an erogenous zone. Love having them held, squeezed and massaged during a standing BJ. I also like a warm hand on each thigh during a standing BJ. I'm more likely to come and come quickly standing than supine.

Other than that show me how you like worshiping cock best. :cool:

There's one other variation that makes me crazy. I'll share it in a later post.
it’s called head for a reason…
 
I want to be worshipped in the beginning. Wet, beautiful lips and lots of tongue over the head of my dick. Play with my nuts. Then slowly pick up the pace when you start tasting my precum. Love feeling spit drip down my shaft and balls while you enjoy my meat filling your mouth. Don’t deepthroat if you can’t do it effortlessly. Work my entire shaft while I tell you what a good slut you’re being. Use your hands to make sure my dick is slick with all your spit. You don’t stop even if your jaw is hurting. Relax and enjoy me. Don’t worry I’ll let you know when I’m ready to dump my load down your throat. Just don’t stop until I pull your head off.
 
I love the feeling of domination and power. Some little guy on his knees, looking up at me as he pulls down my shorts and my cock pops out. I love the little compliments, like when this one guy was like "wow, you have such a big dick" when he first saw it. I like when it starts out slow, maybe with stroking or just licking, and then builds up to deep-throating. And I love that feeling of my thick cock filling the guy's throat, and hearing him gag on it.
 
Yes! I’m with you on this. For me, however, deep throat doesn’t often happen. My dong is simply too thick. And as I said in an earlier reply, forcing it isn’t comfortable. It may look like live porn, but it hurts! Try shoving your dick into funnel — not a fan. So, yeah, if you can actually deep throat — go for it! If not, use your hands to make up for that “to the base” feeling”. Hung dudes all crave depth!
I agree with you. I'm very thick, and that seems to make it a challenge. For deep throat, I'd have thought being long would be the issue, but I'm not very long (pretty average) but am very thick. And it's a rare guy who can take the whole thing to the base. So yes, it's great when a guy I'm with can do it. If you can make it happen, then really make it happen! But if not, I'll settle for skillful licking & sucking with a hand working the rest that you can't get in there.
 
I agree that hung guys crave depth ... I think it's a primitive, animal-brain urge. But if you're thick, as many have said here, it's rare to find a throat that can take it all. So, to satisfy that depth-to-the-hilt craving, hand action becomes critical. My ultimate, body quivering orgasm with most cock-suckers comes from intense tongue action and suction on as much of it as they can get down and a full grip on my cock base pushing against my pubic bone hard to simulate forceful penetration. In the last few seconds, it feels as if all my Neanderthal genes kick in and I coat that throat!

And when I'm giving, I follow this routine as much as my throat will allow (and hope my guy quickly learns a rhythm that lets me breathe). Recently, I used the technique on a guy (he claimed to be straight and just experimenting) and made him cum twice in a row non-stop, first about 10 minutes in and again about 5 minutes later even more intensely. He was dumbfounded and speechless!
 
As a man with a larger than average penis, I crave depth — the very thing I don’t get enough of. What else is there though?
Depth is always king for me, even if she can only do it on a few strokes, with shallower strokes in-between.
My wife goes the deepest of any of the women I've been with, so those 5+ inch deep strokes feel great!
What about wetness?
Wet enough to make things easy, but slobber and spit? No thanks, a major turn-off for me.
Absolutely essential! Fortunately I've never had a blowjob that involved lips only
Dentures/no dentures ?
Never been with a toothless woman, but those who have say it's great!
Hands/ no hands ?
Definitely use a hand or two to enhance the sensation. If she can't go deep, that hand action in coordination with the mouth is the next best thing
Verbal instruction / say nothing ?
Feedback is a good thing! Telling her "That feels good" when she does a certain action reinforces what you like.
Hand behind skull / no touch ?
I've found that no woman has enjoyed or tolerated any kind of force, but supporting her head, gently guiding her actions or depth can add to your enjoyment.

One of the he best blowjobs I've ever received was a two-handed twisting motion similar to this, but deeper in her mouth
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The absolute best blowjobs I've ever received are from my wife, who can not only take 5+ of my 7 inches deep, actually enjoys me cumming in her mouth, and happily swallows!
 
Depth is always king for me, even if she can only do it on a few strokes, with shallower strokes in-between.
My wife goes the deepest of any of the women I've been with, so those 5+ inch deep strokes feel great!

Wet enough to make things easy, but slobber and spit? No thanks, a major turn-off for me.

Absolutely essential! Fortunately I've never had a blowjob that involved lips only

Never been with a toothless woman, but those who have say it's great!

Definitely use a hand or two to enhance the sensation. If she can't go deep, that hand action in coordination with the mouth is the next best thing

Feedback is a good thing! Telling her "That feels good" when she does a certain action reinforces what you like.

I've found that no woman has enjoyed or tolerated any kind of force, but supporting her head, gently guiding her actions or depth can add to your enjoyment.

One of the he best blowjobs I've ever received was a two-handed twisting motion similar to this, but deeper in her mouth
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The absolute best blowjobs I've ever received are from my wife, who can not only take 5+ of my 7 inches deep, actually enjoys me cumming in her mouth, and happily swallows!
I like one handed, with more cock in her mouth. That twisting action of the wrist works my frenulum and drives me to to cum HARD!! Swallowing is an extra plus....don't stop til the jobs done please.
 
Intentionality. So many ways to pleasure a dick. Yet you can feel when someone is intentional and craving to please.
Yep. A buddy and I were just talking about this very thing. Wives who “do their man a favor on his birthday” or hold it over a dudes head for ransom or a “special threat”. Fuck that! You either want to (crave, thirst for, hunger for) the opportunity to suck my dong, or you don’t. I’m not gonna beg anyone to blow me. ?‽! I mean ??
 
Yep. A buddy and I were just talking about this very thing. Wives who “do their man a favor on his birthday” or hold it over a dudes head for ransom or a “special threat”. Fuck that! You either want to (crave, thirst for, hunger for) the opportunity to suck my dong, or you don’t. I’m not gonna beg anyone to blow me. ?‽! I mean ??
Well, yours might be hard to suck. Soo big
 
Cup and tickle the balls, especially with wet fingertips, lightly and slowly. Go slow and deep. Plenty of light tonguework on the back of the shaft and suck nicely on the head. Slow and Sensual add intensity for me. Often grab the base.
 
I’m a pretty cruel guy so I like depth and them being desperate to please me.
I can’t get depth much, so when I can it’s a major turn on. It also covers my dick with spit, which makes everything hotter and feel better. In general I just like seeing a guy struggle to take my cock but keep trying, eventually he’ll get it and I can be a lot more rough from there :p
 
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I want the same as any other guy. I want to be swallowed full length. I have learned to be content with only just my head getting licked and sucked. The head is the most sensitive part to begin with. I have learned to be content as I know I cannot do everything I want to in bed. In my younger days knowing that I was stretching her more than most other guys was enough. They always came back for more as women loved that feeling of being stretched and feeling full.
 
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