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That looks scratchy/stubble-y at that length. Not so great for snuggling up to. Aesthetic is whatever. I am pretty low key/easy going. Depends on what the person I am involved with prefers.
 

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It all really comes down to what's comfortable for YOU. Most people have this idea that they have to look a certain way for everyone else. When in reality, you should do whats right for you. You want hair, have hair. Want to be big and swol, be big and swol. The moment you stop doing something for yourself and start doing it for the acceptance/attention of others, you'll lose your happiness because you wont live up to someone's expectations.
 
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Yeah, not really sure why folks on here got polled, when the wife clearly has no issue giving feedback/commentary. Especially with a photo embedded from the OP...
 
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Because she's biased

And? So? She is your wife, the only opinion that should hold any weight besides your own as far as a lot o things, including your personal grooming.

Feels like you just wanted to get folks on here to look at you/like you just wanted to show off. Ya profile/info/posts say that too. Which is fine and dandy, but not what Ask a Woman is about.
 

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Well.. if I wanted to do that id just post it with all the other pics that I "just show off" wouldn't i?
Not really sure where the hostility is coming from.
Its not a "praise my dick" scenario
Believe it or not I was actually wondering what women thought. Seemed appropriate.
I mean.. by all means don't look if it annoys you
 

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I dont get the hostility. There's nothing wrong with asking other people for their advice or opinions. Ultimately it does come down to what swol is happy with. Yes, I am biased. But my comment was quite broad and I'd say the same thing to anyone else asking the same question.
 
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I dont get the hostility. There's nothing wrong with asking other people for their advice or opinions. Ultimately it does come down to what swol is happy with. Yes, I am biased. But my comment was quite broad and I'd say the same thing to anyone else asking the same question.

What hostility? Saying that your opinion and his are the ones that matter in regards to his personal grooming? Gosh, so hostile.

Saying that Ask a Woman is not the same as Show Off? So aggressive! So hostile!

Pointing out the general etiquette o this section of the forum tends to frown upon dudes embedding photos of themselves which is true? So hostile! I am just the worst. Clearly I threatened violence, hurled insults, and told people to leave. Oh wait, no, no I did not do anything remotely resembling any o that.

Embedding photos means any folk looking to see what the thread is about automatically get to look at the photo. There is no "Hey do you wanna click this thread that has an image embedded in the original post?" pop up or anything like. Simple truth o the matter. I am sorry saying the truth seems to offend ya two. Likely to have a real rough time on here then, since at least or rather especially among the long time female users that I have seen on here? Most do not bullshit in any way. Very blunt with their opinions.
 

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The question was about me and my body. Hair is going to look different on different bodies hence the pic. Note I'm not naked. Was trying to be respectful toward the long suffering women of this group. I probably could have phrased it better. And I unreservedly apologise if I offended anyone.
 

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Fuzzy dudes are not for fighting about. Fuzzy dudes are for snuzzling!

Changing up how you present to the world can cause a bit of wobble in the most secure person. Newly fuzzy combined with a recent weight loss seems a perfectly good time to ask questions related to personal image.

Like, if a dude dropped lbs and had questions about changing his wardrobe up... he might ask here.

I'd give a similar answer. What I think would suit him *:rolleyes:* what I like on a guy and a final message of "do what makes you happy/comfortable"

And probably several photos of Dean Winchester as an example. Cuz fandom.
 

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Fuzzy dudes are not for fighting about. Fuzzy dudes are for snuzzling!

Changing up how you present to the world can cause a bit of wobble in the most secure person. Newly fuzzy combined with a recent weight loss seems a perfectly good time to ask questions related to personal image.

Like, if a dude dropped lbs and had questions about changing his wardrobe up... he might ask here.

I'd give a similar answer. What I think would suit him *:rolleyes:* what I like on a guy and a final message of "do what makes you happy/comfortable"

And probably several photos of Dean Winchester as an example. Cuz fandom.
Thank you :)
 
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I find the super duper hairy, like looks like a wookie look not visually appealing. Probably not appealing for touch either, since I like the feeling of bare skin. No personal experience with someone that fuzzy thus far. Back hair is not my favorite, and my partner does not like it on himself either. I help him keep it clipped/shaved to where it is not really noticeable. Some chest hair, tummy hair, leg hair, arm hair, whatever? Human body tends to lean a bit fuzzy for most folk and I like the more genuine seeming look than someone who waxes/shaves everything into non-existence. More important is how soft it is and if they use conditioner/something along those lines so it is soft. I am a very cuddly, touchy feely person with the folk I am involved with.

Person I was with wanted to wax/shave/whatever, rock on, but please keep stubble phase to a minimum. Person I was with left everything au natural, rock on but keep it soft/touchable. I really do not have that much of strong feelings one way or the other. It really is down to what makes the person happy. If my partner decided they liked having some back hair, great, I will let it be and more power to them. I am not a person who tries to tell a person to change their appearance to please me. I was attracted to them how they were and it is not my business to change 'em. If they want to try new things, that is fine too.

Like I said. Low key about this shit. Still find it odd that complete strangers are being queried, but whatever. My original answer holds true, the above in this same post is just a more detailed ramble about it.
 
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My man has no hair on his chest and that's how I like it.

However, if your genes say hairy chest, then I think natural is better, because stubble doesn't feel/look good in my opinion.
 
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