Body Type Preference
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Stocky guys, guys with regular 'dad bods', guys with 'average' bodies and even slightly chubby (not fat) men get me going. I also don't mind slim (not skinny) guys either. I especially love guys with hairy chests, legs, arms, butts - yum!
What does absolutely nothing for me are very obviously gym-honed bodies and muscle Marys – I find them quite off-putting for some reason. I'm also not into skinny twinks and I could never have sex with someone who was morbidly obsess.
Having said all that, personality and intelligence plays a huge part in attraction for me. And something else, which is hard to put a finger on. Maybe pheromones?
What does absolutely nothing for me are very obviously gym-honed bodies and muscle Marys – I find them quite off-putting for some reason. I'm also not into skinny twinks and I could never have sex with someone who was morbidly obsess.
Having said all that, personality and intelligence plays a huge part in attraction for me. And something else, which is hard to put a finger on. Maybe pheromones?
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Bryan Slater. Hard bodied, perfectly. Worked to maximum perfection and natural, not blasted. Smallish, lean frame and handsome to die for. Satiny smooth skin, ( I know he shaves his body) and penis perfection even though it is not the biggest or longest in the industry.
Striking beauty of a man.
Body types are not important to me. But I'm not very keen on muscular guys, especially if they are hairless. I prefer bodies that are not really sculpted: average, thin guys or a bit chubby.
RobRossiFan
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Being Versa, it's obvious that I'm radaring two types of men for dating
short sexy powerbottoms with bubblebutts (not necessary muscular, just thick and round shaped)
belly size MATTERS - if too big - no way! Pregnant guys do not attract me! Gross!
Face matters! sexy cuties preferable.
second type for another side of my sexual "moon" - lean, tall, slender guys with nice "tool"
the leaner - the better! skinny - is OK.
Face MATTERS, not scary, face should be like - OK, nice!
short sexy powerbottoms with bubblebutts (not necessary muscular, just thick and round shaped)
belly size MATTERS - if too big - no way! Pregnant guys do not attract me! Gross!
Face matters! sexy cuties preferable.
second type for another side of my sexual "moon" - lean, tall, slender guys with nice "tool"
the leaner - the better! skinny - is OK.
Face MATTERS, not scary, face should be like - OK, nice!
I'm 5'10" and about 130 lbs (now). I was a professional ballet dancer, although now I have more actual "muscle" than I ever used to. For the crime of being tall, willowy, and having long legs (not what I would have chosen for excess length), the shit that has been said to my face about my body was so... just utterly devastating that I didn't so much as quit dating as I completely cut the gay community off for years. Everywhere during that period it seemed as though any trace of whatever was deemed feminine was a death sentence.
Rejection is fine, and everyone has preferences. But when you're literally just waiting in line at the bar and someone stops whatever they were doing to lash out randomly because of their own self-hatred? Oy.
It's been very interesting to read the responses here, as it confirms a suspicion: there are very good people out there, and apparently The Manliest Man of All Human Males, His Most Royalist Majesty of Machismo, is also minding his own when out of the blue... A comment about his weight.
I like lean men with muscles like cords, although that's become a preference because so many men are just muscular these days. The workout bros are so clumsy and slow.
Rejection is fine, and everyone has preferences. But when you're literally just waiting in line at the bar and someone stops whatever they were doing to lash out randomly because of their own self-hatred? Oy.
It's been very interesting to read the responses here, as it confirms a suspicion: there are very good people out there, and apparently The Manliest Man of All Human Males, His Most Royalist Majesty of Machismo, is also minding his own when out of the blue... A comment about his weight.
I like lean men with muscles like cords, although that's become a preference because so many men are just muscular these days. The workout bros are so clumsy and slow.
RobRossiFan
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I am tall and have too long legs too. Lonely-life sentence verdicted.I'm 5'10" and about 130 lbs (now). I was a professional ballet dancer, although now I have more actual "muscle" than I ever used to. For the crime of being tall, willowy, and having long legs (not what I would have chosen for excess length), the shit that has been said to my face about my body was so... just utterly devastating that I didn't so much as quit dating as I completely cut the gay community off for years. Everywhere during that period it seemed as though any trace of whatever was deemed feminine was a death sentence.
Rejection is fine, and everyone has preferences. But when you're literally just waiting in line at the bar and someone stops whatever they were doing to lash out randomly because of their own self-hatred? Oy.
It's been very interesting to read the responses here, as it confirms a suspicion: there are very good people out there, and apparently The Manliest Man of All Human Males, His Most Royalist Majesty of Machismo, is also minding his own when out of the blue... A comment about his weight.
I like lean men with muscles like cords, although that's become a preference because so many men are just muscular these days. The workout bros are so clumsy and slow.
If there is a body type preference for me it is more related to height. I am 5'8" and prefer taller men; they get my attention ASAP. Outside of that I don't really have a preference with build I just don't like the extremes of boney rail thin to overly obese. Everything in between, average, little extra, stocky, muscular, toned, etc., is fine with me! There are men of different sizes that are fucking hot and I just wanna be devoured by them sexually, haha.
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I prefer older men, bi/gay/whatever, and want their babies inside me. Beer bellies and extra weight are hot, especially when they're thick &/or hung. Face doesn't matter; hygene and having confidence does. I especially like having top men who don't have much experience topping, and helping explore and build their confidence. My favorite top is 65, and he's turning into a fwb. He's told me it's very hard to find people to play with, which is astonishing to me. I've seen his silverdaddies profile change from 'not very confident topping because of my thick cockhead' when I first met him 6 months ago to 'newish to topping'. Still have a ways to go yet
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(hi everyone! posting on here for the first time heh)
I've found in my case that now at 34 my type has just been constantly evolving, not naturally because of some wisdom, but because of the function of time and experience itself. In my early 20s my type was "not muscular and not skinny but lean, dark hair, big dick preferably, smooth, etc etc etc" -- over time as you hang around different people and find yourself in new places you obviously end up having sex with people who didn't fall into the narrowly defined type you may have had early on and which was largely informed by media presentations of what should be considered sexy.
I didn't think I was into femme guys until one of my anon hookups was femme and it was amazing. And then such incidents kinda repeat - bigger guys, smaller guys, shorter guys, older men, younger men -- eventually you come to realise that Not My Type are just people you haven't experienced sexual pleasure with. The moment you've had a great orgasm with a guy not from your defined "type" -- your entire view towards his type of guy in appearance does change in general.
By now - I've come to realise that its not a specific overarching archetype I'm into -- it's just the crackle you can feel with someone after literally three sentences exchanged. For example if anyone does ask me what my type is I respond with:
I'm sort of into dorks -- dudes who are just kinda off slightly. glasses and a cute smile work? I like some cushion? I like a robust bum heh! but honestly -- idk -- I get super libidinous when im into someone, I just need the dude to match my energy and confidence and not have hangups about sex, and we're usually set for a pretty good time haha.
I've found in my case that now at 34 my type has just been constantly evolving, not naturally because of some wisdom, but because of the function of time and experience itself. In my early 20s my type was "not muscular and not skinny but lean, dark hair, big dick preferably, smooth, etc etc etc" -- over time as you hang around different people and find yourself in new places you obviously end up having sex with people who didn't fall into the narrowly defined type you may have had early on and which was largely informed by media presentations of what should be considered sexy.
I didn't think I was into femme guys until one of my anon hookups was femme and it was amazing. And then such incidents kinda repeat - bigger guys, smaller guys, shorter guys, older men, younger men -- eventually you come to realise that Not My Type are just people you haven't experienced sexual pleasure with. The moment you've had a great orgasm with a guy not from your defined "type" -- your entire view towards his type of guy in appearance does change in general.
By now - I've come to realise that its not a specific overarching archetype I'm into -- it's just the crackle you can feel with someone after literally three sentences exchanged. For example if anyone does ask me what my type is I respond with:
I'm sort of into dorks -- dudes who are just kinda off slightly. glasses and a cute smile work? I like some cushion? I like a robust bum heh! but honestly -- idk -- I get super libidinous when im into someone, I just need the dude to match my energy and confidence and not have hangups about sex, and we're usually set for a pretty good time haha.
yes i have a preference for guys who are in shape - maybe not fully for the reasons one might expect - as someone who tries to keep fit and healthy myself i like being with someone who has a similar outlook in life and with whom we can support each other in those goals.
I am also shallow and find athletic bodies do it for me more than other body types from a purely visual perspective.
That said if i meet a guy and we get on, there's a connection (mind, body, sex, whatever) then what they look like physically becomes a lesser element.
And for something longer term there has to be a mind connection, general compatibility etc because no matter how hot a body they have that's not enough for the long term.
I am also shallow and find athletic bodies do it for me more than other body types from a purely visual perspective.
That said if i meet a guy and we get on, there's a connection (mind, body, sex, whatever) then what they look like physically becomes a lesser element.
And for something longer term there has to be a mind connection, general compatibility etc because no matter how hot a body they have that's not enough for the long term.
