Body Type Preference

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omgzillavskong said:
(hi everyone! posting on here for the first time heh)

I've found in my case that now at 34 my type has just been constantly evolving, not naturally because of some wisdom, but because of the function of time and experience itself. In my early 20s my type was "not muscular and not skinny but lean, dark hair, big dick preferably, smooth, etc etc etc" -- over time as you hang around different people and find yourself in new places you obviously end up having sex with people who didn't fall into the narrowly defined type you may have had early on and which was largely informed by media presentations of what should be considered sexy.

I didn't think I was into femme guys until one of my anon hookups was femme and it was amazing. And then such incidents kinda repeat - bigger guys, smaller guys, shorter guys, older men, younger men -- eventually you come to realise that Not My Type are just people you haven't experienced sexual pleasure with. The moment you've had a great orgasm with a guy not from your defined "type" -- your entire view towards his type of guy in appearance does change in general.

By now - I've come to realise that its not a specific overarching archetype I'm into -- it's just the crackle you can feel with someone after literally three sentences exchanged. For example if anyone does ask me what my type is I respond with:

I'm sort of into dorks -- dudes who are just kinda off slightly. glasses and a cute smile work? I like some cushion? I like a robust bum heh! but honestly -- idk -- I get super libidinous when im into someone, I just need the dude to match my energy and confidence and not have hangups about sex, and we're usually set for a pretty good time haha.
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So literally EVERY TYPE of body can be sexually attractive for you?
 
tsfan1 said:
So literally EVERY TYPE of body can be sexually attractive for you?
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I feel like yes theoretically. But I also admit that on some issues I would have some initial hangup absolutely - like when I think about it a very big man would not be physically attractive to me from the jump and I don't know what could make me even be in such a position where I would have sex with one to eventually experience pleasure at the same time.

It's more that I don't define my type anymore by what I am not looking for, because I don't think the "type" is as exclusionary as we think it is eventually. My current partner is fairly conventionally attractive I think -- but he has some very odd things happening with his body that one notices over time -- but once you're into them they dont irk like they would otherwise. At least that's my case -- I've definitely had very cliche types over time and I don't blame anyone for having their very specific types. People should only do things they enjoy and I ain't gonna piss on anyone else's parade.
 
omgzillavskong said:
...like when I think about it a very big man would not be physically attractive to me from the jump and I don't know what could make me even be in such a position where I would have sex with one to eventually experience pleasure at the same time.
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Ah, there it is. lol
 
Cum_is_Great said:
Ah, there it is. lol
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Yep, that s what I was aiming for.

I applaud people that explicitly say they are also open to bodytypes they dont have a preference for.

I do think however that s nothing special. Everyone with a preference does accept body types that deviate to some extent from that ideal body type.

Saying body type doesnt matter at all however isnt very believable.
 
The build doesn't drive my attraction as much as body hair. The hairier guy will always get my attention. Naturally smooth is fine - just not my preference. But a guy with shaved/waxed chest, balls, pits, etc is a complete turnoff. I'd rather jerk off. A naturally hairy football player build with a little extra meat gets me. Classic hairy dad bod.
 
I like a wide variety of body types. I like slim guys, average guys, fit/jocks, muscle guys (as long as they aren't too big), and dadbods! About the only thing that's a turn-off for me is obese guys. But a lot of other things go into me being attracted to someone -- facial features, hair, attitude, etc. Things like baseball caps (especially turned backward!), facial scruff (don't like full beards, but I like some scruff), boxer shorts, chest hair, dark hair, etc. are all turn-ons for me.
 
I'd be lying if I said I had a preference. It's only the extremes of muscle, thinness and largeness that don't do it for me. Otherwise, any body type is sexy and beautiful to me.

If I could get a boyfriend that looked like any of these, I'd be set...SHO.png
 
I’d say I’ve always been into muscular guys but alas I’ve never been lucky enough to be with one.
I love the idea of worshipping his massive muscles and then him dominating my smaller frame. But, then I’d also like to top and muscular guy, too.
I’m probably a very basic gay, but a smooth, Men’s Health type guy is always guaranteed to get me horny.
One can dream!
 
tsfan1 said:
Does every gay guy prefer a muscular/toned/sporty body?

Of course there are slim twinks and chubby bears/cubs. Are they just a fetish, a type of guy you would fuck if you got the opportunity, but they dont have the 'ideal' body type?

In general a manly man is preferred so I would guess that a muscular/toned man is also preferred because that is a body type associated with being manly.
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1. No.
2. No, they aren´t just a fetish. They are persons like me.

I don´t have a body type preference. To me, all adult male bodies are beautiful.
 
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