Completely agree with you.I'm a top, generally, so I don't mind if someone would rather bottom for me. Being "top" or "bottom" is really just a position, not a gendered thing. I know plenty of lesbian women who top or bottom, and they're very much fully female, just like a trans woman is. Being in the "top" or "bottom" position doesn't affect my feelings on my gender identity nor my sexuality. It's just a position.
Surly transgender women all have to be tops?????? Be hot as hell to be topped by a woman but isn’t the point of them being their selves that they want to be topped?
Yea I would think most are submissive but seems on here the men mostly want to be stopped by trans women. Just look at the trans porn thread I would say 75% is "big dick trans" nonsense.Actually, most of the transwomen I know are submissive. Some of us are dominant, some are not. Even those who are dominant (such as myself) often have no desire to top someone with the genitals we were born with as in many cases those genitals are a source of dysphoria and depression. As I stated before, being "top" or "bottom" is just a position, and has nothing to do with gender or orientation. It's fine if your dream is to get topped by a transwoman, but the reality is that it is extremely unlikely to happen. You'll see it a lot in porn, but in the real world things are far different. Enjoy your fantasies, but please don't make statements that, "Surely transgender women all have to be tops??????", because that is a very inacurate blanket statement.
I’m so sorry I must of been half asleep, of course I meant surly all trans women are receivers not givers....my mistakeActually, most of the transwomen I know are submissive. Some of us are dominant, some are not. Even those who are dominant (such as myself) often have no desire to top someone with the genitals we were born with as in many cases those genitals are a source of dysphoria and depression. As I stated before, being "top" or "bottom" is just a position, and has nothing to do with gender or orientation. It's fine if your dream is to get topped by a transwoman, but the reality is that it is extremely unlikely to happen. You'll see it a lot in porn, but in the real world things are far different. Enjoy your fantasies, but please don't make statements that, "Surely transgender women all have to be tops??????", because that is a very inacurate blanket statement.
I'm actually really bothered by so many people wanting transwomen to top them like they see in porn. Porn is NOT reality. Many of the transwomen in pornography actually have to stop taking their HRT (hormone replacement therapy) to be able to perform, which causes them a lot of physiological and psychological issues. Others just take large doses of medication like Viagra (which can also be unsafe at the dosages taken). I'm not going to say people aren't entitled to having their fantasies, but actively seeking to be topped by a transwoman is actually seen as offensive by most of us. Also, I love how beautiful Natalie Mars is. I hope when I'm fully transitioned that I am half as pretty as she is.Yea I would think most are submissive but seems on here the men mostly want to be stopped by trans women. Just look at the trans porn thread I would say 75% is "big dick trans" nonsense.
I am more into the Natalie Mars type etc
Many, possibly most, transwomen prefer to be "submissive", or "bottoms", etc, because they prefer not to be in a role typically assigned to a male. They are female, and they want to be seen as, and treated as, female. Thus, many prefer to be on the receiving end of things sexually. While certainly not all transwomen, it is generally more likely than not that a transwoman would prefer to be penetrated vs being the penetrator.I’m so sorry I must of been half asleep, of course I meant surly all trans women are receivers not givers....my mistake
You look pretty hot now from your display pic. I am not bashing fantasies either just seems that most men on here prefer to bottom I guess.I'm actually really bothered by so many people wanting transwomen to top them like they see in porn. Porn is NOT reality. Many of the transwomen in pornography actually have to stop taking their HRT (hormone replacement therapy) to be able to perform, which causes them a lot of physiological and psychological issues. Others just take large doses of medication like Viagra (which can also be unsafe at the dosages taken). I'm not going to say people aren't entitled to having their fantasies, but actively seeking to be topped by a transwoman is actually seen as offensive by most of us. Also, I love how beautiful Natalie Mars is. I hope when I'm fully transitioned that I am half as pretty as she is.
Many, possibly most, transwomen prefer to be "submissive", or "bottoms", etc, because they prefer not to be in a role typically assigned to a male. They are female, and they want to be seen as, and treated as, female. Thus, many prefer to be on the receiving end of things sexually. While certainly not all transwomen, it is generally more likely than not that a transwoman would prefer to be penetrated vs being the penetrator.
Thank you for such a nice compliment! I'm only just beginning my transition medically, so I still have a long way to go before I feel confident in how I look physically. I do appreciate that people here seem to really like my profile image though! It's very comforting, and affirming.You look pretty hot now from your display pic. I am not bashing fantasies either just seems that most men on here prefer to bottom I guess.
I do find it interesting that so many guys want to get topped by a transwoman. Setting aside the fact that many if not most transwomen would prefer not to top/penetrate a guy, it is difficult for someone on hormone replacement therapy to achieve and maintain an erection hard enough for penetration. Which only complicates matters more for these guys who would like to have a transwoman top them.
Ignoring all of that for a moment, I wonder why it is such a fantasy/fetish for so many guys. It's a HUGE thing in porn right now, which means there's a market for it. I often wonder ifit is just because of the "taboo" nature of it due to society's stance on transgender issues right now? Or if it is the "exotic nature" of the encounter? Both of those reasons I take issue with personally...enough so that my (Punk) leather vest I wear every day has the transgender symbol painted on the back with the words "Not your sex toy" in the middle.
Thank you for such a nice compliment! I'm only just beginning my transition medically, so I still have a long way to go before I feel confident in how I look physically. I do appreciate that people here seem to really like my profile image though! It's very comforting, and affirming.
I do find it interesting that so many guys want to get topped by a transwoman. Setting aside the fact that many if not most transwomen would prefer not to top/penetrate a guy, it is difficult for someone on hormone replacement therapy to achieve and maintain an erection hard enough for penetration. Which only complicates matters more for these guys who would like to have a transwoman top them.
Ignoring all of that for a moment, I wonder why it is such a fantasy/fetish for so many guys. It's a HUGE thing in porn right now, which means there's a market for it. I often wonder ifit is just because of the "taboo" nature of it due to society's stance on transgender issues right now? Or if it is the "exotic nature" of the encounter? Both of those reasons I take issue with personally...enough so that my (Punk) leather vest I wear every day has the transgender symbol painted on the back with the words "Not your sex toy" in the middle.
You tell them .......Ya'll are missing a massive part here.
Most trans women are bottoms because Testosterone blockers and estrogen give them impotency (in most cases). The vast majority of trans porn actresses actually stop taking their testosterone blockers and use things like Viagra and Cialus to get hard.
Not saying this is all trans women, but like the vast majority of us. lol.