Can’t Get My Wife With A Big Cock Out Of My Mind!

[deleted13136491]

Thank you to everyone who replied I appreciate all the honesty and took some good advice from each of you. As of rite now it’s basically just a fantasy and it’ll stay that way in my mind unless my wife happens to bring it up. I doubt she will but I don’t wanna bring it up. Somebody mentioned do I think I can handle watching her sucking and being fucked and in more pleasure than I could ever give her and my answer rite now is yes I THINK I can but I can’t be sure until I’m
In that situation obviously. My ultimate goal is to obviously see my wife in a sexy porn like situation and it will turn me on knowing my wife is desired but also seeing her in pleasure is the ultimate goal. If she doesn’t enjoy it than what’s the point. Clearly she thinks she would enjoy it because she said she’s afraid a big cock would ruin sex between us. I should say huge cock actually because I’m not tiny lol. Only reason I say I THINK I can’t handle it is because I just get so turned on anytime I hear her talk about or get turned on by big dicks in porn. We’ll be watching porn and she’ll say wow he’s huge or that thing is massive or I wonder how much I could fit or something like that and I’ll just get so damn hard hearing that. Or it’ll be a scene where the girl is getting double teamed and I can just see her watching intently while she rubs her pussy and my mind goes wild. But like one of you said my relationship may not be strong enough rite now to handle that and I think you are correct. We have been fighting a lot and I don’t think it would be wise to have a guy shove his huge cock down her throat or wreck her pussy while we aren’t on good terms lol. Another person who responded mentioned the emotional part and I totally agree that I was afraid my wife was getting emotionally attached to the guy she was chatting with. She clearly loved his body and his insane dick he was like mutant lol and that was totally fine I loved how she was infatuated by his cock and loved all the dirty things she said to him. Physically I don’t care what my wife says or does with a guy. I would give her a pass to do whatever she wants with the guy he could sit on her face and make her lick his ass as long as she’s ok with it lol and she probably would have with this other guy. But once she gets emotionally attached I think that’s a disaster. So again to sum it up I appreciate al the honest advice and I am leaving it as just a fantasy unless my wife ever brings it up. I’ll continue to just jerk off thinking about my wife fucking a hung guy lol still no clue why that turns me on it’s sooo strange! Thank you again and please anymore comments or advice I loooove reading it!

 

[deleted13136491]

Another thing too I’ve grown over the years to be more comfortable with myself and my self esteem is very high that I’m comfortable enough to see my wife with another guy. It’s almost like I feel like I am in the alpha level as a man my body my cock the way I fuck I think I’m at the top but I feel my wife deserves the absolute tippy top. She deserves the best fuck and the best orgasm in the world if that makes sense. I was more jealous when we were young. I remember walking in to a club and she was grinding with some other guy we know and I got kind of jealous. It was just dancing but that was dancing for us lol grinding. Another time she playing around with a friend of ours in high school and she liked slapped him in the ass again harmless but I got a little jealous. So I’ve gone from a jealous boyfriend to a husband who is willing to see his wife’s legs spread with another mans giant cock destroying her pussy lol how strange is that??

 

[LargeUnit]

Sometimes I wish my wife had a big cock...

Another thing too I’ve grown over the years to be more comfortable with myself and my self esteem is very high that I’m comfortable enough to see my wife with another guy. It’s almost like I feel like I am in the alpha level as a man my body my cock the way I fuck I think I’m at the top but I feel my wife deserves the absolute tippy top. She deserves the best fuck and the best orgasm in the world if that makes sense. I was more jealous when we were young. I remember walking in to a club and she was grinding with some other guy we know and I got kind of jealous. It was just dancing but that was dancing for us lol grinding. Another time she playing around with a friend of ours in high school and she liked slapped him in the ass again harmless but I got a little jealous. So I’ve gone from a jealous boyfriend to a husband who is willing to see his wife’s legs spread with another mans giant cock destroying her pussy lol how strange is that??

It’s not strange at all - it’s sexuality and there is nothing stronger in the world. I will also warn you- that will never leave you. You will always want that to happen and you will always think about it. It’s just how you are wired - we all have our kinks. There’s no shame in it (although society bestows lots of bullshit rules and shame when it comes to sexuality) nor should you deny it. The hurdle is your partner and where your relationship may end up if you embark on it.

 

[deleted13136491]

The other day while having sex I mentioned how much I loved seeing her in pleasure and she said that’s probably only because it’s you giving me the pleasure and I said no I would be turned on watching you in pleasure getting fucked but I may be jealous of the guy. And her response was why would you be jealous it’s something you get all the time. That response kind of makes me feel she’s still some what open to it. Lol sucks I know deep down my wife really is turned on by getting fucked by a huge dick guy in front of me or at least sucking a huge dick but we can’t seem to get to that point.

 

[LargeUnit]

The other day while having sex I mentioned how much I loved seeing her in pleasure and she said that’s probably only because it’s you giving me the pleasure and I said no I would be turned on watching you in pleasure getting fucked but I may be jealous of the guy. And her response was why would you be jealous it’s something you get all the time. That response kind of makes me feel she’s still some what open to it. Lol sucks I know deep down my wife really is turned on by getting fucked by a huge dick guy in front of me or at least sucking a huge dick but we can’t seem to get to that point.

just keep mentioning and talking - you can get there but it takes time and talk.

 

[deleted13136491]

Yeah I will I’m not gonna pressure her. When she gets really horny forget it I feel like she could be down for anything. I remember showing her pictures of some of the guys who said they wanted to fuck her and her reaction was always like so excited and turned on. She loves muscular and ripped bodies of course but she was just in awe of the size of their dicks. She couldn’t believe dicks can get that big other than in porn lol like I said she’s only had my above average cock. We are planning a trip to Vegas in the not so distance future hopefully. I’m thinking maybe that would be a way to be a little naughty. She could wear her tiny thong at the pool and show off her amazing ass. I’m sure she’ll get hit on at some point. I would bring her to this upscale strip club that has a ladies night where they have male dancers for the ladies and see what her reaction is with the jacked strippers dancing on her. I think she’ll be shy of course but I think she would feel up on him if I tell her it’s ok and I really think if there is a big dick in front of her she would not be able to fight the urge to grab it a little lol she told our internet “bull” that if she saw his giant dick in real life she would just have to at least touch it and play with it. So that’s where I am at I think I’m gonna show her some of the guys who responded on here I know that’ll turn her on. Especially LargeUnit I know she’d wanna fuck your brains out or vice versa in a perfect world lol. She’s going to ask why I’m in a large penis chat since my penis isn’t that large lol but I’ll tell her it’s one of the only sites you can actually interact. And you all have such good insight

 

[LargeUnit]

Thanks - I’m flattered
Like I said- I wish we were neighbors, I would gladly give her a great time and do my best to make sure she doesn’t let it come between you two.

 

[deleted13136491]

Lol yeah she would be on her back with her legs spread eventually I’m sure getting pounded by you if you were our neighbor

 

[deleted300444]

"if you let an indoor cat to go outside to the great outdoors, often they will want to go outside more frequently"

I want all of you to let me fuck your wives though.

 

[Indiana48]

Woman can be brought to a new experience sexually...the slut within them. Understand there is a psychological impact that isn't as easy as fuck others

 

[deleted13136491]

I want her to be brought to that level. I’ve seen a glimpse and had a little piece of it and now I’m just so hungry for more but I don’t wanna pressure her. The little signs and comments just keep me coming back to it. Watching porn and her commenting on a big dick or making little jokes here and there about fucking 2 guys or big dicks. Just keeps me craving it. I can’t help it I just want a guy with a huge dick to fuck the living shit out of my wife. I want her to enjoy every inch. I want her pussy to be an absolute wet mess and I wanna see her cum like crazy and have mind blowing orgasms. I still think she really wants to. Just stuck in limbo.

 

[MoeMood]

Man, do not destroy a happy relationship.

Keep that fantasy, a fantasy.

Don't seduce her and yourself with these thoughts, you will regret it one day, no matter how long it takes.

 

[deleted13136491]

Thank you I appreciate the advice. Probably rite. Hard to get it out of my mind ya know literally every time I jerk off what pops into my head is my wife sucking a huge cock or getting pounded by one

 

[SouthPole]

This is an interesting topic with no “right” answer; a “shades of gray” sorta thing. First off, many, many men have this fantasy of sharing their wife or girlfriend, me included. Some like the idea of their woman being desirable to other men. Some may like the idea of her flaunting her sexuality and/or availability. I’ve read that some like the “taking her back” after she has “strayed”. Then there’s the old (and all~too worn out) the male wants to be humiliated (and has a small penis. This is usually associated with the bull being black and, of course having a HUGE dick. Sometimes it’s several black guys & she has to end up pregnant ...... ok, whatever floats your boat.

But it’s particular to each person. Like I said, no “right” answer. It’s true that while fantasies can be a thrill, reality may not always turn out as we imagine or hope. If you’re both enjoying the role~playing and where you’re at and what you’ve experienced then enjoy that. If you want to expand your horizons, slowly, then do that.

I love the idea of my usually professional and proper girlfriend yielding to her sexual instincts & enjoying being slutty. We occasionally talk about it during sex and sometimes watch porn to spice up our foreplay. We always hit our local nude beach a few times each summer and that really heightens the mood & desire.

It sounds like you guys have already explored some pretty racy behavior and you’re curious about going a bit further. Perhaps a sexual holiday to a clothing optional resort or a visit to a not too far (not too close) nude beach to do some “window shopping”?

There are some great hotwife/sharing/cuckold threads in the video page here which have some great stuff! Keep enjoying and let us know how it unfolds. I’ll watch with shared interest!

 

[professornj]

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Thank you I appreciate the advice. Probably rite. Hard to get it out of my mind ya know literally every time I jerk off what pops into my head is my wife sucking a huge cock or getting pounded by one

I saw your earlier post and was reading this thread all the way through.

It sounds like you and your wife have a good relationship, but one of the women that commented made a very good point. I dont think its a deterrent or an obstacle, but something to be aware of. Your relationship needs to be on firm ground to make this work.

Your first few times will be the most challenging. I have helped many first time couples go through the initial stages. Its very exciting in the beginning. You will get caught up in the fantasy porn aspect and lose sight of your emotional bond with her. After she gets fucked, you will have a sense of regret and remorse. This is all normal. But you need to be aware of it.

Your wife will have immediate sense of guilt and regret as well. On the one hand, she will love the sexual and physical aspects of being fucked by a Bull, but now she is looking at you and realizing that her "idyllic" life is over. She can never go back to being innocent again. Its a weird dichotomy.

If you do decide to pursue this, please make sure you meet with an experienced bull. Do not meet a total random stranger who has no idea what is going on. Those are the men that will make it worse.
One thing I do with every new wife is make sure that after we have mind blowing sex, I want her to cuddle or re-engage with her husband in a more romantic way. The endorphins from sex as well as the psychological control I have over your wife, she has entered into what is known as sub-space which means she is in this "ethereal" mindscape. Its like a dream like state, where she is conscious but unable to make clear and rational decisions. This is a point where you need a bull who knows what he is doing because when your wife goes into this mindset, the bull can literally get her to do anything he wants. Which also means, he could drive a wedge between you and your wife.

I have seen too many couples break up because they chose the wrong guy. Its not a funny thing to hear or see.

So just be mindful. This can be a fun and also highly erotic lifestyle. Like I said, I have helped a lot of first time couples. Im still training a couple in Brooklyn. They decided to go slow with this and since im now in AZ, we work together virtually.

 

[deleted13136491]

Thank you for the input how do you train couples exactly? Are you interested in fucking my wife? I think a bull would definitely get my wife to do anything he wants when she’s in that sub space thing you were talking about

 

[SamMann75]

First, be aware that seeing a big cock and getting turned on by it and the reality of taking it can be quick end to the night, and be OK with that and let her know it.

Second, it's very different for you, you are the only cock she's known. Most wives have experienced a guy bigger then their husband, and live their husbands, having sex with another bigger man isn't as complex.

 

[professornj]

Thank you for the input how do you train couples exactly? Are you interested in fucking my wife? I think a bull would definitely get my wife to do anything he wants when she’s in that sub space thing you were talking about

You forgot to tag me on your message, so I didnt know you had responded.

I have a full training program, so it would be impossible to outline it on this site. But I am an expert in the field of education and also with human psychology. So I just take my knowledge and experience and apply it to relationships and sexual situations. Its not complicated, but it does require patience and time.

thats the one thing most men in this lifestyle that are "new" are not prepared for. The patience is the biggest obstacle.
Most men that contact me want me to message their wife and try and set up a sex date within a couple weeks. Umm, thats completely unrealistic. And if thats what you are looking for there are swinger clubs in just about every major city, thats where you should go and see how your wife reacts.

Most women that enjoy this lifestyle and that would want to be with me, DO NOT want to go to a swing club. No offense to the people that go there, but they are usually filthy, disgusting places that are hardly ever cleaned. Just imagine a group of random strangers getting naked and having sex and sperm and female ejaculate all over everything. For some people, that is a complete turn on. But thats not a turn on for me, and its not a turn on for the wives that want to be involved with me.

I think sexual safety, cleanliness and just overall intimacy is important. Which is why im a Bull, not a fuckboy. I was a boy toy in my 20s. I had no idea what I was doing, and I was just arm candy for a lot of married women in their 30s and 40s.

This is General Info:
Ok, I want to be helpful, and ive been accused on reddit of "bragging" too much, so I apologize if I meandered at all. If you want me to be with your wife the first question you need to ask is to your wife, "Do you want this man to be your bull?"

The reason the first question isn't to me, but to her, is Consent must come first. Men that try and set their wife up behind their backs are disgusting male toxic a-holes. Do not go behind her back. If you have no balls and cannot communicate with your wife, dont try and drag me into your poorly thought out plan. They never ever work. And I know because when I first started being a bull, I got roped into these idiotic plans. And they always backfired on the guy. Yes 100% backfired. One girl ended up breaking up with her bf, texted me, fucked my brains out, sent him a pic of me inside her and that was the end of their relationship.

Is your relationship worth risking? Because if it is - I dont want anything to do with it. I only like men who love their gfs or wives. I like men who would do anything for their women. Thats the kind of men I admire. Thats the kind of men I like to talk to. I dont like men who mistreat women or who shame women or objectify women.

 

[cuckboy]

Fighting tells me she's already gotten "it". Move on.

 

[BriannaDoll]

@Aboveaverage69 , I don't see many responses from women so let me give you a women's perspective. Women are complex creatures and once we form an emotional attachment to something or someone it's very difficult to let go or forget. Sex has a physical and emotional aspect, no strings attached sex is purely physical vs long-term relationships with deep, emotional attachments where you would do anything thing for that person. With that said, it sounds like your wife has already formed an emotional attachment to that guy and even though sex never happened it's obvious she thinks about him often, that was evident in the red flags others brought up of what she might do if you were to die.

I haven't been in your exact situation but I know how your wife feels and what you're going through. A few years back I was in a long-term relationship with a great guy who was tall and handsome, treated me like a princess, and had a great career. He wasn't your typical Asian guy; he played sports, rode a motorcycle, and was the envy of all the Asian mothers and the object of affection for many women. I was lucky to have snagged a good one. I loved him deeply and my parents adored him and I was 99% sure marriage was in the near future. He was a little above average down there and at the time I thought the sex was great. Back then I was pretty prim and proper and although I enjoyed sex I didn't actively ask for it as I was brought up on the belief it's dirty for a girl to ask for sex.

A couple years into my career I had an opportunity of a lifetime to take a year-long assignment in Paris. My boyfriend and I had a pretty rock solid foundation and he understood how important my career was to me. We mulled it over and agreed we didn't want to do the long distance thing again like we did in college so we broke up, free to see other people for that year and would re-assess our relationship/future when I return. In Paris I quickly made some new friends and to keep busy I taught yoga and pilates (2 of my passions!) in the evenings at a local yoga studio. Well one night after class I was alone and closing up when a couple guys walking by came in who clearly were not yogis and started harrassing me, getting very touchy/grabby, and wouldn't take no for an answer. I had no idea what to do, never took self-defense in my life and with long nails I couldn't even make a fist. I screamed for help only to be slapped hard and had the wind knocked out of me (how do guys do a perfect slap like that?!), I still tried to get away but they had me on the floor quickly, I was fearing the worst. Next thing I know one guy is pulled off me and violently flung clear across the room (it was a big room) and a big meaty fist connected with the other guy in the face. Standing over me was a tall, huge, chiseled black guy. The 2 guys took one look at him and took off and Pierre knelt down and gently held me until I was done bawling like a baby. Turns out he was ex-military and taught a Krav Maga class across the street and offered to teach me how to defend/protect myself, and even asked if he could sign up for my yoga class so I wouldn't be alone. Anyway after a couple classes it was hard not to notice he had a HUGE dick, I didn't know they could get that big and with the hands-on nature of both classes it was hard not to brush against it. He could clearly tell I was uncomfortable but at the same time drooling, so he made the first move. Long story short, it was the best sex I ever had in my life and I think I had more sex in that one year than in all the other years of my sex life combined. Pierre was very experienced, dominating, had complete control of my mind and body, did things to me and made me do things I didn't know I could do, and the multiple earth-shattering, mind-blowing orgasms left me only wanting more. At the same time I learned how to ask for and get what I want to satisfy me sexually. He was my Christian Grey and I came back to the US a completely different and sexually confident woman. (and also able to defend herself!) I had tried to keep it to just a physical relationship but I formed a deep emotional attachment to him as he was literally my knight in shining armor and mind-blowing sex is also like a drug.

When I returned to the US my ex-boyfriend and I decided to give it another go as he was the love of my life. He also had a relationship and we were open and honest with each other but we agreed to keep the sex details to ourselves without any animosity or feelings of jealously towards the other. Anyway he noticed I was more aggressive during sex and he loved it, but to be perfectly honest I was thinking and fantasizing of Pierre the entire time. One day he accidentally saw some pictures in my phone of Pierre's dick next to my face, it was raging hard and is literally the size of my forearm and thick as my wrist. He was amazed at Pierre's size and couldn't believe I could fully take him and wanted to know all the intimate juicy details of the sex we had. At first he was happy that I got to enjoy the biggest dick I ever had and our sex life got a little spicy for a while but I was insatiable and he couldn't keep up with me and eventually it affected his confidence in bed. He became very insecure and eventually started calling me a slut, whore, and dirty for sleeping with a black guy. I wasn't going to take that and ended the relationship, it was hard as I loved him but I'm not going to be verbally abused or have Pierre disrespected.

Oh wow, so sorry for rambling on like that, just felt it was important to provide context on what I went through and where I ended up. For me, as someone that has experienced and thoroughly enjoyed a huge dick in every which way a girl can, it's something you can't undo or ever forget about. You saw how it ruined my relationship which I thought had a rock solid foundation. My point is you and your wife will not be the same if you go through with it, whether it turns out for better or worse. The emotions are on another level and once the door opens you can't close it, you either sink or swim.

Best of luck to you and do let us know what transpires!

XOXO