Thank you for the response that’s an amazing story. Both guys sound like great guys lol Pierre sounds like he had a monster dick! My wife had that same concern she actually said her 2 concerns are health reasons and also that she’s concerned that letting him fuck her will ruin sex for us because she thinks his huge dick will feel so good and I won’t be able to satisfy her like him. I asked her are those the only reasons and she said well yeah obviously I would love to fuck him he’s freaking hot lol
BriannaDoll
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I'm just worried for you as there seemed to be an emotional attachment to that guy, if it's strictly physical then any issues with having sex with you can be fixed with some "big toys"!
Fantasizing about Pierre while having sex with my boyfriend wasn't the deal breaker, I was deeply in love with my boyfriend and wanted to marry him and we can always find other ways to satisfy my needs in bed. In fact after he found out about Pierre and the insecure feelings started, I did everything I could to save the relationship: took us to couples counseling, sex therapy, bought a lot of lingerie and toys, role playing, etc. It seemed to be working until he bought me this HUGE dildo (bigger than Pierre) and saw the intense orgasms I had on it and how much I enjoyed it. He was shattered knowing he couldn't satisfy me like that himself even though I told him he was more important to me than those orgasms. Anyway things went downhill from there, and like I said the deal breaker was when the verbal abuse started and I didn't mention it before but he got so mad at me a few times he raised his arm but held back from hitting me, who knows if he would've one day. I knew at that point it was over, I was heartbroken and it took me a long time to get over him.
I'm rambling again but wanted you to know what might be ahead for you and your wife.
(and yes, I kept that dildo!!)
BriannaDoll
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@Aboveaverage69 BTW, if that's your body in your avatar you are hot! I love chiseled pecs and 6-packs, will lick each one.
Well thank you! Yes that is my body! Lol wifey loves my body and cock. This other guy just happened to be even more chiseled and have an enormous cock
There will always be someone out there that is bigger and more chiseled- get into her mind, know her like nobody else does, make her feel like she matters more than anything. I’ve done this to every women I have had a relationship with and they love it and need it - and love me for making them feel the way they do when they are with me.
A “cock” will never replace the way you make her feel and how you know her emotionally.
I'm just worried for you as there seemed to be an emotional attachment to that guy, if it's strictly physical then any issues with having sex with you can be fixed with some "big toys"!
Fantasizing about Pierre while having sex with my boyfriend wasn't the deal breaker, I was deeply in love with my boyfriend and wanted to marry him and we can always find other ways to satisfy my needs in bed. In fact after he found out about Pierre and the insecure feelings started, I did everything I could to save the relationship: took us to couples counseling, sex therapy, bought a lot of lingerie and toys, role playing, etc. It seemed to be working until he bought me this HUGE dildo (bigger than Pierre) and saw the intense orgasms I had on it and how much I enjoyed it. He was shattered knowing he couldn't satisfy me like that himself even though I told him he was more important to me than those orgasms. Anyway things went downhill from there, and like I said the deal breaker was when the verbal abuse started and I didn't mention it before but he got so mad at me a few times he raised his arm but held back from hitting me, who knows if he would've one day. I knew at that point it was over, I was heartbroken and it took me a long time to get over him.
I'm rambling again but wanted you to know what might be ahead for you and your wife.
(and yes, I kept that dildo!!)
I really appreciate a ladies perspective too thank you! I appreciate everybody’s opinion and advice but it’s good to hear from all aspects. Some people tell me straight up don’t do it it’ll ruin the marriage, some people say be cautious and keep it as a bedroom fantasy, some say get a big dick for the wife and watch her get wrecked lol and some guys have volunteered to be the guy to fuck my wife. All good answers I think. Ultimately I think if my wife said to me today find me a hot guy with a big dick I wanna get fucked tonight I think I would go foreword with it. But we are not there yet and possibly never will be. We tried getting a big dildo but my wife isn’t into dildos or toys she says she prefers real dick lol. I just love watching my wife orgasm and her screams of pleasure and the way her body twitches and flails when she cums is just soooo hot, we’ve recorded ourselves fucking and it’s sooo hot watching her cum I would just absolutely love to watch her getting fucked and cumming and having intense orgasms with a huge dick. Like I’ve said in previous posts as of late I don’t seem to fill her up. When she’s extra wet I don’t think she feels me really. Could be from having kids maybe I dunno but I feel like her pussy is capable of fitting much bigger dick. So now it feels more like her “fantasy” and her visual turn on from huge dicks may actually be something that she would benefit from. In the last she admitted that she liked looking at really big dick and she thinks it would be really fun to suck one but she would be nervous it wouldn’t feel good. Now I think a giant cock would fit her pussy perfectly when she’s really wet. I don’t think she regularly fantasizes about any of the guys that responded back to her but I know she has at least a few times fantasized about one of her “bulls” the guy she chatted with because I told her to. I swear she felt sooo wet when I told her to pretend she was fucking him. It would be my imagination but her pussy felt like it was flooding and she fucked my brains out so obviously she seemed to like fantasizing about him. Sorry now I’m rambling lol ultimately I think it stays a fantasy because there are days where my wife is very conservative and not kinky and dare I say “boring” even though she’s not boring really. But when she is really turned on and really in the mood that is when the freak comes out and she’s turned on by DPs and massive cocks and wants to fuck on a beach or wants me to cum in her asshole lol so it’s hard to not want to take steps further with my wife knowing just how freaky she can get. But I don’t want to push her because that isn’t good for anybody. Lol I just wanna get nasty with my wife and watch her fucked and cum like she deserves to cum but I want her to still love to fuck me not just studs with huge cocks
No doubt! I try and make her feel like she’s my sex goddes and that I desire to see her in pleasure. And of course as I told you lol my wife would let you fuck her brains out if we ever got there. Your on the short list of guys my wife would want. And we have heard back from some like “famous bulls” on different sites that expresses interest in fucking my sexy wife
thanks - I would enjoy pleasuring her !!
“famous bulls” is a term Im rolling my eyes at.
I would not want to be one of those guys — seek and pleasure your women with integrity- not because you’re on a list.
No I hear ya lol I just mean there are some guys from Reddit and twitter who have a lot of comment who have told me they would like to fuck my wife ya know
I have absolutely no idea what possesses any man to think like this. Basically forfeiting your manhood. Ditch this and have some pride in yourself. Unfortunately we live in a time where men taking pride in being men is “toxic.” And that narrative leads men down weak paths like this. Get some counselling, and if that doesn’t eliminate these thoughts then at the very least keep it a mental fantasy.
I can certainly see your point - but unless you actually have these thoughts you cannot begin to understand how powerful they can be - and they NEVER truly go away. Oh sure- you can suppress them - but that’s just what you’re doing - suppressing. It’s temporary.
I’ve spoke to many many men that have these desires and it’s comparable to a fetish or an addiction. To just leave them behind is much easier said than done. It really doesn’t have anything to do with manhood. I’ve been with wives that have absolute stud men for husbands - both physically and mentally solid. They enjoy it just as much as the not so manly men.
Disagree....its common fantasy
Could be that she is already no satisfied by your smaller dick and probably fingers herself regularly in the shower by her self thinking about those big bulls cocks. Gets her really wet thinking about watching you suck her cum off his big cock after he makes her cum multiple times.
In all honesty, although you are allowed to express you opinion, it is still not your place to judge what one does in his relationship. If both parties are for it then so be it. The only concern is that when one opens that door there is no turning back. If his wife likes the bigger guy and something develops between the two, he has no one to blame but himself. It’s a fantasy he wants to see come true. Unfortunately, that is one of the cons of acting on it. He seems like he has things under control so let him have that experience without judging.
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I think my ex wife chose me as a mate material soi she got me drunk, she did most of the work and I just shot my load - resulting in her getting pregnant. Being of the old school I married her, did manage to screw her a few times but knew her mind was elsewhere.
After the babies arrived she started on about needing bigger cock, we did a few swingers parties and hey presto, she found herself a huge massive cock - even being the party centrepiece display when I watched his huge dong squeeze in her cunt to the sound of applause. Oddly I was pleased, not upset that she had found a filling to satisfy, what irked was her packing bags and walking out.
Thing is why stay in a relationship if you know that one party isn't being satisfied thus making the relationship one of convenience with neither party actually getting any satisfaction.
After the babies arrived she started on about needing bigger cock, we did a few swingers parties and hey presto, she found herself a huge massive cock - even being the party centrepiece display when I watched his huge dong squeeze in her cunt to the sound of applause. Oddly I was pleased, not upset that she had found a filling to satisfy, what irked was her packing bags and walking out.
Thing is why stay in a relationship if you know that one party isn't being satisfied thus making the relationship one of convenience with neither party actually getting any satisfaction.
Common =/= good.
He can do what he wants, but it’s not even the relationship possibly failing that is the worst part. I fail to see how any man can partake in this and ultimately have a positive self image. Same goes for that SPH crap.
Trust me even I don’t understand it lol. I don’t like the humiliation aspect or anything like that, like I’m not gonna be locked in a cage or eat her out after a guy cums in her. I’m not into any of that. Believe it or not I have an alpha male attitude and character. I’m well built goodlooking and I have a pretty big dick so it’s not small penis humiliation or any of that. I am very comfortable and my self esteem is high rite now. I was more jealous when I was younger and less comfortable with myself. I think I just like when my wife is really turned on and the fact guys with big dicks turn her on makes me ok with her experimenting with a huge guy. Seeing her in pleasure is what turns me on the most about it. Hard to explain I don’t expect everybody or most people in fact to understand because I don’t completely understand it myself. All I know is when my wife gets wet from watching a big dick on tv or masturbates to a hung guy who sends her pics it drives me wild
This is so hot and hot you admit it. I completely get it. Feel exact same way.
