I know I come off as mean, but it's just baffling to me how people are defending his poor choices and decision making. You are all enabling him and are part of the problem. If you really want to help him, then pay for him to go to a good legitimate Rehabilitation center, which is anywhere from a thousand dollars a day or more. Anyone have 30 or 40 thousand dollars to spend on someone they don't even know? You want to have compassion, then volunteer your time helping the homeless or something. Not a drug addicted, woman beating, closeted criminal. Stop being hypnotized by cock.