Colton underwood- american football player

[BussyPhilipps]

Good for him, but I don’t have much time or sympathy for his sob story. He’s white, muscular, attractive and masculine/straight-passing.

 

[hisiff maji]

Good for him, but I don’t have much time or sympathy for his sob story. He’s white, muscular, attractive and masculine/straight-passing. The gay community will welcome him with open arms and open legs.

Those of us who are white, muscular, and straight passing are just as deserving of support. Coming out is a journey for us too. That’s the point

 

[hisiff maji]

Except he didn’t apologize for his behavior. He barely mentioned it other than to make excuses for it.

He did apologize, like three separate times. And he said he didn’t want to say anything that might sound like an excuse for his behavior.

 

[colorfulkent]

Wonder who he dancing with the stars partner is gonna be?

a woman of course, cause gays guy only want to dance with women.

 

[colorfulkent]

No, I think we are right on the money until we see what this show brings to the table. He lied to people, almost went throughout with a sham of a marriage, stalked someone and get's rewarded with a Netflix deal. Typically, shamelessness from a conservative. He used people and wanted to control his ex after she told him to hit the curb. He doesn't respect women. He's also 28 years old living in America. He can't be that religious if he goes on a show to find a wife after 4-6 months of knowing each other.

His mother confronted him about his gay rumors back in high school. he said she told him she'd support him if he was so this sob story about a lack of support was all him his head. Then he came out and said his family basically shrugged so all these theatrics and restraining orders were for nothing.

Come out on your own time but don't be an asshole and cause harm to others in the process.

also wrote a book about finding love on TV. He should give all the money back for the book.

 

[BussyPhilipps]

Ok but when is he going to come out as a bottom?

He has plenty of experience as a tight end.

 

[KippR]

I mean... for real. Do you really think he's straight??? C'mon. Hes gay as hell. Probably that's why he's a virgin.

The mind fuck of accuracy the start of this thread gives.

 

[ChrisD24]

He just came out. I had a suspicion, but I wasn't 100% sure. It's sad he even thought of killing himself because he couldn't accept he was gay, but that's what internalized homophobia does to a person.

I wonder what kind of guys he's attracted to? Jocks? Twinks?

 

[pitluver89]

“Emotion violence” is not violence in any understanding of the word. This is just an attempt by whiny weak people to silence anyone they don’t like. If you don’t like what someone says, ignore them.

So, you think him putting trackers on her car, harassing her friends, and attempting to break into her house, forcing her to put an injunction against him, wasn't emotionally violent? Do you think she should have simply ignored him? Also, I'd like to add the type of restraining order in the court documents she had against him was called a "domestic violence restraining order", so I wasn't even wrong by saying he was violent.

 

[bigboaster]

Those of us who are white, muscular, and straight passing are just as deserving of support. Coming out is a journey for us too. That’s the point

This reply is pretty funny to me. If it's true its kind of hilariously lacking in self awareness. But it's also very likely a lie which is also a good laugh.

 

[curtain_swoosh]

i feel like this was/is all for publicity. no one really thought that he was straight right?
when i saw that interview where he said "girls having periods, is gross" i knew he was gay.

i joked about it with my mate that theres a reality tv show coming, after his interview where he came out. and lookey here. haha.

i also dont buy his story. no way.
but good for him. he found a way to be relevant again. atleast for a little while.

 

[Brittain02]

Those of us who are white, muscular, and straight passing are just as deserving of support. Coming out is a journey for us too. That’s the point

What is this reply...

 

[curtain_swoosh]

He just came out. I had a suspicion, but I wasn't 100% sure. It's sad he even thought of killing himself because he couldn't accept he was gay, but that's what internalized homophobia does to a person.

I wonder what kind of guys he's attracted to? Jocks? Twinks?

ive read somewhere that he got very cozy at ricky martins party last year. so basically muscular types like him. but that was just a rumour. but now all the Hollywood gays will come after him. thats how it works there.

 

[stealthmens]

Jesus christ I've been reading this discussion and what the fuck. who gives a shit about if he's a bad person or not. The reason we come here is to find photos of men we think are hot and jerk off. And for the people who think you should discredit the difficulty of coming out you're straight-looking, fuck you. It is LITERALLY the exact same thing. You have to let people know you enjoy big hot steamy men more than women.

 

[curtain_swoosh]

Jesus christ I've been reading this discussion and what the fuck. who gives a shit about if he's a bad person or not. The reason we come here is to find photos of men we think are hot and jerk off. And for the people who think you should discredit the difficulty of coming out you're straight-looking, fuck you. It is LITERALLY the exact same thing. You have to let people know you enjoy big hot steamy men more than women.

of course its hard, but it peaves a bad taste in everyones mouth when the reason he supposedly did it, was to promote a new reality show. that doesnt help anyone who's struggling with their sexuality. at all. he is privilege in human form. that doesnt help either. the fact that he came out in an interview.. not helping. the fake tearing up? not helping.

 

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[deleted1040273]

OMG. I come to this thread and I see a million wannabe one-sided psychologists. We'll never know what happened ...Colton could be lying... Cassie could be lying. We will never know the true story. So stop blaming just one side. Ya'll would be a terrible jury - there's zero substantial evidence for either side. It's all here-say.

Damn.

 

[murrayguy4u]

"I'm sorry for any pain and emotional stress I caused. I wish it wouldn't have happened the way it did. I wish that I would have been courageous enough to fix myself before I broke anybody else."

Literally just ONE example of him trying to take ownership. Who’s to say what he and Cassie spoke about privately and what his apology to her consisted of? Definitely not a bunch of horny gay men looking for jerk off bait.

It isn’t his responsibility to apologize to the world for things he did that have nothing to do with us. It was a horrible series of events that he seems to have acknowledged. He seems to want to move forward, and so does she. Why not let them?

 

[Squirrellysquirrel]

"I'm sorry for any pain and emotional stress I caused. I wish it wouldn't have happened the way it did. I wish that I would have been courageous enough to fix myself before I broke anybody else."

Literally just ONE example of him trying to take ownership. Who’s to say what he and Cassie spoke about privately and what his apology to her consisted of? Definitely not a bunch of horny gay men looking for jerk off bait.

It isn’t his responsibility to apologize to the world for things he did that have nothing to do with us. It was a horrible series of events that he seems to have acknowledged. He seems to want to move forward, and so does she. Why not let them?

You can allow someone to move forward and still be critical of the fact that they are being given a platform. I prefer representation that isn’t toxic and abusive.

 

[Wes1021]

Colton being seductive in the shower: