Colton underwood- american football player

I don't mind the age difference, my issue with their relationship is that a year ago Colton was coming out and now he's engaged to be married... it's very fast.
You are not him, he's not you. If he's happy with the man he has,then he's happy and you should be happy for him. We obviously don't know the dynamics of the relationship,the inner workings are not what we can say anything about because we only speak on what's show out there, moreover, they might've been friends or even dating before they made it social media official so we can't say how long they've been together before they got engaged
 
I don't mind the age difference, my issue with their relationship is that a year ago Colton was coming out and now he's engaged to be married... it's very fast.

You are not him, he's not you. If he's happy with the man he has,then he's happy and you should be happy for him. We obviously don't know the dynamics of the relationship,the inner workings are not what we can say anything about because we only speak on what's show out there, moreover, they might've been friends or even dating before they made it social media official so we can't say how long they've been together before they got engaged
Yeah, how do you know they weren't dating before he came out? They could've kept that secret while filming.
 
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I think Colton likes having a decisive "daddy type" to help give him structure and focus. He has happy-puppy energy, so it would make sense that he gravitates towards someone who's more... not sure what the right adjective is here. I have a stalker who reports my posts, so I can't say anything remotely critical. "Opposites attract" is the useful cliché.
 
I think Colton likes having a decisive "daddy type" to help give him structure and focus. He has happy-puppy energy, so it would make sense that he gravitates towards someone who's more... not sure what the right adjective is here. I have a stalker who reports my posts, so I can't say anything remotely critical. "Opposites attract" is the useful cliché.
I think this theory probably has some merit
 
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I don’t watch the Bachelor or Bachelorette but saw pics and thought Colton was a good looking guy when I saw him.

Do I think some of the coming out process was for publicity? Yep. Is all of this very fast? Yes.

Jordan isn’t quite as handsome as Colton but he’s not bad by any means. If they are happy, that’s what matters.
 
I think Colton likes having a decisive "daddy type" to help give him structure and focus. He has happy-puppy energy, so it would make sense that he gravitates towards someone who's more... not sure what the right adjective is here. I have a stalker who reports my posts, so I can't say anything remotely critical. "Opposites attract" is the useful cliché.

I concur. Sounds reasonable.

Him being a football player for most of his life and being 'managed' by coaches close to his heart might be in his comfort-zone. Possibly?
 
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