Colton underwood- american football player

The quickness of his transition from super-closeted to mega-out still stuns me. It's great to see all these intimate photos.
It's just the joy of finally being able to breathe,I guess majority of us are familiar with such feeling
 
The quickness of his transition from super-closeted to mega-out still stuns me. It's great to see all these intimate photos.

As much as I’ve come at Colton (and I feel deservedly so), that’s not unusual. Some guys really struggle to gain self-comfort and to really snuff out gay shame and internalized phobias, even after “coming out”. For some, it’s an automatic relief and they gain confidence and self-comfort almost immediately. However, there’s no denying that a lot of what he presents is still driven by attention and validation.
 
Same. But I think if I found someone to be with whom I was in love with, I would be like Colton flaunting him everywhere lol.
I don’t know either of your situations but if I may offer advice: your life is too short to live a lie. The people around you who truly love you will understand. We only get one shot at this little life we all have. I know it’s not easy for some people but I hope that both of you find a way to live fully and authentically. ❤️
 
Well said and agreed.

I do admit smiling at your username, which seems somewhat ironic in this case. Though I know discreet is not a direct synonym for closeted.
I’m an out and proud gay man who happens to live in the South. I’m discreet with who I hookup with because unfortunately there are still a lot of closeted and/or married gay men here. I’m not out to hurt anyone or force anyone’s hand and change their situations if they aren’t ready - that’s what my “discreet” means.