That makes sense. I hope I don't offend. I agree with what you say 100 %.I’m an out and proud gay man who happens to live in the South. I’m discreet with who I hookup with because unfortunately there are still a lot of closeted and/or married gay men here. I’m not out to hurt anyone or force anyone’s hand and change their situations if they aren’t ready - that’s what my “discreet” means.