So I am sure I will get accused of faking but here it is.
Gay Republicans are a tight-nit group. If you are a slut, it is hard to keep under wraps. I asked a friend of mine, Cory, about Aaron. Cory is now a consultant, but he was formerly the Chief of Staff for a GOP Senator in the Midwest.
His response was basically. "Aaron was flamingly gay, especially in person when he was not around people from his district. He hid it poorly. He was big into clubbing. It was well known that the Congressman (he actually played it up!) exclusively preferred Latino men. He liked them between 18-25. Very well built, like himself."
He had nothing more to offer. But I figured it was worth throwing out there.