Controversial question for bisexuals

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Do you have sex with guys secretly?

 

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Not here to judge. Just wondering.

Maybe an anonymous poll would have been a better idea. :scratchchin:

 

[BiMaleHungWV]

HAve sex with both but not secretly. My girlfriend knows.

 

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HAve sex with both but not secretly. My girlfriend knows.

Question: Have you ever had a bad experience telling a girl that you are bi?

 

[latinluva]

Secretly? From the partners stand point, I'm sure of it. I've sucked and been fucked by guys I would see at the store with their wife or gf. I don't pay attention to them and they run the other way. I don't have control over men or what they do behind their others back.

 

[D_22]

When you say secretly, what do you mean exactly? Are you asking if we're not out about our "gay" side despite being sexually active in it?

 

[str8_ish]

If you mean other people knowing about it, it's not really their business unless your in a relationship. I meet guys discreetly for sure. Ideal scenario would be to find a girl that can accept your sexuality like BiMaleHungVW has

 

[ChileCat]

I think the question is about sex on the "downlow". You know, in a relationship with a female but gettin a little dick on the side without her knowledge.

 

[SDSU_Nick]

yes- and i am a closet case. but not while with a gf though.

 

[Sirramm]

Having recently "come out" to my wife that I want to try bi I can tell you my desire, if you will, to suck a guy off after he's fucked my wife and/or eat his cum from him directly of out of her is about as far as my 'bi-ness' goes. I don't really desire to be alone one-on-one with another guy. The turn on for me is to share him with her and see her with him and her to see me with him.

If you have to do it in secret chances are it's NOT worth doing and will have major negative impact down the line somewhere!

 

[luvtolick69]

I'm a little less "out" than Sirramm but trying to get there. She knows I love to wear lingerie and lets me do so while we are having sex. I've tried coaxing her into letting another guy join us to add to her pleasure but she will not even talk about it. So I'm quite sure she will not allow me to bring one in for my enjoyment. But I will keep playfully suggesting it and maybe she will cave in someday.

Like you what I really want is to eat her out while he is fucking her or right after, and during the heat of the moment would likely suck his cock and may even let him fuck my ass. But I do not want to hook up with just another guy alone, so I guess maybe I'm about 25% bi??

 

[eddieboy10]

I have been married to a woman for 30 years very happily but I have secretly been having sex with men also for about 25 of those years. Men are sexual creatures and need other men to get off with. I enjoy cock in my mouth, in my ass and anywhere else. I just love sex and wife does not fulfil the needs. So I see nothing wrong with 2 guys enjoying each others bodies sexually.

 

[marriedjacker29]

I think a lot of men have sex secretly....regardless of gender or orientation.

 

[kayman]

Nope, I have it openly and when I do date women they do know.

 

[D_Terry_Tugnuts]

No, my wife is fully aware of my bisexuality, and has watched me with men. She can't really complain as she's probably more bi than I am, certainly been bi a lot longer.

 

[D_Andy_Whorewall]

I have to fully agree with Eddieboy men are sexual creatures and that's what I enjoy most is just the rawness of m2m sex. I am on the downlow though
The wife and I used to watch various porn and I introduced bi porn as a way to bring up the subject. She could tell how hot it made me and in the heat of passion she would tell me how she'd like a guy to be fucking me while I was doing her or a guy fucking her while I sucked his cock
She used to have me cum in her and then lick her clean telling me it was from another guy. So hot
Once we came down from our sex high she didn't want to talk about our bi talk. That was years ago, she has since subsided from having sex, for almost a year now

 

[D_elc02ubc]

My wife knows I'm bi...she is as well. When we first got together, we went to swinger clubs in Chicago, danced our asses off in Boystown, and hooked up for hot sex with others. Unfortunately, she got sick (cancer 3 timed over the course of 5 years), and the chemo, drugs etc required to keep her alive killed her sex drive. I travel a lot, and I usually do all my playing on the road...she knows, and accepts it, and has no problem with it, though she rarely asks me about it. So in a sense, yes, I hook up in secret, except for when she asks me, and then I'm completely honest.

 

[deleted817718]

Only if they want it secretly. I couldn't care who knows who is fucking me, but some guys want it kept quiet. As long as they fuck me and I can suck some cock I don't really care.

 

[xrisxross]

Been OUT of the str8 / gay closet and openly BI since I've been 20. This 'secret' thing destroys peoples lives. Tread lightly...

 

[Bluvm]

I think a lot of men have sex secretly....regardless of gender or orientation.

I think it goes a little further than this. I think more guy secretly fantasize about it but don't act on it for one reason or another. Me personally I would like fool around with guys and hopefully will soon. But, my wife is not as understanding as some of yours. She would not understand the impulse.

Don't get me wrong, its not like I am walking through a store going wow i wanna fuck him. I still find women more attractive, but the though of fooling around with a man is hot.