Conversations With Women About Past Penis Sizes

[CumOnThisBlackDick]

Most women are pretty reserved or don't want to say the wrong thing or hurt a man's feelings. But some are pretty open about the different sized penises they've experienced and what they prefer

When I was in my early 20s I started to develop somewhat of a size kink. Since then I've conversations with quite a few women about what size penises they've taken, how they feel, and what they preferred

1. My Ex/Baby Momma - When I 1st started developing a size kink I was with my daughter's mom. She'd only been with one other guy (ikr) and said we were both basically the same size. I remember having a conversation with her in the dorms our sophomore year and while we were on the topic I said something to the effect of "Well I'm glad I'm big" and she mentioned how her friends said the guys with really big dicks made them cum faster. I wasn't making her cum fast, so basically what she was implying was that dicks bigger than mine would make her cum faster. We went to a toy shop one day while waiting on our food next door and when I asked her which dildo she'd prefer she pointed out this dildo that was both longer and thicker than my dick lol Ended up getting a cyberskin cock extender a little while later

2. Side Chick Brittany - Once my relationship with my daughter's mom was pretty much over I started cheating with this girl on campus I'd been attracted to for a while. She admitted she'd fucked over 20 guys and liked playing with guys' penises. Had a thing where she liked holding my dick when I went to pee. I remember her mentioning how she liked slow sex with big dicks and fast sex with smaller ones, I asked her "Sooo what you like with me?" And her answer was "Both" which I took as I'm medium sized lol

3. Escort Chick - Hired this escort one day and we really hit off conversation wise. I paid her extra to tell me about all the dicks she's experienced. She told me she'd fucked all kinds of guys (ofcourse lol) Said she's had orgasms with all kinds of sizes, but preferred big girthy guys when not with clients. Told me she'd tried DVP too and said it felt really good

4. My Ex Naé and Jeneen - They never said it explicitly but they both had the same reaction when I mentioned big dicks. While fucking them I said something like "Why you acting like this dick good, I know you then had fat dick stretching this pussy out before. They both definitely made a "guilty" grin and got wet asf! Naé even started cumming. I've said that to quite a few chicks while fucking but those 2 definitely stand out

5. Vivian - Me and her by far had the most open communication about dicks and sex. We weren't supposed to be fucking due to the nature of our relationship, and that "taboo" allowed us to communicate openly. She'd tell me about other guys she cheated on my friend with. Told me she loves big dicks, liked how my dick was bigger than my friends, told me how she cheated with his other friend and how he fucked her lights out, told me she's fucked around 200 guys (she was 28 at the time), was fucking her bf's friend that she trimmed weed for and that his cock was a little thicker than mine and had multiple MFMs with him, had multiple MFMs with me and our other friend in our circle, and after they broke up she was consistently fucking me, this guy with a REALLY fat cock, and the guy she was trimming for. She'd fuck other guys occasionally and tell me all about it too.


6. Dunae - She was my gf at the time, while were on the topic one night I asked her if she'd ever had a bigger guy and she admitted she did. When I asked her what's the difference, she said "It just feels like it's more pressure" During another convo one day she mentioned how "It's the pressure that makes us cum" Not sure if she was making a direct correlation, but I knew exactly what she meant lol

Btw I'm not small at all. I'm 9" long, 5.2" in girth behind the tip, 5.5" girth mid shaft, 6.2" girth at my base

 

[RedDevilCock]

Interesting!

 

[lapdog2001]

I'm 7 inches long with a 6 inch girth the full length of my penis, tapering to 6.5 inches at the base. Every woman I've been with has commented and complimented me on my erect cock, and all enjoyed it. None ever mentioned that size had anything to do with having an orgasm, and all but two of the women I have been with never had orgasms from vaginal sex with any guy they've fucked.

Some of those conversations when they have told me that I am "Big!" or "Huge!" or "Great cock!" have included talking about previous guys they had been with. With some, I was the biggest they'd had, with some more sexually experienced women, I was among the biggest they've had. Because of my girth, they all mentioned the feeling of being filled up, and that in combination with the above average length made my penis "perfect sized" for many of them.

Did it have an impact of their orgasms or not? No, as most didn't cum from vaginal sex no matter who they were with. However being told I was among the best lovers, or the best lover they had ever had, well that was/is certainly an ego boost! But that's more about paying attention to what the woman wants and how she likes things done than penis size. A big dicked dude who thinks that is all that is needed is not going to please too many women with that attitude.

The cliche "It's not the meat, but the motion" is truth based, and very much what most women will tell you.
I take pride in always being an attentive, caring, and skilled lover with the women I've been with (their words) and the big dick is just a bonus!

 

[CumOnThisBlackDick]

I'm 7 inches long with a 6 inch girth the full length of my penis, tapering to 6.5 inches at the base. Every woman I've been with has commented and complimented me on my erect cock, and all enjoyed it. None ever mentioned that size had anything to do with having an orgasm, and all but two of the women I have been with never had orgasms from vaginal sex with any guy they've fucked.

Some of those conversations when they have told me that I am "Big!" or "Huge!" or "Great cock!" have included talking about previous guys they had been with. With some, I was the biggest they'd had, with some more sexually experienced women, I was among the biggest they've had. Because of my girth, they all mentioned the feeling of being filled up, and that in combination with the above average length made my penis "perfect sized" for many of them.

Did it have an impact of their orgasms or not? No, as most didn't cum from vaginal sex no matter who they were with. However being told I was among the best lovers, or the best lover they had ever had, well that was/is certainly an ego boost! But that's more about paying attention to what the woman wants and how she likes things done than penis size. A big dicked dude who thinks that is all that is needed is not going to please too many women with that attitude.

The cliche "It's not the meat, but the motion" is truth based, and very much what most women will tell you.
I take pride in always being an attentive, caring, and skilled lover with the women I've been with (their words) and the big dick is just a bonus!

That's great to hear man, most guys with big dicks get a bad rep for being lazy and inattentive, so I'm glad to hear having a big dick isn't what you're relying on. 7x6 definitely falls within the "Goldilocks" of size, being able to go balls deep still with that kind of girth is amazing man!

 

[neintynein]

Most women are pretty reserved or don't want to say the wrong thing or hurt a man's feelings. But some are pretty open about the different sized penises they've experienced and what they prefer

When I was in my early 20s I started to develop somewhat of a size kink. Since then I've conversations with quite a few women about what size penises they've taken, how they feel, and what they preferred

1. My Ex/Baby Momma - When I 1st started developing a size kink I was with my daughter's mom. She'd only been with one other guy (ikr) and said we were both basically the same size. I remember having a conversation with her in the dorms our sophomore year and while we were on the topic I said something to the effect of "Well I'm glad I'm big" and she mentioned how her friends said the guys with really big dicks made them cum faster. I wasn't making her cum fast, so basically what she was implying was that dicks bigger than mine would make her cum faster. We went to a toy shop one day while waiting on our food next door and when I asked her which dildo she'd prefer she pointed out this dildo that was both longer and thicker than my dick lol Ended up getting a cyberskin cock extender a little while later

2. Side Chick Brittany - Once my relationship with my daughter's mom was pretty much over I started cheating with this girl on campus I'd been attracted to for a while. She admitted she'd fucked over 20 guys and liked playing with guys' penises. Had a thing where she liked holding my dick when I went to pee. I remember her mentioning how she liked slow sex with big dicks and fast sex with smaller ones, I asked her "Sooo what you like with me?" And her answer was "Both" which I took as I'm medium sized lol

3. Escort Chick - Hired this escort one day and we really hit off conversation wise. I paid her extra to tell me about all the dicks she's experienced. She told me she'd fucked all kinds of guys (ofcourse lol) Said she's had orgasms with all kinds of sizes, but preferred big girthy guys when not with clients. Told me she'd tried DVP too and said it felt really good

4. My Ex Naé and Jeneen - They never said it explicitly but they both had the same reaction when I mentioned big dicks. While fucking them I said something like "Why you acting like this dick good, I know you then had fat dick stretching this pussy out before. They both definitely made a "guilty" grin and got wet asf! Naé even started cumming. I've said that to quite a few chicks while fucking but those 2 definitely stand out

5. Vivian - Me and her by far had the most open communication about dicks and sex. We weren't supposed to be fucking due to the nature of our relationship, and that "taboo" allowed us to communicate openly. She'd tell me about other guys she cheated on my friend with. Told me she loves big dicks, liked how my dick was bigger than my friends, told me how she cheated with his other friend and how he fucked her lights out, told me she's fucked around 200 guys (she was 28 at the time), was fucking her bf's friend that she trimmed weed for and that his cock was a little thicker than mine and had multiple MFMs with him, had multiple MFMs with me and our other friend in our circle, and after they broke up she was consistently fucking me, this guy with a REALLY fat cock, and the guy she was trimming for. She'd fuck other guys occasionally and tell me all about it too.


6. Dunae - She was my gf at the time, while were on the topic one night I asked her if she'd ever had a bigger guy and she admitted she did. When I asked her what's the difference, she said "It just feels like it's more pressure" During another convo one day she mentioned how "It's the pressure that makes us cum" Not sure if she was making a direct correlation, but I knew exactly what she meant lol

Btw I'm not small at all. I'm 9" long, 5.2" in girth behind the tip, 5.5" girth mid shaft, 6.2" girth at my base

That's a pretty extreme size already. (How are you measuring that length?) Amazing to hear women say you aren't their biggest.

 

[CumOnThisBlackDick]

That's a pretty extreme size already. (How are you measuring that length?) Amazing to hear women say you aren't their biggest.

I have an upward curve, so I measure from my base on the underside to the tip

 

[meadow7]

I have an upward curve, so I measure from my base on the underside to the tip

From the underside and not pressed against the pad from the top means you are probably an inch or so bigger than you think. I am close to 6 at midshaft but I taper to 7 at the base, so some women don't go all the way in because I sometimes cause bleeding.

You are 100% right. Being attentive is as important as size.

 

[nolbaby]

I'm 7 inches long with a 6 inch girth the full length of my penis, tapering to 6.5 inches at the base. Every woman I've been with has commented and complimented me on my erect cock, and all enjoyed it. None ever mentioned that size had anything to do with having an orgasm, and all but two of the women I have been with never had orgasms from vaginal sex with any guy they've fucked.

Some of those conversations when they have told me that I am "Big!" or "Huge!" or "Great cock!" have included talking about previous guys they had been with. With some, I was the biggest they'd had, with some more sexually experienced women, I was among the biggest they've had. Because of my girth, they all mentioned the feeling of being filled up, and that in combination with the above average length made my penis "perfect sized" for many of them.

Did it have an impact of their orgasms or not? No, as most didn't cum from vaginal sex no matter who they were with. However being told I was among the best lovers, or the best lover they had ever had, well that was/is certainly an ego boost! But that's more about paying attention to what the woman wants and how she likes things done than penis size. A big dicked dude who thinks that is all that is needed is not going to please too many women with that attitude.

The cliche "It's not the meat, but the motion" is truth based, and very much what most women will tell you.
I take pride in always being an attentive, caring, and skilled lover with the women I've been with (their words) and the big dick is just a bonus!

"It's not the meat, but the motion" only applies if you have a big dick. No woman has ever had sex with a 4 inch penis and said that she didn't cum because of the motion.

 

[CumOnThisBlackDick]

"It's not the meat, but the motion" only applies if you have a big dick. No woman has ever had sex with a 4 inch penis and said that she didn't cum because of the motion.

I'd beg to differ, I've had women tell me they've definitely orgasmed with smaller guys, so I'm sure they can recognize it's not the size they're getting off on, it definitely helps though

 

[lbj15]

I gave up the "this is my sex history" conversations with women a long, long time ago, but when I was younger a couple stand out:

1) "So yeah, the first guy was I guess big. Second was tiny, like I don't think I came at all that year. Third was average, fourth was a big guy so yeah, but nothing like yours. It's not so much that you're thick, which you are, but long. Usually I can get most of it in my mouth but I can barely get halfway with you." She also claimed that she had a completely different type of orgasm with me, which I assume was a g-spot orgasm vs clitoral.

2) "My first used to brag about how big he was which it turned out was true . . . until you."

I also had a girl say I was her second-biggest, compared to some guy when she was younger. Her boyfriend before me was a notorious NFL player, so that was nice to hear.

 

[Nok99]

A good friend of mine and I got drunk and slept together once. I was really inexperienced at the time, and very self conscious. We were close, so I knew I could trust her to be honest and I knew she'd had experience with a handful of guys. So afterwards, I asked her about my size. Her response was, "Are you kidding? It's the biggest cock I've ever had."

I'm about 7.5 inches so it's not a monster cock or anything, but that was the first time I realized I was above average.

 

[Helixo]

I have several stories about such conversations. I'll try to remember some of them.

Let's start with my ex.
She was petite, around 5'2'', with no boobs at all but she had a tight ass and a perfect pussy. Up until she turned 19 she was with her bf. She told me he had a big flaccid dick, around 5'' but when he was erect the only difference was that his dick was hard. She loved to play with his flaccid dick. The feeling is like playing with pizza dough she said. She preferred his dick rather than mine because she loved flaccid cocks but he didn't know how to fuck.
She left her home town to study and there she met a local guy with a big thick cock. He was around 7'' but very thick, something like Billy Glide's dick. His flaccid size was around 4''. The guy only wanted to fuck since he knew she would move out of town after her studies. She was very easy to satisfy since she was multiorgasmic. She liked to ride first in order to orgasm and after that she wanted to fuck. Usual time 5 minutes when riding, 20 minutes from other positions, 45 minutes for the 2nd orgasm. She couldn't close her hand around his cock and he destroyed her several times. After the first 2 orgasms it was anal time where he completely destroyed her hole. He could fuck one time per day for 1,5 hours. He couldn't get hard for a second time thing that she hated since she wanted sex all day long.
She then met me. I was the best fuck of her life (for a relationship) due to my stamina and my readiness to fuck. I was 3-4'' flaccid and almost 6'' hard (5.75'' usually). Nothing but average and nothing she couldn't handle. Her first bf had a better flaccid size, her fuck buddy had a better erect size and stamina for one time, but I was a better fuck since I could fuck many times a day and 45 minutes was something easy for me. I could make her internal organs move but the feeling of a full pussy was something out of my league.
One time, after a broke up of 1 month due to stupid thoughts, she went on a date with an old friend. He tried to fuck her but when she saw his 5'' dick she refused and left him with his dick hard. I knew something was wrong and asked her in the middle of the night what was going on and she revealed all the details. If he was bigger than me I'm sure she would have fucked him.
Αfter we broke up she stayed single for a month but then she visited her fuck buddy to forget me.He did a pretty decent job and she found another bf after 6 months. We still talk but she doesn't want to meet me. She doesn't want to cheat on her husband. I knew she would marry him from the moment she didn't tell me anything about their sex life and his size. I will ask her if I find the opportunity but I doubt she will give any details.

Sofie
She was tall, around 5'8'', fit, with a perfect ass. I helped her with her studies and her work. One time during fucking she asked me to go deeper. I was as deep as I could but she wanted more. After that we had a talk about previous bf and dick sizes. Her ex was around 7'' and she had up to 9'' but she considered 7'' as completely satisfying and adequate. A 9'' was good to destroy her, she argued. We broke up because she was not satisfied with my dick even though I was a better lover than all her ex bf. After a year or two I met her ex in a very strange way and I was more than happy we broke up. He was 6'4'' but he was fat, ugly and not very bright. I knew she was with him because of his dick and his money so I was very happy.

Penelope
She was 5'8'', with a normal body, big firm boobs and a tight ass. She has the tightest pussy I have ever seen. She couldn't orgasm and that made her ask always for more fucking. She made me improve my stamina to pornstar levels. When I asked her about her ex and his size she told me he was 9'' and that he made her cum after 8 hours of fucking. She was lying and it was obvious. Her ex was around 6''-7'' and never made her cum. One time we decided with my ex to take a brake. Then Penelope appeared again in my life and came to fuck. She thought that by fucking she could make me marry her. During our intercourse and as I was fucking her missionary I asked her about her bf. She told me he left her and that she wanted revenge as she was single for 2 months. She revealed his real size and then she fucked my brains out for another hour. Never managed to make her orgasm. The only thing I knew about her was that there was a certain day each month that she was orgasm machine: 6-7 orgasms every hour for at least 3 hours. Something to do about her hormones I believe. After that we had a fight since she told me about her ex, the fact that she wanted to marry me and offered me sex for marriage. I felt like a whore and didn't want to continue anything. She started calling me about various things but one time I called her to ask her something I found she was married and her husband didn't know anything about her cheating etc.

Wife
We worked together for a year. I was hired a little earlier and when she came the boss told me to help him prepare her desk. When I first saw her I knew I liked her so I put her desk so that we can see each other. She is 5'7'', around 125 pounds, with perfect tits (big and very firm) and a tight pussy and ass. Told her that she should laser her pubes and she is like a pornstar now. We made a team of 4 (2 men 2 women) and along with other colleagues we started going out together. I had a relationshipe at the moment and so did she but I had the feeling that she really liked me. I helped her return to her hometown for christmas and as she left she phoned me to tell my she found a perfect seat in the bus. From that moment I knew she was in live. During holidays she talked to me (MSN back then) as her bf was asleep and that was a validation she was in love or at least horny and ready to fuck. After holidays I visited her house and we had a real good time (no fucking). She asked me to come over another time and the second time we had sex. She had doubts in the beggining but after while she asked me to fuck her. I fucked her 3 times that night but no orgasm. The fun part was that she asked me to cum inside her but the condom was completely destroyed and all the semen stayed in. We didn't know what to do since there was no morning- after pill at that time but the only thing she tought was to fuck without condom from now on. She was lucky since my ex was a good teacher and had sexual appetite all the time so I could fuck any time any place and Penelope trained me to fuck for hours. After several months we decided to stay together and get married. We both broke up, stayed together and now we are married for more than 10 years.
Now let's see how I learned about dick sizes. During our first months of fucking I gave everything and she couldn't orgasm. She was close but she could never pass the barrier. I asked her many times to orgams, I could see her reach climax and then nothing. I was banging her relentlessly but the result was the same: no orgasm. I asked her why she couldn't orgasm since I could she her getting very close and she told me she could never orgasm. I asked about her ex and then she told me that he had a really huge cock. His dick was flaccid way bigger than mine erect and that puts him around 7'' flaccid (or more). She then told me that he was both a shower and a grower and his dick was at around 2'' bigger when erect. We had a conversation about it since I didn't want the same situation as with Sofie and asked her if she wanted to brake up with me since she is not satisfied. She told me she didn't have a problem with sex and that she didn't care about dicks. So we stayed together for 5 years and then we married.
The fact is that she was always shy and sex with her even though she was a good fuck (perfect body, pussy, stamina, BJ etc) didn't have the power it had with my ex. I taught her some things but she was always reluctant to new stuff. Anyway we talked much about ex bf and gf so I know some stuff.
During high school she had 2 bf with average size and she remembers nothing about them. The only thing she told me recently was that she doesn't believe she was with the one of the 2 guys.
The first year of her studies she met the perfect guy but he was way different than her and even though she loved him their relationship didn't have a future. He was around 6.5'' a good fuck but nothing special.
After him she met her huge ex: 7'' flaccid, 9'' hard, perfect fuck. He fucked her 8 times one night and she couldn't walk for a week. He made her orgasm from all positions thing she admitted last week (after more than 15 years together).
She wanted to prove she was worth fucking and cheated on her ex with a bb player: one night, 2 sessions, big dick around 7.5''-8''. He was famous but he was way too stupid for her so nothing more than one night stand.
She returned to her ex but after her studies she met a guy with whom she worked together. She really liked him so she cheated her ex with him and the affair lasted almost 6 months. Since her ex and the bb player were both huge his dick was way smaller, around 6.5''. It was something new to me, she told me. I had 5-6 years to see a dick so small. He was a good fuck though and he fucked her 3 times a week with 3 sessions every night. One day after 3 sessions with this guy she returned to her ex and he was horny. She didn't want to tell him no so they fucked 3 times. 6 times in one night it was way too much especially with a horny 9''. She was destroyed and decided to end the parallel relationship since she never had the intention to brake up with her ex. The new guy was a lower rank and she couldn't be with a guy she commanded in the company. She loved his smooth skin though as she was the only man she ever met with smooth balls, back, chest, legs etc without shaving or similar.
They stayed together with her ex for several years and then she met me. The rest is history already written. I made her orgasm after 10 years and I was happy since the only way to make her cum was by licking her clit. I have to mention some more things:
Lately, even though she is low in sex drive, she is more relaxed and she fucks very good using skills I never knew she had.
One day 2 months ago she was horny and it was the first time she initiated sex. We had 2 quickies, she was ready to orgasm from standing fuck but nothing happened. At least she admitted she had orgasms from her ex not only by grindind. I hope I can make her orgasm too.

That's about it. I don't remember more stories right now.

 

[rope9839]

I've had size conversations with probably a hundred women. I think it's something they open up about a little when they are with a big guy that they know has no hang ups. If they were with a guy with four or five inches before me, they usually bring it up and are the ones who initiate it. It also seems anyone who has had sex with black men makes that comparison at some point.

 

[kahlua123]

It also seems anyone who has had sex with black men makes that comparison at some point.

Very true and very strange. I've been told many times that I either "have a black dick" or am bigger than any guy she's had - "even the black guys." And I'm always thinking: Why does that matter?

 

[RaskaYu]

I've talked about this in previous threads but my story was basically:

First girlfriend was head over heels but I blamed the fact that she were both inexperienced. It was painful and cumbersome at first, but in the end we took quite the gist of it and fucked like savages every time we could. She contrasted the data with her friends and I was the biggest of their boyfriend group, which gave me a brief local big dick reputation. Nevertheless I knew some guys among my acquaintances and band scene that were absolutely packing, I even went to the swimming pool with a couple of them, so it wasn't like I suddenly thought I was the biggest of them all. Not at all.

Second girlfriend loved it, was more experienced but didn't comment anything until I boldly went with something along the lines of "you don't seem disappointed, do you find anything lacking down here?" And she laughed and said "Oh god, definitely NOT disappointed!" - This was a big deal for me because the notion that I was sorta hung hadn't quite sunk in my mind yet. I thought I was just... very competent, so to speak.

Then, discrete girlfriends and hook-ups for several years that were just positively surprised when I dropped my pants but didn't make a big deal out of it... Nevertheless, a fond memory I have is getting invited to climb to a friends bed during a sleepover and she silently gasped a subtle "Ay qué grande...!" in the dark.

Around the time I finished college I hooked-up with a hipster girl I saw on campus. She had broken up recently with a guy she had been with for a very long time, one of her very first boyfriends. We were laying in bed together after fucking and wanted to go a second round but didn't have a condom, so we jerked off together. She enjoyed so much the view of my meat, veins and motions (i.e. slapping, two-hander…) that she forgot to finger herself. She commented it was the biggest she had ever seen until then. Still puts me rock hard to this day.

Then it comes the "sobering" phase. Two girlfriends I had (Hardcore Punk vs. Rockabilly chick) claimed that they had enjoyed some prime monster cock in the past, citing the proverbial "Monster can size" [*]. They thought I was pretty OK of course but nothing to write home about. That felt a bit disappointing to say the least.

I've said it in the past and I guess it's worth repeating:

Ladies, just because your ex played in the NBA doesn't mean your current lover isn't taller than the national average. Acknowledge what you're dealing with and give a compliment from time to time, as we men do to our women all the time. Thank you very much.

[*] To be fair, I've compared to a Monster can and I think I can see some resemblance, though I'm longer and I lack that humongous girth. For the record, I suspect a lot of hung guys with thick cocks are compared with the "Monster can" analogy by their lovers, because it's a bit of a "format" and it rarely comes into question. They look at a Monster can and think "Looks like the size of it yeah" when in reality it'd be quite unwieldly. I'm sure there's a lot of pictures in this website for comparison but one from r/measuredpornstars in which Chris Diamond takes a dickpic with a can of said beverage comes to mind. He comes close, but it's still quite different.

And finally, my lovely wife. A few months ago before joining the website I had a semi-serious talk with her and I simply blurted out: “Girl, have you noticed I’m actually… big?” and she looked at me surprised and laughed and said “Yes of course I’ve NOTICED. You are huge. What’s the matter, tiger?” We spoke seriously and turns out she had a lot of luck with her past boyfriends and enjoyed some prime cock, but mine's the biggest and hardest she's ever seen. She never watches anything remotely resembling porn so that may even be true. Why am I learning this after more than 5 years into this relationship? She's too discrete.

 

[rope9839]

Very true and very strange. I've been told many times that I either "have a black dick" or am bigger than any guy she's had - "even the black guys." And I'm always thinking: Why does that matter?

I remember my mother's boyfriend finding a Hustler in my room that had a black guy in the Beaver Hunt section. The only comment he made to me about the whole magazine was "You know, all black men aren't like that." While I know now the guy was hung like a horse, at the time I didn't know what he was talking about because it looked pretty normal as far as I was concerned.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Most women are pretty reserved or don't want to say the wrong thing or hurt a man's feelings. But some are pretty open about the different sized penises they've experienced and what they prefer

When I was in my early 20s I started to develop somewhat of a size kink. Since then I've conversations with quite a few women about what size penises they've taken, how they feel, and what they preferred

1. My Ex/Baby Momma - When I 1st started developing a size kink I was with my daughter's mom. She'd only been with one other guy (ikr) and said we were both basically the same size. I remember having a conversation with her in the dorms our sophomore year and while we were on the topic I said something to the effect of "Well I'm glad I'm big" and she mentioned how her friends said the guys with really big dicks made them cum faster. I wasn't making her cum fast, so basically what she was implying was that dicks bigger than mine would make her cum faster. We went to a toy shop one day while waiting on our food next door and when I asked her which dildo she'd prefer she pointed out this dildo that was both longer and thicker than my dick lol Ended up getting a cyberskin cock extender a little while later

2. Side Chick Brittany - Once my relationship with my daughter's mom was pretty much over I started cheating with this girl on campus I'd been attracted to for a while. She admitted she'd fucked over 20 guys and liked playing with guys' penises. Had a thing where she liked holding my dick when I went to pee. I remember her mentioning how she liked slow sex with big dicks and fast sex with smaller ones, I asked her "Sooo what you like with me?" And her answer was "Both" which I took as I'm medium sized lol

3. Escort Chick - Hired this escort one day and we really hit off conversation wise. I paid her extra to tell me about all the dicks she's experienced. She told me she'd fucked all kinds of guys (ofcourse lol) Said she's had orgasms with all kinds of sizes, but preferred big girthy guys when not with clients. Told me she'd tried DVP too and said it felt really good

4. My Ex Naé and Jeneen - They never said it explicitly but they both had the same reaction when I mentioned big dicks. While fucking them I said something like "Why you acting like this dick good, I know you then had fat dick stretching this pussy out before. They both definitely made a "guilty" grin and got wet asf! Naé even started cumming. I've said that to quite a few chicks while fucking but those 2 definitely stand out

5. Vivian - Me and her by far had the most open communication about dicks and sex. We weren't supposed to be fucking due to the nature of our relationship, and that "taboo" allowed us to communicate openly. She'd tell me about other guys she cheated on my friend with. Told me she loves big dicks, liked how my dick was bigger than my friends, told me how she cheated with his other friend and how he fucked her lights out, told me she's fucked around 200 guys (she was 28 at the time), was fucking her bf's friend that she trimmed weed for and that his cock was a little thicker than mine and had multiple MFMs with him, had multiple MFMs with me and our other friend in our circle, and after they broke up she was consistently fucking me, this guy with a REALLY fat cock, and the guy she was trimming for. She'd fuck other guys occasionally and tell me all about it too.


6. Dunae - She was my gf at the time, while were on the topic one night I asked her if she'd ever had a bigger guy and she admitted she did. When I asked her what's the difference, she said "It just feels like it's more pressure" During another convo one day she mentioned how "It's the pressure that makes us cum" Not sure if she was making a direct correlation, but I knew exactly what she meant lol

Btw I'm not small at all. I'm 9" long, 5.2" in girth behind the tip, 5.5" girth mid shaft, 6.2" girth at my base

"Baby Momma," "Side Chick," "Escort Chick," relations with women who cheat, and an obsession with other guys' dicks. It checks out.

 

[elklindoxxx]

Me asking my partner about penis sizes would be similar to her asking me about the bust sizes of women who I have been with. It's irrelevant to us. We go with other couples and there are men who are bigger than me and others smaller. And there are women who are more busty than my partner and there are women who are less busty. We've seen it all over the years. And neither of us find it titillating.

 

[Pficcie255]

Orgasm is individualistic. Not all women are the same and same with men. There is no universal way to make a women cum everytime. It is entirely dependant on the individual you are trying to make orgasm.
Thats why theres an array of size preferences between women. Some prefer average, some prefer big, some like to dom and humilate to get turned on and so prefer small cocks. Some have no preference whatsoever. The same is true for gay men. Its true that most men will cum from basic continual jerking motion. But some men prefer more than that for a greater orgasm or need more stimulation/variety of stimulation to even reach there.
Essentially, regardless of the sex or gender of the person there will be differences between two people most of the time.

 

[FrankieGuile]

Orgasm is individualistic. Not all women are the same and same with men. There is no universal way to make a women cum everytime. It is entirely dependant on the individual you are trying to make orgasm.
Thats why theres an array of size preferences between women. Some prefer average, some prefer big, some like to dom and humilate to get turned on and so prefer small cocks. Some have no preference whatsoever. The same is true for gay men. Its true that most men will cum from basic continual jerking motion. But some men prefer more than that for a greater orgasm or need more stimulation/variety of stimulation to even reach there.
Essentially, regardless of the sex or gender of the person there will be differences between two people most of the time.

You are far too sensible for this thread. Accurate perspectives such as yours threaten the sexual worldview of others, depriving them of their favorite titillating fantasies and excuses for failing to please others sexually. Prepare for verbal war.