Player_01
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to me, non penetrative acts are foreplay, not actual sex
As a 'side' I don't really care for anal, top or bottom. I have topped in my life (so I guess I'm not a virgin) but I just didn't find it very pleasurable and sure don't want anything up my ass.
Also explains all the "straight" guys on Grindr, it's not gay unless it's up your butt.Now I know why some young guys tell on their Grindr profile they are a virgin... it's a technicality then, I suppose. You can go around sucking any old dick and claim you're a pure white angel as long as you haven't taken it up the bum.
I prefer oral as my only sex but if it's not really sex, then I'm going to tell straight guys that it's not really gay either
Virginity for guys is basically made up, originally 'virginity' was just whether a woman had her hymen intact or not:
The Hymen’s Tale: Myths and facts about the hymen | Ohio State Medical Center (osu.edu)
In my opinion: if you can get a sexually transmitted disease from it, it's sex.