If you find that is the case in where you live then you have your answer.
Hanging out with other gym guys. A muscle guy who is past his early 20s is a guy who is in the gym more days than not. The last thing he wants is to be around other guys who don't understand the gym culture and what it takes to have muscle. Other comments already posted in this thread and others that are similar lend credence to this notion. Sure, there may be some muscle guys who like guys who don't work out, whether they be skinny or fat, but that's the exception. And usually when that sort of pairing is seen, the assumption is that the skinny / fat guy is paying the muscle guy either directly or in "sponsorship."
Correct. I don't have the 'right look' and the so called gay community is all about looks. One reason I have nothing to do with it.
That's how men are in general, whether gay or straight. Do you realize what straight women have to deal with? Men are all about the visual.
I would not describe myself as a ''muscle man type'' but I do stay fit and my body is usually at least fairly well defined for my age at a very healthy early 50's. I do a gym a few times a week for light workouts and of course the views- to see some friends and of course have a locker room roam and shower. I enjoy thin to skinny men who are there to tone and work on their fitness. Obviously some do get mass over time. My interest is mainly on the personality- friendliness. Interest grows with time and a genuinely nice man. Thinness aiming at a good lifestyle as well as physique improvement is an interest point. Endowment size is not a factor with me but it does attract some to me-- you figure that out pretty quick! Be a nice friendly guy to others and it usually pays off== if not-- move on! Some gyms are full of self centered men just wanting to be ''seen''-- they usually go home and masturbate alone! Keep shopping!
