Do Muscular Men find Skinny/Toned Guys Attractive?

[musclelover717]

For you beautiful muscle men out there: do you find skinny/toned guys attractive. As a toned guy myself, I find it hard to find muscular men who are into me. I’m obviously very attracted to muscle and want to gain weight so they’ll find me attractive and “on their level” but I can’t help but wonder if muscular men even find is attractive. I’m starting to think naturally skinny/toned guys are just not desirable in the gay community.

 

[Commando501s]

Don't ever think that

 

[RyanMars]

For you beautiful muscle men out there: do you find skinny/toned guys attractive. As a toned guy myself, I find it hard to find muscular men who are into me. I’m obviously very attracted to muscle and want to gain weight so they’ll find me attractive and “on their level” but I can’t help but wonder if muscular men even find is attractive. I’m starting to think naturally skinny/toned guys are just not desirable in the gay community.

If you find that is the case in where you live then you have your answer.
Muscle still reign supreme. Even you are attracted to muscle men. Are you also attracted to skinny men ?

 

[pirokoleon]

Wouldn't this be a person-to-person basis? Everyone likes different things, there's no real general answer. Considering how popular twinks are in porn and not huge bodybuilders, I'd say more people like that body type more

 

[DSF140]

Sure, everyone is different, but as a general rule, muscle guys are attracted to other guys who work out at the same level as they do. In general, muscle guys being matched with twinks in porn is more for the paying audience rather than for the benefit of the muscle top. As much as it might hurt, or be mean and vicious, in real life, in general, muscle guys can't be bothered by skinny twinks.

 

[RareD]

Sure, everyone is different, but as a general rule, muscle guys are attracted to other guys who work out at the same level as they do. In general, muscle guys being matched with twinks in porn is more for the paying audience rather than for the benefit of the muscle top. As much as it might hurt, or be mean and vicious, in real life, in general, muscle guys can't be bothered by skinny twinks.

What are these conclusions based on

 

[DSF140]

What are these conclusions based on

Hanging out with other gym guys. A muscle guy who is past his early 20s is a guy who is in the gym more days than not. The last thing he wants is to be around other guys who don't understand the gym culture and what it takes to have muscle. Other comments already posted in this thread and others that are similar lend credence to this notion. Sure, there may be some muscle guys who like guys who don't work out, whether they be skinny or fat, but that's the exception. And usually when that sort of pairing is seen, the assumption is that the skinny / fat guy is paying the muscle guy either directly or in "sponsorship."

 

[RareD]

 

[Trekrider]

I’m starting to think naturally skinny/toned guys are just not desirable in the gay community.

Correct. I don't have the 'right look' and the so called gay community is all about looks. One reason I have nothing to do with it.

 

[DSF140]

Correct. I don't have the 'right look' and the so called gay community is all about looks. One reason I have nothing to do with it.

That's how men are in general, whether gay or straight. Do you realize what straight women have to deal with? Men are all about the visual.

 

[Sandymat]

While I’m not a muscle guy ...I think toned skinny guys are hot. As piriokleon said it’s should be a person to person basis . Gym guys can appreciate the hard work but not all would write you off

 

[AceWilde]

I think you'll find that, like with any specific body image based criteria, a lot of the gay guys who get into bodybuilding and being a big muscle guy do it because they are already attracted to big muscle guys and want to be around them and with them. I mean, it sounds like that's your goal as well with fitness, from what you're saying. So you're sort of answering your own question. But it isn't just muscle guys, it's all guys. For example: I am attracted to bears, but because I have no interest in having a bear body myself I find it hard to get too many bears wanting to meet up with me.

That being said I don't think naturally skinny guys are ever considered ugly or out with the gays. Unless you're to the point where you looking malnourished and sick. LOL

 

[Sandymat]

If David Christian pounding Sean Ford is any indication ! I think it’s hot and you will find what you are looking for

 

[LossaLexx]

Quelles sont ces conclusions basées sur

C'est toi sur ta photo ?

 

[1rc1]

For you beautiful muscle men out there: do you find skinny/toned guys attractive. As a toned guy myself, I find it hard to find muscular men who are into me. I’m obviously very attracted to muscle and want to gain weight so they’ll find me attractive and “on their level” but I can’t help but wonder if muscular men even find is attractive. I’m starting to think naturally skinny/toned guys are just not desirable in the gay community.

I would not describe myself as a ''muscle man type'' but I do stay fit and my body is usually at least fairly well defined for my age at a very healthy early 50's. I do a gym a few times a week for light workouts and of course the views- to see some friends and of course have a locker room roam and shower. I enjoy thin to skinny men who are there to tone and work on their fitness. Obviously some do get mass over time. My interest is mainly on the personality- friendliness. Interest grows with time and a genuinely nice man. Thinness aiming at a good lifestyle as well as physique improvement is an interest point. Endowment size is not a factor with me but it does attract some to me-- you figure that out pretty quick! Be a nice friendly guy to others and it usually pays off== if not-- move on! Some gyms are full of self centered men just wanting to be ''seen''-- they usually go home and masturbate alone! Keep shopping!

 

[AfterHours69]

I wouldn’t worry about it. Just be comfortable in your skin and go after people you like.

 

[deleted1074483]

it may be different now but back when i was in my 20s and a skinny twinky type and just 5'9 in London I frequented XXL which had lots of muscle guys there and there were as many into me as not and over the years i've dated a number of extremely built guys even though i'm usually considered slim and not muscly at all. I've also found that the muscle guys are generally accepting of all types irrespective of body type, maybe in the gym its different as they're there to build muscle.

As others have said there are many different types of guys, body types, etc and whilst it may be a true-ism in life that similar seek similar its not always true for everyone