Alot of married guys are bi have fetishes and love to suck cock i have met enough over years
I'm bisexual and have found women that want a bisexual man. Pretty silly to extrapolate to all women.
The ones I knew wanted a submissive bisexual male partner not just any bisexual guy. They also wanted sex with dominant men for themselves and to witness their partner having sex with such dominant allegedly straight men.
Some are really turned on by idea of masculine guy being bisexual.
Some are repulsed.
Some don't care
Some are afraid bi guy will leave her for a guy ( that I find ridiculous)
Everyone is different.
Some are repulsed.
Some don't care
Some are afraid bi guy will leave her for a guy ( that I find ridiculous)
Everyone is different.
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Can't generalise obv.
Though from my experience, many women don't like it particularly.
I've had at least a handful of women who thought I was dateable say they wouldn't because I was bi.
Though from my experience, many women don't like it particularly.
I've had at least a handful of women who thought I was dateable say they wouldn't because I was bi.
In general straight women hate bisexual men and I mean hate, not just don't like.
Many Straight women see gay men as eunuchs since they pose no sexual threat and can entertain their egos and because straight women are above gay men on the social hierarchy they have more social power and can dominate gay men easily.
With bisexual men, straight women can't control them like they can with gay or straight men.
Many Straight women see gay men as eunuchs since they pose no sexual threat and can entertain their egos and because straight women are above gay men on the social hierarchy they have more social power and can dominate gay men easily.
With bisexual men, straight women can't control them like they can with gay or straight men.
I dated a lot of women in the past and only one of them ever expressed any desire to have a bi mmf experience. I've sought out bi mmf before and most couples I had personally connected with seemed to want someone who would be dominant while the male half of the couple was submissive. Honestly it's not my thing, I enjoy lighter bi play, oral all around, equal play partners, no BDSM or kink. I've also sought out women who might be into it and even anonymously online it's kinda rare. Wish I knew where to look, I bet when craigslist had the personals it was easier.
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I think most women don't like dating bi guys because they worry that they will have to compete with guys. What a lot of them don't know is that their husband or boyfriend is probably playing with guys on the side. Half the guys on gay hook-up apps like grindr, scruff and Adam 4 Adam are married to women or have a girlfriend.
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I don't see the connection between the competition fear and cheating behavior. I believe if you are open to your partner about your bi-sexuality she might fear you leaving her to be with a man and that would somehow be humiliating. If she is afraid of you cheating with a man or a women then it's a whole different issue. Cheating with a man or a women is cheating all the same.
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Facts! Guys that have the urge are gonna play on the apps n hookup. They dont view it as cheating, as opposed to if they fucked a women on the side. And its a whole lot easier as a man to hookup discreetly with other men and no drama as opposed to fuckin other women
On a serious note, how can bisexual men seriously be surprised when most women are hesitant to be with them with behavior like this? Yes, straight men cheat, too. But it's not nearly as easy to hookup with random women as it is to hookup with random men. Again, why are so many bi men surprised and upset when women prefer not to deal with that? The behavior of so many of their fellow bi men is ruining their reputations. Why not be angry at and chastise them instead?
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That's horrible. These wives and girlfriends should just switch to women.
Most of the guys hooking up with other guys on the hook-up aps consider themselves straight. The wife probably has no idea that her husband's golfing buddy, fishing buddy, hunting buddy, old friend from college, frat bro from college, etc, etc. is also his FWB. lol
I think for a lot of them their wife has lost interest in sex but if they get a mistress on the side it is a minefield. He is risking the mistress getting attached and trying to break up his marriage so she can be with him, the mistress getting mad at him and calling his wife up and telling her about the affair or knocking the mistress up and the wife finding out about the baby, demanding a divorce and getting cleaned out in divorce court. Not to mention potentially being on the hook for child support for the next 18 years.
Playing with another guy in the same situation is easier. No risk of pregnancy, and if the dude is married with children there is plausible deniability if the wife gets suspicious of him spending time with one of his buddies and accuses him of being gay he can say: "WTF are you talking about?!? The dude has a wife and kids!!!"
