Do you honestly prefer larger penises?

[Inchmen]

I'm not a woman and I haven't experienced multiple sized cocks.

So am I right that for average girls (two fingers, 3 at a push):
a) under 5 inches (with small girth too) you can't really feel all that much
b) average between 5-6.5 inches with average girth feels good
c) above 7 inches generally hurts/causes discomfort/difficulty in penetration/limited positions

If so why do girls always say bigger is better/big dicks are what they look for?

Another question - do penises visually excite you like a guy's bum, abs or arms? That sort of league?

 

[693987]

I'd say it's more in the say.. 3 inch and under length that I can't feel. At that point girth doesn't do a lot, either. Average length and girth can feel really good, with the appropriate skill. I can handle around 7" length and enjoy it, but I tend to prefer rough sex. I enjoy having my cervix bumped up against. Not all girls like bigger cocks. You're on a somewhat biased website, however.

I do find SOME phallus visually appealing. I typically have to be attracted to the guy anyway, though.

 

[Inchmen]

I'd say it's more in the say.. 3 inch and under length that I can't feel. At that point girth doesn't do a lot, either. Average length and girth can feel really good, with the appropriate skill. I can handle around 7" length and enjoy it, but I tend to prefer rough sex. I enjoy having my cervix bumped up against. Not all girls like bigger cocks. You're on a somewhat biased website, however.

I do find SOME phallus visually appealing. I typically have to be attracted to the guy anyway, though.

You've been with less than 3??!!

I've found girls don't in general like having their cervixs hit. I'm only average but sometimes hit it during missionary, and with my ex she didn't like doing doggie or having her feet high in missionary, i.e. on shoulders, because of the "angle"...which surely meant (I don't know) I was hitting the cervix because of deeper penetration. I'm also not thick, but despite one ONS being quite wet and "prepared", it was quite difficult getting it in, it was like hitting a wall.

This isn't the everyday experience I've had during sex, but I just thought well if I was bigger surely these problems would be much more intensified - I know my ex is dating a guy with a big dick now, and apparently it's "too big" (I know this through friends). And most girls on the internet say "size matters" but when I look at most girls' experiences with guys who have been big, it's *almost* universally negative except from girls who admit they're bigger than average down there/or from a small sample of girls (who act quite oddly). But, that being said, I've had many girls in my own life look at my foot and hand size (which are big) obviously with my penis size in mind - and I've been in conversations with groups of girls who have talked about big dicks being better, who have asked me how big I am, and girls who have spoken about perfect partners as having a big member. So I am a bit confused.

 

[Tactfulgal]

If so why do girls always say bigger is better/big dicks are what they look for?

They don't. This is only true if that's what you want to hear and you only listen to people who confirm it. Most women would not say that.
Since you say you're very inexperienced, I'll answer your question about if women honestly prefer guys who are bigger. It depends on the woman, but for the most part while a little extra can be a nice bonus, we don't go looking for big dicks and it's not a major factor in deciding who to be with. While individual women here may give you different answers, they are the exceptions, and some of them aren't really women.

 

[Serial Kisser]

Yes. I only sleep with men who are 11 inches or bigger. All girls feel this way, obviously.

 

[Inchmen]

They don't. This is only true if that's what you want to hear and you only listen to people who confirm it. Most women would not say that.
Since you say you're very inexperienced, I'll answer your question about if women honestly prefer guys who are bigger. It depends on the woman, but for the most part while a little extra can be a nice bonus, we don't go looking for big dicks and it's not a major factor in deciding who to be with. While individual women here may give you different answers, they are the exceptions, and some of them aren't really women.

Cheers.
Where did I say that about experience lol? I was joking I wasn't experienced with men, I'm a straight male.

I've never had a problem with sex, and almost everyone I've slept with, I've slept with on a repeat basis, so what you say definitely echoes with my experience.

If I'm honest, I ask because whilst I'm average, I do think jelqing/PE works, I could easily get an extra half inch in girth and length after a few months. But I don't know if it's worth it. It's just self-improvement like finding cool clothes, working out or whitening my teeth.

And the results I've found online from girls has been - average/above average is best - big can hurt. Guys are all about dominance (well, normal guys) - we like to think we're the best lovers a girl we love(d) has had, yes it's more than penis size, but we like to think another guy hasn't given it to her as good as us, and the idea of another guy dominating her with a big one when we have average is disconcerting. That's how I feel about my ex getting ploughed by a big guy - even though she has said to her friends it's too big.

I'm not too pent up about it, I especially would HATE some kind of crap advice to try to make me feel better psychologically like telling a kid who is bullied for having terrible acne or something, it's nothing, don't worry about it. What I find annoying is the lack of clear testimony on penises - basically what you said seems to be true for most real girls, but then there's this "motion in the ocean" crap as well as "only as 10 incher will fill me" sort of attitude.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I'm not a woman and I haven't experienced multiple sized cocks.

So am I right that for average girls (two fingers, 3 at a push):
a) under 5 inches (with small girth too) you can't really feel all that much
b) average between 5-6.5 inches with average girth feels good
c) above 7 inches generally hurts/causes discomfort/difficulty in penetration/limited positions

If so why do girls always say bigger is better/big dicks are what they look for?

Another question - do penises visually excite you like a guy's bum, abs or arms? That sort of league?

A) some of the best sex I had was with men who had small dicks, not particularly thick, and under five inches.
B) sure. That range feels good generally.
C) it has to get a lot bigger than seven inches long before I'm uncomfortable. As long as he slips under my cervix, there is no pain, and dudes with less length than that have hit my cervix too hard.

I have rarely spoken to a woman who insists bigger is better.

 

[Patchos]

don't listen to them, they're all just trying to make you feel better it's the usual PC crap. size matters to all women so if you don't have a big dick you'd better have money all the chicks i've ever spoken to have said so now are you going to believe me or a bunch of pc feminists

 

[Patchos]

They don't. This is only true if that's what you want to hear and you only listen to people who confirm it. Most women would not say that.
Since you say you're very inexperienced, I'll answer your question about if women honestly prefer guys who are bigger. It depends on the woman, but for the most part while a little extra can be a nice bonus, we don't go looking for big dicks and it's not a major factor in deciding who to be with. While individual women here may give you different answers, they are the exceptions, and some of them aren't really women.

> talks about fake women
> isn't verified

irony lol

 

[Tactfulgal]

Just about every post you make is meant to instigate, insult or offend, and I think the community here realizes that. I'll just leave it at that.

> talks about fake women
> isn't verified

irony lol

 

[Patchos]

i don't think you should go speaking for the community of lpsg when no one even knows who you are, and you especially shouldn't be saying anything about women not really being women because that's incredibly arrogant and rude and against the ToS

PS Size matters

 

[Inchmen]

Calm down guys, it's a topic on penises on the internet, I literally can't think of a topic to less pent up about!

Appreciate your candour both of you. I'm just going to conclude women don't know what they want and will continue jelqing for the hell of it!

Thank you all - everything you've written has been helpful and I appreciate the time you've taken to write it out.

Edit: One final thing you might be able to help me with - could you guestimate how big "Rocco Reed" is...why? because i'd like to see a) how well you guesstimate penis size (i.e. do you say OMG he's 20 inches long) and b) because an ex once watched a porno with him in it...I don't know!

 

[Patchos]

Calm down guys, it's a topic on penises on the internet, I literally can't think of a topic to less pent up about!

Appreciate your candour both of you. I'm just going to conclude women don't know what they want and will continue jelqing for the hell of it!

pent up is jacking off furiously in the hopes that it'll make ur dick bigger, just saying lol

 

[Inchmen]

pent up is jacking off furiously in the hopes that it'll make ur dick bigger, just saying lol

LOL! Point taken!

 

[omgurbig]

Is it possible to have sex with 3"s? I pray I never have to find out.

I choose my partners based on their dick size (8" up, and yes its not easy) then I filter for personality. But having said that, I have had guys that are too big and yes when it hits your cervix it can be painful, but that is down to technique. If you get the technique right it will make her squirt...well that my experience for what its worth

 

[Serial Kisser]

don't listen to them, they're all just trying to make you feel better it's the usual PC crap. size matters to all women so if you don't have a big dick you'd better have money all the chicks i've ever spoken to have
said so now are you going to believe me or a bunch of pc feminists

As a woman, I can confirm that this is true. If you don't have a big cock, you'd better have a big wallet. Patchos is right, as usual.

 

[LaFemme]

I'll be nice because you're new and this is a place to ask women questions; however, you should be able to guess by the nature of this site, that this question has been asked hundreds of times before in many different ways. Just scroll to the top of the page, click search and type in size matters woman and see what you find. In fact, there's a whole thread dedicated to this question at the top of the Women's Issues forum.

To me size only matters in extremes, maybe under 4 inches and thin (think raw hot dog) and too big, over 8 inches. Either way, if I like the guy, I'm going to work it out. It's only going to matter if he's going to be like some of the guys here and get all obsessed with his size. THAT is just plain unappealing.

 

[babygurl19]

I am more obsessed with big balls.

 

[sanaxx]

To me size only matters in extremes, maybe under 4 inches and thin (think raw hot dog) and too big, over 8 inches. Either way, if I like the guy, I'm going to work it out. It's only going to matter if he's going to be like some of the guys here and get all obsessed with his size. THAT is just plain unappealing.

this this this so many times this in the real world.

in a fantasy world every penis would be able to grow and shrink to the perfect size that i need to get me off every time or fill me up if i needed it or stretch me out, like the perfect match drawn right from my most carnal desires at the moment.

 

[redz_rule]

I honestly prefer men who don't obsess about penis size. I really find it unattractive. I prefer the man who works what he has - whatever that may be.