Do you need to have something up your ass when you jerk-off?

[John-Z23]

Bottoms! Do you need to have something up you ass (vibrator, dildo, or fingers) to get off properly when you masturbate?

As a new Btm, I am increasing finding myself unfulfilled when I jerk off. As such I would like to add something to my daily masturbation routine. Can someone recommend a good starter prostate stimulator/vibrator that is not too large and would be good for a new Bottom.

Thanks

 

[tito21]

Yes! But i’m pretty conservative and old school. Nothing too extreme or modest. So, just my bad dragon with the bedroom lights off. Jesus doesn’t need to see me going hog-wild on the floor.

 

[Brodie888]

I have to admit that I am one of these people so I know what you mean.

Lelo Loki is a nice toy. The vibration is in the tip not the base like a lot of vaginal toys.

I find vibrators much better for long sessions because your hole gets used to girth very quickly and textured objects can be too rough to use for a long time.

 

[wvgwm52]

this is too big wouldnt you say

 

[John-Z23]

I have to admit that I am one of these people so I know what you mean.

Lelo Loki is a nice toy. The vibration is in the tip not the base like a lot of vaginal toys.

I find vibrators much better for long sessions because your hole gets used to girth very quickly and textured objects can be too rough to use for a long time.

Brodie888: Ok, I have seen pics of that messager before but didn't know what it was called or how to find it. Do you have one/how is it working out? But $100 bucks....... Is there a similar knock-off available, lol
Thanks

 

[Brodie888]

Brodie888: Ok, I have seen pics of that messager before but didn't know what it was called or how to find it. Do you have one/how is it working out? But $100 bucks....... Is there a similar knock-off available, lol
Thanks

I have one and it's great, lots of different patterns and intensities. It's water resistant so you can use it in the shower.

There's always cheaper but it comes down to what you are willing to sacrifice or take your chances on. Eg silicone vs plastic, a rechargeable battery that's going to die in 6 months or one that will last years, etc etc.

I only suggest lelo because I know it's a good brand and it ticks the boxes. Value is a subjective thing.

 

[CraigS41]

Tricky question for me. I don't need anything in my ass when I'm jerking off. If I have something in my ass, I would prefer a man's dick, and if that's in there, I have no need to jerk off at all. I've never tried a powered dildo/plug before

 

[Infernal]

Need to, no, but sometimes I like it.

 

[Rockford Tyson]

""Do You Need To Have Something Up Your Ass When You Jerk-Off?"

I am not a bottom, and in fact I hate getting fucked. I am pretty much a total top with both men and women..But to answer your question: often, yes.

I do it for the prostate stimulation. The difference is, I know how to put it there, how to twitch and move to orgasm. Guys that have done it to me don't. They were all totally terrible. To quote GSP that time:

"I am not impressed by your performance."

And many of them act like the bottom's orgasm is not important, when in reality it is the absolute priority.

Men don't know how to fuck a guy up the ass to give him an orgasm.A dildo does a much better job. A prostate orgasm comes slower and is more difficult to achieve than a penile orgasm.

Imagine how pathetic you need to be as a man to fuck a male up the ass and fail to give him an orgasm when you have full access and control over his prostate. Like, total incompetence.

I have never been fucked properly by a man ever, which is why I will never do it again and just use a dildo. Like a completely disappointment. LOL.

 

[dunk89]

Certainly don't need anything up there to jerk but it is nice. Sometimes use a plug, vibe, or estim plug. Makes it easier if I'm quite excited and want to cum quicker than just trying to work it out with hand.

 

[rockhardbttm]

Bottoms! Do you need to have something up you ass (vibrator, dildo, or fingers) to get off properly when you masturbate?

Do I have to? No... Do I prefer it? Absolutely!

It feels 100x better... also as a bottom my sexual satisfaction isn't fulfilled unless Im getting fucked.

 

[Kanashi]

I have tried and tried, but yet for the life of me, I cannot cum from penile stimulation if I have something in my ass. I can cum hands free over and over from soly prostate stimulation no problem, easy peasy. And obviously I can come from penile masturbation no problem. But I combine the two, it's waaay too intense. It's like my body's signals get overwhelmed. Don't get me wrong, it still feels amazing, but I simply can't bring myself to completion.

 

[John-Z23]

I have tried and tried, but yet for the life of me, I cannot cum from penile stimulation if I have something in my ass. I can cum hands free over and over from soly prostate stimulation no problem, easy peasy. And obviously I can come from penile masturbation no problem. But I combine the two, it's waaay too intense. It's like my body's signals get overwhelmed. Don't get me wrong, it still feels amazing, but I simply can't bring myself to completion.

Wait a minute:
You said: "for the life of me, I cannot cum from penile stimulation"
But also said: "And obviously I can come from penile masturbation no problem"
What is the difference. Are you talking about toys vs. your hands?
Please explain

 

[Kanashi]

Wait a minute:
You said: "for the life of me, I cannot cum from penile stimulation"
But also said: "And obviously I can come from penile masturbation no problem"
What is the difference. Are you talking about toys vs. your hands?
Please explain

Sorry for the confusion. So for example, I see guys in porn getting fucked while also masturbating and they cum. I can't do that. If my prostate is stimulated, then I can't cum from masturbating.

 

[0Pippo]

sometimes I like that, sometimes not. just a bit. usually it helps a fast cum

 

[branleur]

I lose my erection if I have something up my ass, although I can cum.

 

[Brodie888]

If you press your finger/thumb on your prostate as you orgasm, the intensity of your orgasm will be much higher.

 

[ChristmasGoofy]

I’m fairly new to using anything in my ass, but wow does it make things feel better! My favorite thing so far is to put a vibrating plug in, go about my business doing random things around my apartment (cleaning, watching TV, etc), and then after a couple hours I’ll finish the job by jacking off. God does that feel heavenly, and I cum so much more than I would’ve otherwise

 

[Braunlow]

I prefer having a hard cock attached to a thrusting man,but achieve great orgasms with my Aneros.

 

[John-Z23]

I prefer having a hard cock attached to a thrusting man, but achieve great orgasms with my Aneros.

Which model of Aneros so you have? I have several powered prostate massagers. They are all different and yet all imperfect in some way. I read some great reviews about the Aneros and am thinking about purchasing one. But I am skeptical that a non powered device can rival the normal powered ones. But the reviews say the unique shape allows it to move in a way that is superior. What do you think?

BTW: A hard thrusting cock is always the best. But when I can't have that I have settle for the next best thing.....