Yes, that's exactly it. It's the sense of entitlement to do as he pleases because I am his and my only purpose is to be used by him.I know what you mean. I remember the first time my boyfriend grabbed my hair during sex, and I loved it. Not because the actual pulling physically pleased me (it doesn't), but because he took such a liberty, and I found that insanely sexy. I love it when he gets bossy and/ or forceful. A slap might be kind of exciting.