Does having a high partner count affect women?

Does having a high partner count affect women?


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Hi women,

Question 1;

There are plenty of studies / articles that shows that the higher partner count a woman has, it'll make it harder to bond with a future husband / boyfriend / partner. What's your thoughts on this?

Question 2;

In my own experience; I'd say the women I've met that has been sleeping around with plenty of men are almost always a bit broken, bad relationship with her father, abusive childhood etc - and seem to seek validation from sex with men. Do you think it correlates, having issues of various sorts and having a high partner count?

I'm looking forward to your answers.
 
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Well, this is a question that just sweeps everything into a neat little package isn't it?

My dad kicks ass and I wasn't abused as a child. I've fucked around quite a bit in my day, been called a slut more than once for my openness towards sex.

I'm sure some people who experienced abuse or other traumatic experiences as a child may be less inclined to be promiscuous. Others may sleep around quite a bit. This applies to men as well.

It's just a stereotype to assume a woman who enjoys sex must have 'daddy issues'.
 

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Well, this is a question that just sweeps everything into a neat little package isn't it?

My dad kicks ass and I wasn't abused as a child. I've fucked around quite a bit in my day, been called a slut more than once for my openness towards sex.

I'm sure some people who experienced abuse or other traumatic experiences as a child may be less inclined to be promiscuous. Others may sleep around quite a bit. This applies to men as well.

It's just a stereotype to assume a woman who enjoys sex must have 'daddy issues'.


It's actually two questions.

As I said: it's my own experience with the most promiscuous women I've encountered.
 

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It's actually two questions.

As I said: it's my own experience with the most promiscuous women I've encountered.

1. Links to these studies please.

2. I stand by what I said. It's a stereotype. Your personal experience is not verified science.
 

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1. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/201...etween-promiscuous-men-and-promiscuous-women/

- Here's one.

2. When did I say it's verified science? I've stated twice now that it's my personal experience.

That didn't have any references to any kind of study done, that just seemed like an opinion piece. Kinda like your personal experiences.

I'm honestly not trying to come off like an ass, but do you think perhaps this could be because women have been shamed for being promiscuous? They don't want the world to see them as 'sluts', or 'easy' or 'used'

*gags*

ETA: It is true that men and women are wired differently, but as far as relationships go and why women may feel more/less satisfied for having had more/fewer partners... I think there are many more factors to this topic than presented here.
 

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That didn't have any references to any kind of study done, that just seemed like an opinion piece. Kinda like your personal experiences.

I'm honestly not trying to come off like an ass, but do you think perhaps this could be because women have been shamed for being promiscuous? They don't want the world to see them as 'sluts', or 'easy' or 'used'

*gags*

ETA: It is true that men and women are wired differently, but as far as relationships go and why women may feel more/less satisfied for having had more/fewer partners... I think there are many more factors to this topic than presented here.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...men-play-field-without-worry-study-finds.html

This is linked in the that blogpost. Seems like you didn't read it, still you have an opinion on it:)

And no, I don't think it has anything to do with "slut-shaming".

Indeed men and women are wired differently. I'm not exactly sure how or why it (supposedly) affects women differently to men having alot of partners.

Hence I'm asking these questions here... :rolleyes:
 

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Ok. That just doesn't cover what I'm talking about here. Were these people questioned? Did they specifically give reasons as to Why they felt more/less satisfied? All it says is that women who have had fewer partners reported happier marriages. Seemed kinda propaganda-y to me.

I stand by what I said. This is a stupid stereotype.
 

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Q1 - BS
Q2 - BS

I can return the questions at you @MrTh1ck...

Question 1;

There are plenty of studies / articles that shows that the higher partner count a man has, it'll make it harder to bond with a future wife / girlfriend / partner. What's your thoughts on this?

Question 2;

In my own experience; I'd say the men I've met that has been sleeping around with plenty of women are almost always a bit broken, bad relationship with his mother, abusive childhood etc - and seem to seek validation from sex with women. Do you think it correlates, having issues of various sorts and having a high partner count?

I'm looking forward to your answers.
 

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I can return the questions at you @MrTh1ck...

Question 1;

There are plenty of studies / articles that shows that the higher partner count a man has, it'll make it harder to bond with a future wife / girlfriend / partner. What's your thoughts on this?

Question 2;

In my own experience; I'd say the men I've met that has been sleeping around with plenty of women are almost always a bit broken, bad relationship with his mother, abusive childhood etc - and seem to seek validation from sex with women. Do you think it correlates, having issues of various sorts and having a high partner count?

I'm looking forward to your answers.


1. Elaborate your answers.

2. If you have questions for men, go to the "Ask a man" part of the forum.

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@Tight_N_Juicy I keep having times when I want to send you private messages, but that option is disabled for your profile for me, even with ya following me :(

What!! You mean randos can drop me messages but my Lovely can't?! Da fuck?

Let's get to the bottom of this immediately...
 

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1. Elaborate your answers.

2. If you have questions for men, go to the "Ask a man" part of the forum.

I also /golfclap the very intellectual way you're using your arguments, kinda reminds me of how I used to argue... when I was 5 :D
Boo hoo hoo....

Did I ask the same BS questions as you.

What a little insecure wanker...