Does Straight Man Can Make Honest Fríendship With Gay Men? ?

[mayamayswimsuit]

I am just Curious. Well Straight men for sure is open to make friendship with straight or gay girls. Or like what they say hehehe... anyone who looks like a real girl and has vaginal hole they say. So my question would be about the 'likely impossible'

Does straight man can make an HONEST fríendship with gay guys? You may explain your answer and do not worry if they'll accuse you of being a homophobic. Everyone has their own preferences.

and additional question to those who will say yes, is there a percentage of gayness that you consider? How much?

 

[marriedasian]

i think it's very possible and i know because i have quite a few gay guy friends. now i am very clear with them that i am not interested and that there is 0% chance of ever getting with me so there is never any confusion. when i'm around them, i act appropriately even if they don't. some of them have made it very clear that the door is always open whenever i change my mind.

i think as long as you are very clear and transparent on the expectations, there shouldn't be any issues. if issues arise then at least it's not on your end.

 

[ronin001]

I am just Curious. Well Straight men for sure is open to make friendship with straight or gay girls. Or like what they say hehehe... anyone who looks like a real girl and has vaginal hole they say. So my question would be about the 'likely impossible'

Does straight man can make an HONEST fríendship with gay guys? You may explain your answer and do not worry if they'll accuse you of being a homophobic. Everyone has their own preferences.

and additional question to those who will say yes, is there a percentage of gayness that you consider? How much?

Welcome to LPSG, sadly this question has been asked so many times over the years, I am too lazy to google how many there were. I know a ton of straight men, who I would never befriend;, because they are pain in the ass ; or just A-Holes. A friendship is about mutual respect and trust. As long as a male gay person respects my boundaries, then we would be cool.

So to answer the question Yes

 

[thickcockjames]

I have many gay friends. Here's the secret, treat everyone like a human, and you can be friends with anyone. This notion that two people can't be friends because of a sexual preference, or gender is just stupid to me.

 

[Kosteece]

i think it's very possible and i know because i have quite a few gay guy friends. now i am very clear with them that i am not interested and that there is 0% chance of ever getting with me so there is never any confusion. when i'm around them, i act appropriately even if they don't. some of them have made it very clear that the door is always open whenever i change my mind.

i think as long as you are very clear and transparent on the expectations, there shouldn't be any issues. if issues arise then at least it's not on your end.

Interesting...
Then, why do you identify as 30% gay?

 

[Gj816]

Friendship has nothing to do with one's sexuality. It's about mutual likes,respect, honesty. I don't care what a friend does behind closed doors, in the privacy of their own home.

I've got straight gay bi and lesbian friends. Some are straight up freaks when it comes to the bedroom. While others are purely vanilla. It doesn't matter what their sexual preferences are. Has nothing to do with friendships.

 

[SSS79]

I think this question should be asked to "Gay Men" rather than straight men! For a straigh man, he can definetely be a friend with any man, whether straight or gay, because all what I would care about is trust, respect, having fun time with...etc, and I can have these things with any man without even knowing their sexual preferences, because simply sex as a matter wouldn't and shouldn't come to my mind;

But, is it so from the gay man prespective?! could he never think anything sexually while he is hanging out with me? would he ever be aroused somehow? would he ever think/fantasize about any sexual acts with me?

Would this affect my decision?
NO! it's not my concern as long as he respects my boundaries, and never talk or act according to his probable desires! I am not saying any gay man would think sexually while hanging out with any straight guy, but it is possible and expectable and normal, and it wouldn't offend me as long it is just thoughts on his mind!

Following the argument, the exact same question can be asked to straight women: can they make honest friendship with gay women? and more importantly: can they make honest friendship with straight men?!!

I believe the general question would be: can humans handle friendship where one part has some sexual interest in the other (one-way interest)?! what about 2 gay men or 2 gay women? can they have honest friendship without any sexual aspect?!
I believe this is a bit debatable, and a bit complex issue too!

 

[marriedasian]

Interesting...
Then, why do you identify as 30% gay?

Because when my gay male friends gets all touchy-feely with me, it doesn't bother me, i'm just not attracted to them that way... i can watch gay porn and it doesn't disgust me yet doesn't turn me on... i actually enjoy transsexual porn when i watch it... i have no issues getting all touchy-feely with men (if they're okay with it) as some of my straight buddies are that way... i do check men out and not afraid to point out a good-looking guy... and i can probably come up with a handful more... the point is that my demeanor is not 100% hetero-straight.

 

[Kosteece]

Because when my gay male friends gets all touchy-feely with me, it doesn't bother me, i'm just not attracted to them that way... i can watch gay porn and it doesn't disgust me yet doesn't turn me on... i actually enjoy transsexual porn when i watch it... i have no issues getting all touchy-feely with men (if they're okay with it) as some of my straight buddies are that way... i do check men out and not afraid to point out a good-looking guy... and i can probably come up with a handful more... the point is that my demeanor is not 100% hetero-straight.

If gay porn doesn't turn you on, 30% gay is way too much, mate.
I identify as 20% straight, because lesbian porn does turn me on, I do enjoy sex with women and occasionally there are women I meet that I actually want to fuck. I could even date them, but I think it is not fair to them as my attraction to men is way stronger, and I am monogamous by nature.
If you like cock and fantasize about it, it is true that you are indeed just a little bit bi, but 30% gay would mean to me that you would actually enjoy at least sex with men.

 

[Sagittarius84]

I too think this is a question best asked to gay men, or rather is pretty clear amongst straight men and is only in question by gay and bisexual men.
I think it is a question that is really only troublesome for whatever half of the equation has to fight off or reconcile romantic or sexual feelings to maintain a genuine friendship.

 

[Kosteece]

I too think this is a question best asked to gay men, or rather is pretty clear amongst straight men and is only in question by gay and bisexual men.
I think it is a question that is really only troublesome for whatever half of the equation has to fight off or reconcile romantic or sexual feelings to maintain a genuine friendship.

Well, all my male friends are straight, because I don't like the flirtatious dynamic in gay relationships.
Because I'm vers and a good-looking fellow, very few gay men have actually not hit on me.
I want no sexual vibes in my friendships.
Do I have fantasies about my straight friends?
I had only for one, who actually came out as bi-curious to me when we were not friends any more.
Did I suspect he was bi-curious?
Well, at a truth or dare game with our then girlfriends, he got a boner when we simulated oral sex between us ...
And the fantasies came about after that incident, actually...

 

[notthatguy]

This is the stupidest question i have ever heard. What does sexual preferences have to do with friendship?

 

[MisterVIP]

You know what? After reading all the incessant "what would it take to make a straight guy do gay stuff" threads in this section, one can't help but wonder if there would be an ulterior motive in a gay guy befriending a straight guy.

And as usual, there are non-straight guys answering in "ask a straight man" thread.

Why even have rules to this site anymore? No one seems to give a shit.

 

[Gj816]

You know what? After reading all the incessant "what would it take to make a straight guy do gay stuff" threads in this section, one can't help but wonder if there would be an ulterior motive in a gay guy befriending a straight guy.

And as usual, there are non-straight guys answering in "ask a straight man" thread.

Why even have rules to this site anymore? No one seems to give a shit.

I've thought about asking that same question in ask a gay man thread. For crying out loud one can't look through the ask a straight man forum without all of those hypothetical questions.

 

[texanslant]

I am an openly gay man with mostly straight male friends, and thought it's hard sometimes, I always respect boundaries, because at this age, I think I'd rather have the friendships that last, with no drama.

 

[PeterGold]

In general the forum 'Ask a straight man' contains tons of questions regarding if you have some kind of gay tendency... No... Some of us have no interest at all in gay people (in a sexual way), but I respect every kind of sexuality, without being interested in the same gender in any way. If you are an exhibitionist or whatever the reason might be to have a profile on this site doesn't mean that you have an interest in other men. Positive comments on pictures is always appreciated no mater who they come from. I have several friends who are gay, and no I have not any sexual interest in them at all. We don't have sexual mutual interests, but that doesn't mean we can't hang out without a hidden sexual purpose. There is a mutual respect, and I have no problem with sex stories though it doesn't give me any urges.

 

[Gusgilman]

I have many gay friends. Here's the secret, treat everyone like a human, and you can be friends with anyone. This notion that two people can't be friends because of a sexual preference, or gender is just stupid to me.

I agree totally. Lately, I've been exploring the idea of male cocksuckers. I'm not into guys, would never want a sexual relationship with my gay friends.

But have a very hi sex drive, my gay buddies have made me aware that some guys just plain love cock.

And these guys have also turned me on to a lot of women. It's almost like they're girlfriends with them, they set me up "just too fine not gonna ever be mine---so needs to be in somebody....

 

[buck8]

When I was in my 20s and early 30s my best friend was straight. Man, I got that guy a ton of pussy, hahaha! But seriously, he was comfortable in his sexuality and didn't mind attention from either sex. He used to joke that he was a male fruit fly, LOL! I remember one time we were at a Halloween party with his girlfriend. They got into a spat over something and he said fuck it, let's leave and party elsewhere. The big gay dance club was down the street, and I was to meet friends there, so he joined. He was familiar with and comfortable in the gay scene, and he knew several of my gay friends and other LGBTQ people. However, what's hilarious is that he and his girlfriend dressed as a BDSM couple for the party, but the gay club was doing their Halloween celebration the next night, so nobody was dressed up, including me. My buddy was good-looking, muscular, had a hairy chest, as well as a mustache and goatee (it was the 90s). He looked like a hot Leatherman in leather chaps, shirtless, with a leather harness! He got free drinks all night long!!! We had so much fun! His girlfriend at the time identified as bi, and she was always asking us to fuck so she could watch. He shrugged it off as teasing but I'm pretty sure she wasn't. Regardless, we never hooked up and always had a blast! He's married now, with kids, and lives in a different city. Yawn.

I always and currently have straight male friends. I respect boundaries, but many of them don't, so I do have occasional benefits with some who might be a little on the spectrum as heteroflexible or lightly bi, but they still identify as straight, which is their prerogative. All are great guys, benefits or not!

 

[hardonistic]

definitely possible

as long as the straight guy realised not every gay man wants his dick

and if the gay guy isnt a predatory gay that is trying to slowly groom his str8 mates for his fantasies

stereotypical examples but I've seen them both and its quite gross but I've also seen some beautiful hetero-homo bros

 

[ToryK]

I am just Curious. Well Straight men for sure is open to make friendship with straight or gay girls. Or like what they say hehehe... anyone who looks like a real girl and has vaginal hole they say. So my question would be about the 'likely impossible'

Does straight man can make an HONEST fríendship with gay guys? You may explain your answer and do not worry if they'll accuse you of being a homophobic. Everyone has their own preferences.

and additional question to those who will say yes, is there a percentage of gayness that you consider? How much?

I'm a "mostly gay" guy in a longterm, monogamous relationship with another guy. I am blessed with countless male and female friends, straight, gay, trans and otherwise. These friendships are genuine and enrich my life immeasurably. So, yes, it is not only possible, but desirable.