Does ur girlfriend know?

[elklindoxxx]

My partner does not know. We swing with other couples and she's OK with me dicking other women. But, dicking other guys is a completely different story.

 

[tsfan1]

So can i conclude that if a gf is also bi she is openminded. However if she s straight she is just as closeminded as straight men or at least you as her partner who is afraid to tell perceives her as being closeminded?

 

[deleted817718]

Everyone I’ve slept with I have told straight away that I am bisexual. I’ve had mixed reactions from both men and woman, but it’s always better to be up front about it.

 

[tsfan1]

Everyone I’ve slept with I have told straight away that I am bisexual. I’ve had mixed reactions from both men and woman, but it’s always better to be up front about it.

What were the negative reactions?
'Are u sure u just arent full gay?'

 

[deleted817718]

What were the negative reactions?
'Are u sure u just arent full gay?'

Firstly no I am not full gay or part gay or even a little bit gay. And I am definitely not straight. I AM 100% BISEXUAL!

The negative reaction form women have ranged from immediate rejection to a more mild “as long as we always have protected sex” like I might have AIDS.
From gay men it’s been a mix of “bisexuality doesn’t exist and you are lying to yourself” to just outright saying “I don’t date bisexual men”.

a lot of people have wrongly assumed that I would cheat and NEED sex from both men and women at all times. Which is pretty retarded

 

[tsfan1]

Firstly no I am not full gay or part gay or even a little bit gay. And I am definitely not straight. I AM 100% BISEXUAL!

The negative reaction form women have ranged from immediate rejection to a more mild “as long as we always have protected sex” like I might have AIDS.
From gay men it’s been a mix of “bisexuality doesn’t exist and you are lying to yourself” to just outright saying “I don’t date bisexual men”.

a lot of people have wrongly assumed that I would cheat and NEED sex from both men and women at all times. Which is pretty retarded

Dont get me wrong. I know u bi. I wondered if THEY asked whether u really are just gay, hence the ' '

So women didnt question whether u really attracted to them. They never mentioned that they think u wil eventually turn gay?

Gays dont date bi because they think it s not fair for bi guys to have sex with men and have relationship with women so they never get to experience the hardships gays have to endure

 

[deleted817718]

Dont get me wrong. I know u bi. I wondered if THEY asked whether u really are just gay, hence the ' '

So women didnt question whether u really attracted to them. They never mentioned that they think u wil eventually turn gay?

Gays dont date bi because they think it s not fair for bi guys to have sex with men and have relationship with women so they never get to experience the hardships gays have to endure

Sorry for the confusion. Hope I didn’t offend.
Some women did ask if I really liked women or was I coving up being gay by saying I’m bisexual. Which is a bit dumb as I would have just said I was straight if I wanted to cover things up.

Yes I agree gay men don’t date bi men because some do perceive it as dodging the hardships of being gay. Which is quite an ignorant way to look at it. I’ve had proper relationships with men and women.

 

[jthomasmpls]

Firstly no I am not full gay or part gay or even a little bit gay. And I am definitely not straight. I AM 100% BISEXUAL!

The negative reaction form women have ranged from immediate rejection to a more mild “as long as we always have protected sex” like I might have AIDS.
From gay men it’s been a mix of “bisexuality doesn’t exist and you are lying to yourself” to just outright saying “I don’t date bisexual men”.

a lot of people have wrongly assumed that I would cheat and NEED sex from both men and women at all times. Which is pretty retarded

Yup, I've heard all of that

 

[deleted817718]

Yup, I've heard all of that

Glad I’m not alone, but sad that it’s such a common thing for bisexuals. There really needs to be more bi visibility and more public awareness for bisexuals

 

[Chuck1226]

I was with a women for a few years that knew I had interest and experiences. She was very supportive.
I was upfront from the beginning.
I have openly jacked off to gay porn since we started dating. She had no issues with me having a few buds over to jack off. She knew that I had done more with men than that and told me that as long as it wasn't behind her back that she was ok with me being as sexual with men as I wanted. I really like to suck dick and I thought it would be a bit much for her to witness , but she enjoyed watching. I had a gay couple that I would play and join. We met some people that we both had fun with. I have liked toys for years , and a real cock was not something I thought I would admit that I
enjoy , but she made it comfortable to experiment...
I had a birthday and she rented a suite at the casino hotel.
She contacted most of my gay and bi friends that I told her I enjoyed. It was myself,her and 6 men in a suite for two nights. The sucking and fucking was nothing tame. I didn't know how she was really going to feel about it in the long term, but she was more than fine with it.

 

[johnweek1]

My ex knows. I am not in relationship right now, but my ex and I are still FWB. I told her as soon as we started dating. Not wasting my time with some dumb bigot bimbo who rejects me for who I am, so I always tells women that I am dating right of the bat to save time if she is a bigot or not.

My ex thinks it's hot and loves that I love dick -- she even sends me pics of some of her Tinder hookups cocks. She also let's me share her and thinks it's hot.

 

[Treasureman]

My ex knows. I am not in relationship right now, but my ex and I are still FWB. I told her as soon as we started dating. Not wasting my time with some dumb bigot bimbo who rejects me for who I am, so I always tells women that I am dating right of the bat to save time if she is a bigot or not.

My ex thinks it's hot and loves that I love dick -- she even sends me pics of some of her Tinder hookups cocks. She also let's me share her and thinks it's hot.

Same here. My gf pegged me for the first time about a year ago, then I told her I'd taken dick from guys in the past. I hooked up with a neighbor since that time and she demands to know every detail of the encounter. She told me that it makes her crazy-horny to think about me taking the female role.

 

[Mike hutt]

When I told her the stories of being with a man before her, we were driving on a long road trip and she just asked questions and I honestly answered them. She was hot and told me that she was turned on. We never had a threesome and I have been with a couple men and yes I have told her . My wish was always for her to peg me, however she's not interested in it sadly.
Ten years later, she's close to 60 and I'm 56, her sex drive is now very low and mine keeps growing, I wonder if it's bc I'm bisexual where I get turned on by both sexes.....

 

[bdpeslut]

Mine knows.

 

[latinluva]

Yes she knows...it was a weird long month after I told her. "We're you the acceptor or Giver", "Did he ejaculate inside of you", "Did you swallow his cum", "Do you not like women", "Are you gonna leave me for a man".
Now it goes like this when we're out and about, "Do you think he's hot", "Would you let him fuck you", "Would you suck a small cock", "When can we invite a guy in our bedroom", "Would you let me fuck a black guy", "Can we have a threesome". How times have change, I love her.

 

[Lukeyjukey]

Mine doesnt and never will. Im glad 4 every one who can be v.open about it but i prefer it been my secret

 

[WilliamG]

Mine doesnt and never will. Im glad 4 every one who can be v.open about it but i prefer it been my secret

You are not alone on that. It's not a popular thing to say one is bi and keeps it from their gf or spouse. Even on this fairly open minded forum... Many of us have an internal fear of judgement. Even if they don't actually say something about it, we know it's being read and think judgement has been made.

Case in point: We have a private forum here for Married Discreet Bi guys. Previously it was part of the old private forum groups. Only accepted group members could read the questions and comments. It had a fairly decent group of active members. But with the new format, any LPSG member can read the comments. No, they can't post... But the comments can be read by any member. That alone was enough to stifle the conversations.

 

[diver6]

My wife and I have been married for 23 years and one night I told her everything she was ok with it. She had a few questions and I just answered her honestly.

 

[sissyjanine]

My wife has no idea...

 

[laylow95]

haven’t been with guys. my wife knows I like jerking off with friends though