Ex gf's current boyfriend is bigger than me, and it's stirring something inside me

[deleted21080101]

I would say it’s probably not the penis size

Hey, not sure if this is the right forum for this, but I wanted to share because it's an unfamiliar feeling for me and I was curious if anyone else has had a similar experience.

I'm pretty hung (about 8" and thick), and I'm used to being the biggest whoever my partner has had. Until recently, no woman has told me that they had been with a bigger guy, so it's been a source of pride for me. I consider myself pretty dominant and alpha and often fantasize about being the bull for couples. After catching up with my recent ex girlfriend though and hearing about her current man, that's all starting to change. The TLDR is that he is bigger than me and she admitted the sex is amazing, better than with me. No one has ever said that to me, and now it's giving me very strong cuckold feelings.

This ex (let's call her Lauren) and I dated for about 2 years. She's great, but we had opposite schedules and she ended up moving away for work, so we decided to split. We ended things on good terms and have kept in touch. Recently she brought up her boyfriend and I asked how things were going, and she said everything was great. I made a joking comment, hoping he wasn't another "Daniel" (an ex she had before me who she said had a small penis and came almost instantly). She replied and said "no, quite the opposite!!". So that piqued my interest. Here's how the convo went, but let me preface that she is not some sexual freak: she literally grew up on a farm and has the ultimate girl-next-door look. She got straight As in school and is super sweet and pretty shy. Kinda nerdy in a great way, but has a bangin body and an amazing bubble butt for a white girl. I was obsessed with it. Her current boyfriend is this ripped black guy that I think she met on a dating app. Anyways, here's how the convo went after she said "no, quite the opposite!!":

Me: "Oh, that's good! So he's big then?"
Lauren: "Ummm.... yes LOL"
Me: "Good for you! Not bigger than me I hope?? lol"
Lauren: <monkey covering mouth emoji>
Me: "Wow, good for you!"
Lauren: "Sorry, you asked!"
Me: "No, it's all good! You know I'm not the jealous type. Happy to hear you're getting the good stuff lol. So it sounds like the sex is good then?"
Lauren: "Its really good."
Me: "Awesome, I'm glad for you. I'm surprised you can take him if he's bigger than me!"
Lauren: "I know right?!"
Me: "How much bigger is he than me? Just curious"
Lauren: "Lol, why do you want to know?"
Me: "I dunno, it's kinda hot to think about"
Lauren: "Really? Why is that?"
(it took me a bit to figure out the best reply for this bc I didn't want to weird her out and I wanted her to keep talking)
Me: "Hard to explain! But it's hot to imagine you taking a really huge dick. That's probably weird for me to say lol. But part of it is also that I know you enjoyed mine, so you must really enjoy his, so it makes me happy that you're happy and having good sex."
Lauren: "Aww! That's not weird. It's actually pretty sweet!"
Lauren: "Yes, I do enjoy his. He's probably an inch or so bigger than you and maybe thicker too. And it curves in a way that feels amazing. It's also really pretty to look at (like yours!)"
Me: "Nice! Sounds like you hit the dick jackpot lol"
Lauren: "LOL I really did. And he really knows how to use it. I can't get enough lol"
Me: "That's so hot"
Lauren: "LOL you're funny. Are you sure you're OK with me saying things like that? I don't want to hurt feelings or make you jealous, you know I'm not like that. I'm only saying these things bc you asked!"
Me: "No, it's good, keep going! It's really hot to hear"
Lauren: "Lol are you getting turned on?"
Me: "Kinda, yeah!"
Lauren: "Really? You're so funny"
Me: <shrugging emoji>
Lauren: "but yeah, everything is good in the sex department."
Me: "Sounds like it, that's awesome. Sounds like some epic sex. Hope he gives it to you often!"
Lauren: "Almost every day, unless I'm too sore LOL. But even if I can't have sex, I at least will give him a BJ."
Lauren: "He tole me he wants a blowjob ever day and I think I've done it every day since. I actually really enjoy it. I like the challenge LOL"
Me: "Hot!! He's a lucky man..."
Lauren: "I'm lucky too though, for real. Sometimes I think I enjoy giving him head more than he does lol. Not that he doesn't like it, it's just that it turns me on to do it."
Me: "That's awesome. You think it turns you on because he's so big?"
Lauren: "Yeah, that's a big part of it. It's big but also beautiful. I get wet when I do it"
Lauren: "Sorry if that is TMI!! We can talk about something else if you want lol"
Me: "No, I appreciate you sharing this with me and love hearing about it! Thank you for being so open"
Lauren: "Thanks for being cool about it! You know I really enjoyed the sex we had too, right?"
Me: "I do, and I enjoyed it too, and you saying these things doesn't make me feel any different about anything, so we're all good."
Lauren: "OK cool. I'm happy to answer questions bc you seem to be enjoying it lol but let me know if I say something that hurts your feelings. I don't want that at all."
Me: "I know, and you're not at all, seriously. I'm really enjoying the convo."
Lauren: OK cool
Me: "So he asked to get a BJ every day and you get wet doing it, that is so hot."
Lauren: "Yeah, I often wake him up with one, first thing in the morning
Me: "What a way to start the day!!"
Lauren; "LOL, right?? But sometimes I stop before he cums because I want to have sex."
Me: "If you don't have sex, where does he cum?"
Lauren: "... I swallow it <monkey closing mouth emoji>"
Me: "Damn girl!! Amazing!! He is living the best life!"
(At this point I'm feeling some jealousy because she never swallowed me, ever, and she blew me maybe 2 times a month...But I'm not going to bring that up)
Lauren: LOL yup
Me: "Does he ask you to swallow it?"
Lauren: "No, actually. I just do it. I just kinda have an urge to do it and just go with it. I actually enjoy it."
Me: "That is so hot. I'm glad you are both benefiting from it and enjoying it."
Lauren:
Me: "Do you try to deepthroat it?"
Lauren: "I do, but I am not coming close lol. I practice though. He said he wants to train me lol."
Me: "Practice makes perfect!"
Lauren: "Lol yep! It's fun trying"
Me: "Damn, must be a hot sight. And the sex doesn't hurt?"
Lauren: "No, it feels amazing. He's gentle with me at first and then gets pretty dominant which I've found that I enjoy. Not like pain stuff, but he's strong and can toss me around lol"
Me: "Sounds like orgasms galore lol"
Lauren: "Seriously! I climax every time, and you know that is hard for me to do!"
(My jaw was on the ground at this point because her thing was that she had never cum from penetration - not with me, or with any guy before me. She would tell me she thought it was impossible for her. And now I'm hearing that she cums EVERY TIME with this guy....)
Me: "Amazing!! That is awesome, I'm so happy for you!!"
Lauren: "Thank you!! I'm happy too, you know I thought it would never happen."
Me: "What do you think it is that did it, the size?"
Lauren: "The size is a big part. The shape, how he uses it, I dunno... whatever it is, it works lol"
Me: "That's awesome, I'm glad to hear it!"
Lauren: "I even squirt sometimes!"
Me: "Woah!!"
(I am floored)
Lauren: "I know! I was so embarrassed when it happened the first time, I didn't know what was happening lol. Then it happened again and it would always coincide with a really big orgasm and I now can feel it coming. Crazy!!"
Me: "That is so hot. You must need to change your sheets often lol"
Lauren: "I do! We put an extra sheet down now LOL"
Me: "Lol amazing"
Me: "So this sounds like some best-ever type sex here. Is he a porn star or something??"
Lauren: "It really is. Nope, just a regular guy!"
(Hearing it's the best sex ever for her gave me a feeling in the pit of my stomach, but I was also rock hard)
Me: "Well you better not let him go, it sounds like you picked a winner there"
Lauren: "Oh, he's not going anywhere lol. I want to have sex with him for the rest of my life, I literally can't get enough lol. It's insane."
Lauren: ""That's another part of why I suck him every day, I want to keep him happy lol"
Me: "Damn, that's hot. I bet you guys look insanely hot having sex"
Lauren: "I think we do
Me: "He must love your ass. Is he obsessed with it like I was?"
Lauren: "Oh yeah lol. He's always grabbing it or smacking it. He wants me to wear booty shorts in the house all the time lol"
Me: "I don't blame him! Do you wear them?"
Lauren: "Yup Or just revealing underwear or a thong"
Me: "Holy fuck this is so hot"
Lauren: "lol"

( actually came at this point. I was so hard and was stroking in between texts, and the thought of my sweet, dorky ex walking around in booty shorts for this ripped black guy with a huge cock was too much. I busted an enormous load. Then I started coming down and the I felt a little awkward for asking all those questions, so I felt I should wrap it up. I basically told her that I should go, and thanks for sharing, and she said thanks for being cool and she asked me things about my life and my wife and we chatted a little longer about normal stuff.

Ever since, all I've been fantasizing about it the two of them together. Her cumming, squirting, swallowing his cum, worshipping his cock. I even think about this guy fucking my wife. Like, I have an urge to hand her over to him and let him make my wife's pussy his. Like he deserves her. I picture my wife and my ex sucking his cock together. I picture my wife walking around in booty shorts for him. Her sitting on his lap and kissing him while she strokes his cock. I've been watching more cuckold porn and I never used to. It's like I've gone from a "bull" to a "cuckold" after a single text conversation. I'm feeling submissive, especially towards this guy who I've never met. It's a wild feeling that I'm not used to. Has anyone else experienced something like this? Am I crazy for feeling this way? Is this a phase, or do you think this was something that's been inside me that just got unlocked?

Thanks for reading this wall of text!

I am not trying to be rude. Here goes. It didn’t come across as envy for the cock. You were being included in some very intimate and private details. Horny aside I get the sense you are still bruised and for some reason the rejection that you have felt was alleviated when she chose to have pillow/girl talk with you. But you reminded me of the time my exwife and I separated and months later we met up it was emotional and it turned into som monsters ball Halle berry Billy Bob Thornton sex. The kind that is the result of some deeper pain that needs to be released as intensely as it is felt more so if it has been pushed down and denied. I don’t think is a bad thing! I think it’s a testament of o the human mind to flip things around to endure them.

 

[deleted21080101]

This is fucking weird. Even more weird you sat here and typed an entire dialog.

And one more thing is you ex might be a gaslighter. Not only was she eggin you on but also riling you up and bringing you back in. Plus dick size is probably the last thing you want to base a relationship around and if she is bragging about getting banged out over expressing how happy she is outside of sex then you probably dodged a bullet. Iit would be a red flag if my partner was reaching back to their ex and using my anatomy to put the old guy down. I wouldn’t stick around to let her do the same thing to me when she homie hopped of that stick ti a new one.

 

[BS76]

That was my thought. legit 8 inch dicks are like maybe 1% of the male pop.
Monstercock Ramon, one of the biggest in porn..he had a pic with his dick measured against a DVD case (DVD cases are standard 7.5") and Ramon's dick was basically dead even with the case. OP's dick is pretty big, looks to be within an inch of being as big as Ramon's. so the odds of new guy being way above 8"+, eh... If he's black that could be part of it...darker shade looks bigger. and of course she could be just throwing a lil bit of shade/bragging at an ex.

Ramon
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7" is 15%
8" is 3%
9" is 0.07%.
10" is 0.0001%

In a moderately large city of 250,000 people, roughly 73% in the US are 18 to 40 years old. 49% are male. When you run the numbers that gives you...

13.4K men with 7"
2.6K men with 8"
62 with 9"
0 with 10"

Big penises are more common than people's think. The above is just in one mid-level city. In a large metropolitan area with millions of people, well...

Case in point, Miami metro area has 6.138M people. In an area of that size that gives you

329K men with 7"
65.8K men with 8"
1.5K with 9"
219 with 10"

 

[Evenflow618]

7" is 15%
8" is 3%
9" is 0.07%.
10" is 0.0001%

In a moderately large city of 250,000 people, roughly 73% in the US are 18 to 40 years old. 49% are male. When you run the numbers that gives you...

13.4K men with 7"
2.6K men with 8"
62 with 9"
0 with 10"

Big penises are more common than people's think. The above is just in one mid-level city. In a large metropolitan area with millions of people, well...

Case in point, Miami metro area has 6.138M people. In an area of that size that gives you

329K men with 7"
65.8K men with 8"
1.5K with 9"
219 with 10"

Not possible because there are no 10 inches. 9 inches is very very rare.

 

[TinyPrincess]

7" is 15%
8" is 3%
9" is 0.07%.
10" is 0.0001%

In a moderately large city of 250,000 people, roughly 73% in the US are 18 to 40 years old. 49% are male. When you run the numbers that gives you...

13.4K men with 7"
2.6K men with 8"
62 with 9"
0 with 10"

Big penises are more common than people's think. The above is just in one mid-level city. In a large metropolitan area with millions of people, well...

Case in point, Miami metro area has 6.138M people. In an area of that size that gives you

329K men with 7"
65.8K men with 8"
1.5K with 9"
219 with 10"

I guess this is in internet inches - not your everyday real inches...

 

[deleted17028111]

And I assume she never sent you a pic of his?

 

[Thickershock]

And I assume she never sent you a pic of his?

She hasn't and I haven't asked yet

 

[deleted17028111]

She hasn't and I haven't asked yet

Ah mate you def should! I mean, I’d like for you to anyways lol

 

[Brian74]

If I have

I do miss having sex with her, but sex with my wife is good too. They're just different. So maybe I subconsciously miss the different type of sex that I had with my ex, but before this conversation I hadn't been thinking about her sexually much at all.


I'm a white American. I think I would feel similarly? But would maybe feel more competitive if her new bf was white, as opposed to how I feel submissive in this case. I didn't initially think it was a race thing, but I guess I shouldn't rule it out as being a facto

This story was already tortured and iffy to begin with, but the racial element just pushes it into the sea of ridiculousness.

First, under what premise are you(a married man) having a sexual convo with your ex? Like seriously, wtf?

Then, in this conversation you are more interested in her hung black boyfriend than you are her?

Also, as if this isn’t the weirdest fucking convo to begin, she keeps going right along and giving you all these juicy details.

~And she’s no street-wise, sexually liberated temptress. No, she’s a down-home farmgirl, but one who’s able to catch lightning in her pussy not once, but twice. First with you, Mr 8-inch and now Mr 8+ inch anonymous new black boyfriend.

And all the while you, the man who has been king-ding-a-ling all his life. Never having been shown up in the ‘inches’ department… You are not only ‘outgunned’ in this tale but the ex tells you about it and your feelings vacillate between jealousy and arousal. You. The Alpha.

Man, come off it - PLEASE!

What’s really comical is me trying to imagine a man with an 8-inch dick being jealous of any other man’s dick. Right.

At best, this is some bullshit diatribe you penned on a slow horny night just to engage people.

At worst, this is a real story and you really are a cringe-inducing man with a repressed tendency to fetishize black and brown people as merely sexual objects that are otherwise invisible outside of your own predilections..

This whole tale is disgusting, disrespectful and I’m incredulous about it to say the least.

 

[chesticles55]

If I have

This story was already tortured and iffy to begin with, but the racial element just pushes it into the sea of ridiculousness.

First, under what premise are you(a married man) having a sexual convo with your ex? Like seriously, wtf?

Then, in this conversation you are more interested in her hung black boyfriend than you are her?

Also, as if this isn’t the weirdest fucking convo to begin, she keeps going right along and giving you all these juicy details.

~And she’s no street-wise, sexually liberated temptress. No, she’s a down-home farmgirl, but one who’s able to catch lightning in her pussy not once, but twice. First with you, Mr 8-inch and now Mr 8+ inch anonymous new black boyfriend.

And all the while you, the man who has been king-ding-a-ling all his life. Never having been shown up in the ‘inches’ department… You are not only ‘outgunned’ in this tale but the ex tells you about it and your feelings vacillate between jealousy and arousal. You. The Alpha.

Man, come off it - PLEASE!

What’s really comical is me trying to imagine a man with an 8-inch dick being jealous of any other man’s dick. Right.

At best, this is some bullshit diatribe you penned on a slow horny night just to engage people.

At worst, this is a real story and you really are a cringe-inducing man with a repressed tendency to fetishize black and brown people as merely sexual objects that are otherwise invisible outside of your own predilections..

This whole tale is disgusting, disrespectful and I’m incredulous about it to say the least.

He’s not nearly as big as he thinks he is but I agree with your overall sentiment. I feel like this may all just be spank fodder though. Not that it isn’t still pathetic either way.

 

[huntervey23]

Hey, not sure if this is the right forum for this, but I wanted to share because it's an unfamiliar feeling for me and I was curious if anyone else has had a similar experience.

I'm pretty hung (about 8" and thick), and I'm used to being the biggest whoever my partner has had. Until recently, no woman has told me that they had been with a bigger guy, so it's been a source of pride for me. I consider myself pretty dominant and alpha and often fantasize about being the bull for couples. After catching up with my recent ex girlfriend though and hearing about her current man, that's all starting to change. The TLDR is that he is bigger than me and she admitted the sex is amazing, better than with me. No one has ever said that to me, and now it's giving me very strong cuckold feelings.

This ex (let's call her Lauren) and I dated for about 2 years. She's great, but we had opposite schedules and she ended up moving away for work, so we decided to split. We ended things on good terms and have kept in touch. Recently she brought up her boyfriend and I asked how things were going, and she said everything was great. I made a joking comment, hoping he wasn't another "Daniel" (an ex she had before me who she said had a small penis and came almost instantly). She replied and said "no, quite the opposite!!". So that piqued my interest. Here's how the convo went, but let me preface that she is not some sexual freak: she literally grew up on a farm and has the ultimate girl-next-door look. She got straight As in school and is super sweet and pretty shy. Kinda nerdy in a great way, but has a bangin body and an amazing bubble butt for a white girl. I was obsessed with it. Her current boyfriend is this ripped black guy that I think she met on a dating app. Anyways, here's how the convo went after she said "no, quite the opposite!!":

Me: "Oh, that's good! So he's big then?"
Lauren: "Ummm.... yes LOL"
Me: "Good for you! Not bigger than me I hope?? lol"
Lauren: <monkey covering mouth emoji>
Me: "Wow, good for you!"
Lauren: "Sorry, you asked!"
Me: "No, it's all good! You know I'm not the jealous type. Happy to hear you're getting the good stuff lol. So it sounds like the sex is good then?"
Lauren: "Its really good."
Me: "Awesome, I'm glad for you. I'm surprised you can take him if he's bigger than me!"
Lauren: "I know right?!"
Me: "How much bigger is he than me? Just curious"
Lauren: "Lol, why do you want to know?"
Me: "I dunno, it's kinda hot to think about"
Lauren: "Really? Why is that?"
(it took me a bit to figure out the best reply for this bc I didn't want to weird her out and I wanted her to keep talking)
Me: "Hard to explain! But it's hot to imagine you taking a really huge dick. That's probably weird for me to say lol. But part of it is also that I know you enjoyed mine, so you must really enjoy his, so it makes me happy that you're happy and having good sex."
Lauren: "Aww! That's not weird. It's actually pretty sweet!"
Lauren: "Yes, I do enjoy his. He's probably an inch or so bigger than you and maybe thicker too. And it curves in a way that feels amazing. It's also really pretty to look at (like yours!)"
Me: "Nice! Sounds like you hit the dick jackpot lol"
Lauren: "LOL I really did. And he really knows how to use it. I can't get enough lol"
Me: "That's so hot"
Lauren: "LOL you're funny. Are you sure you're OK with me saying things like that? I don't want to hurt feelings or make you jealous, you know I'm not like that. I'm only saying these things bc you asked!"
Me: "No, it's good, keep going! It's really hot to hear"
Lauren: "Lol are you getting turned on?"
Me: "Kinda, yeah!"
Lauren: "Really? You're so funny"
Me: <shrugging emoji>
Lauren: "but yeah, everything is good in the sex department."
Me: "Sounds like it, that's awesome. Sounds like some epic sex. Hope he gives it to you often!"
Lauren: "Almost every day, unless I'm too sore LOL. But even if I can't have sex, I at least will give him a BJ."
Lauren: "He tole me he wants a blowjob ever day and I think I've done it every day since. I actually really enjoy it. I like the challenge LOL"
Me: "Hot!! He's a lucky man..."
Lauren: "I'm lucky too though, for real. Sometimes I think I enjoy giving him head more than he does lol. Not that he doesn't like it, it's just that it turns me on to do it."
Me: "That's awesome. You think it turns you on because he's so big?"
Lauren: "Yeah, that's a big part of it. It's big but also beautiful. I get wet when I do it"
Lauren: "Sorry if that is TMI!! We can talk about something else if you want lol"
Me: "No, I appreciate you sharing this with me and love hearing about it! Thank you for being so open"
Lauren: "Thanks for being cool about it! You know I really enjoyed the sex we had too, right?"
Me: "I do, and I enjoyed it too, and you saying these things doesn't make me feel any different about anything, so we're all good."
Lauren: "OK cool. I'm happy to answer questions bc you seem to be enjoying it lol but let me know if I say something that hurts your feelings. I don't want that at all."
Me: "I know, and you're not at all, seriously. I'm really enjoying the convo."
Lauren: OK cool
Me: "So he asked to get a BJ every day and you get wet doing it, that is so hot."
Lauren: "Yeah, I often wake him up with one, first thing in the morning
Me: "What a way to start the day!!"
Lauren; "LOL, right?? But sometimes I stop before he cums because I want to have sex."
Me: "If you don't have sex, where does he cum?"
Lauren: "... I swallow it <monkey closing mouth emoji>"
Me: "Damn girl!! Amazing!! He is living the best life!"
(At this point I'm feeling some jealousy because she never swallowed me, ever, and she blew me maybe 2 times a month...But I'm not going to bring that up)
Lauren: LOL yup
Me: "Does he ask you to swallow it?"
Lauren: "No, actually. I just do it. I just kinda have an urge to do it and just go with it. I actually enjoy it."
Me: "That is so hot. I'm glad you are both benefiting from it and enjoying it."
Lauren:
Me: "Do you try to deepthroat it?"
Lauren: "I do, but I am not coming close lol. I practice though. He said he wants to train me lol."
Me: "Practice makes perfect!"
Lauren: "Lol yep! It's fun trying"
Me: "Damn, must be a hot sight. And the sex doesn't hurt?"
Lauren: "No, it feels amazing. He's gentle with me at first and then gets pretty dominant which I've found that I enjoy. Not like pain stuff, but he's strong and can toss me around lol"
Me: "Sounds like orgasms galore lol"
Lauren: "Seriously! I climax every time, and you know that is hard for me to do!"
(My jaw was on the ground at this point because her thing was that she had never cum from penetration - not with me, or with any guy before me. She would tell me she thought it was impossible for her. And now I'm hearing that she cums EVERY TIME with this guy....)
Me: "Amazing!! That is awesome, I'm so happy for you!!"
Lauren: "Thank you!! I'm happy too, you know I thought it would never happen."
Me: "What do you think it is that did it, the size?"
Lauren: "The size is a big part. The shape, how he uses it, I dunno... whatever it is, it works lol"
Me: "That's awesome, I'm glad to hear it!"
Lauren: "I even squirt sometimes!"
Me: "Woah!!"
(I am floored)
Lauren: "I know! I was so embarrassed when it happened the first time, I didn't know what was happening lol. Then it happened again and it would always coincide with a really big orgasm and I now can feel it coming. Crazy!!"
Me: "That is so hot. You must need to change your sheets often lol"
Lauren: "I do! We put an extra sheet down now LOL"
Me: "Lol amazing"
Me: "So this sounds like some best-ever type sex here. Is he a porn star or something??"
Lauren: "It really is. Nope, just a regular guy!"
(Hearing it's the best sex ever for her gave me a feeling in the pit of my stomach, but I was also rock hard)
Me: "Well you better not let him go, it sounds like you picked a winner there"
Lauren: "Oh, he's not going anywhere lol. I want to have sex with him for the rest of my life, I literally can't get enough lol. It's insane."
Lauren: ""That's another part of why I suck him every day, I want to keep him happy lol"
Me: "Damn, that's hot. I bet you guys look insanely hot having sex"
Lauren: "I think we do
Me: "He must love your ass. Is he obsessed with it like I was?"
Lauren: "Oh yeah lol. He's always grabbing it or smacking it. He wants me to wear booty shorts in the house all the time lol"
Me: "I don't blame him! Do you wear them?"
Lauren: "Yup Or just revealing underwear or a thong"
Me: "Holy fuck this is so hot"
Lauren: "lol"

( actually came at this point. I was so hard and was stroking in between texts, and the thought of my sweet, dorky ex walking around in booty shorts for this ripped black guy with a huge cock was too much. I busted an enormous load. Then I started coming down and the I felt a little awkward for asking all those questions, so I felt I should wrap it up. I basically told her that I should go, and thanks for sharing, and she said thanks for being cool and she asked me things about my life and my wife and we chatted a little longer about normal stuff.

Ever since, all I've been fantasizing about it the two of them together. Her cumming, squirting, swallowing his cum, worshipping his cock. I even think about this guy fucking my wife. Like, I have an urge to hand her over to him and let him make my wife's pussy his. Like he deserves her. I picture my wife and my ex sucking his cock together. I picture my wife walking around in booty shorts for him. Her sitting on his lap and kissing him while she strokes his cock. I've been watching more cuckold porn and I never used to. It's like I've gone from a "bull" to a "cuckold" after a single text conversation. I'm feeling submissive, especially towards this guy who I've never met. It's a wild feeling that I'm not used to. Has anyone else experienced something like this? Am I crazy for feeling this way? Is this a phase, or do you think this was something that's been inside me that just got unlocked?

Thanks for reading this wall of text!

I know Men have a tendency of digging their own graves with this line of questioning, but you hit the center of the earth and burned slow like the Terminator in the lava

 

[LiterallyAnythingElse]

That was a great story. Very hot. You should post a pic of your cock though. That description made it sound nice af

 

[wvgwm52]

There’s one thing I learned one night.. I been with few guys 7 to9 inches .. and loved them all..

I met this guy one night and he was 5 inches.. in my mind I thought shit.. I can handle this one no problem.. when he began fucking me I was like holy fuck.. and he was awesome .. and when he was done .. my ass was so sore .. this is what the old saying .. it’s not the size of the hook it’s how you wiggle your worm.. this guy knew how to wiggle his worm .. so from then on I never under estimated a smaller dick

 

[jaylondres]

Hey, not sure if this is the right forum for this, but I wanted to share because it's an unfamiliar feeling for me and I was curious if anyone else has had a similar experience.

I'm pretty hung (about 8" and thick), and I'm used to being the biggest whoever my partner has had. Until recently, no woman has told me that they had been with a bigger guy, so it's been a source of pride for me. I consider myself pretty dominant and alpha and often fantasize about being the bull for couples. After catching up with my recent ex girlfriend though and hearing about her current man, that's all starting to change. The TLDR is that he is bigger than me and she admitted the sex is amazing, better than with me. No one has ever said that to me, and now it's giving me very strong cuckold feelings.

This ex (let's call her Lauren) and I dated for about 2 years. She's great, but we had opposite schedules and she ended up moving away for work, so we decided to split. We ended things on good terms and have kept in touch. Recently she brought up her boyfriend and I asked how things were going, and she said everything was great. I made a joking comment, hoping he wasn't another "Daniel" (an ex she had before me who she said had a small penis and came almost instantly). She replied and said "no, quite the opposite!!". So that piqued my interest. Here's how the convo went, but let me preface that she is not some sexual freak: she literally grew up on a farm and has the ultimate girl-next-door look. She got straight As in school and is super sweet and pretty shy. Kinda nerdy in a great way, but has a bangin body and an amazing bubble butt for a white girl. I was obsessed with it. Her current boyfriend is this ripped black guy that I think she met on a dating app. Anyways, here's how the convo went after she said "no, quite the opposite!!":

Me: "Oh, that's good! So he's big then?"
Lauren: "Ummm.... yes LOL"
Me: "Good for you! Not bigger than me I hope?? lol"
Lauren: <monkey covering mouth emoji>
Me: "Wow, good for you!"
Lauren: "Sorry, you asked!"
Me: "No, it's all good! You know I'm not the jealous type. Happy to hear you're getting the good stuff lol. So it sounds like the sex is good then?"
Lauren: "Its really good."
Me: "Awesome, I'm glad for you. I'm surprised you can take him if he's bigger than me!"
Lauren: "I know right?!"
Me: "How much bigger is he than me? Just curious"
Lauren: "Lol, why do you want to know?"
Me: "I dunno, it's kinda hot to think about"
Lauren: "Really? Why is that?"
(it took me a bit to figure out the best reply for this bc I didn't want to weird her out and I wanted her to keep talking)
Me: "Hard to explain! But it's hot to imagine you taking a really huge dick. That's probably weird for me to say lol. But part of it is also that I know you enjoyed mine, so you must really enjoy his, so it makes me happy that you're happy and having good sex."
Lauren: "Aww! That's not weird. It's actually pretty sweet!"
Lauren: "Yes, I do enjoy his. He's probably an inch or so bigger than you and maybe thicker too. And it curves in a way that feels amazing. It's also really pretty to look at (like yours!)"
Me: "Nice! Sounds like you hit the dick jackpot lol"
Lauren: "LOL I really did. And he really knows how to use it. I can't get enough lol"
Me: "That's so hot"
Lauren: "LOL you're funny. Are you sure you're OK with me saying things like that? I don't want to hurt feelings or make you jealous, you know I'm not like that. I'm only saying these things bc you asked!"
Me: "No, it's good, keep going! It's really hot to hear"
Lauren: "Lol are you getting turned on?"
Me: "Kinda, yeah!"
Lauren: "Really? You're so funny"
Me: <shrugging emoji>
Lauren: "but yeah, everything is good in the sex department."
Me: "Sounds like it, that's awesome. Sounds like some epic sex. Hope he gives it to you often!"
Lauren: "Almost every day, unless I'm too sore LOL. But even if I can't have sex, I at least will give him a BJ."
Lauren: "He tole me he wants a blowjob ever day and I think I've done it every day since. I actually really enjoy it. I like the challenge LOL"
Me: "Hot!! He's a lucky man..."
Lauren: "I'm lucky too though, for real. Sometimes I think I enjoy giving him head more than he does lol. Not that he doesn't like it, it's just that it turns me on to do it."
Me: "That's awesome. You think it turns you on because he's so big?"
Lauren: "Yeah, that's a big part of it. It's big but also beautiful. I get wet when I do it"
Lauren: "Sorry if that is TMI!! We can talk about something else if you want lol"
Me: "No, I appreciate you sharing this with me and love hearing about it! Thank you for being so open"
Lauren: "Thanks for being cool about it! You know I really enjoyed the sex we had too, right?"
Me: "I do, and I enjoyed it too, and you saying these things doesn't make me feel any different about anything, so we're all good."
Lauren: "OK cool. I'm happy to answer questions bc you seem to be enjoying it lol but let me know if I say something that hurts your feelings. I don't want that at all."
Me: "I know, and you're not at all, seriously. I'm really enjoying the convo."
Lauren: OK cool
Me: "So he asked to get a BJ every day and you get wet doing it, that is so hot."
Lauren: "Yeah, I often wake him up with one, first thing in the morning
Me: "What a way to start the day!!"
Lauren; "LOL, right?? But sometimes I stop before he cums because I want to have sex."
Me: "If you don't have sex, where does he cum?"
Lauren: "... I swallow it <monkey closing mouth emoji>"
Me: "Damn girl!! Amazing!! He is living the best life!"
(At this point I'm feeling some jealousy because she never swallowed me, ever, and she blew me maybe 2 times a month...But I'm not going to bring that up)
Lauren: LOL yup
Me: "Does he ask you to swallow it?"
Lauren: "No, actually. I just do it. I just kinda have an urge to do it and just go with it. I actually enjoy it."
Me: "That is so hot. I'm glad you are both benefiting from it and enjoying it."
Lauren:
Me: "Do you try to deepthroat it?"
Lauren: "I do, but I am not coming close lol. I practice though. He said he wants to train me lol."
Me: "Practice makes perfect!"
Lauren: "Lol yep! It's fun trying"
Me: "Damn, must be a hot sight. And the sex doesn't hurt?"
Lauren: "No, it feels amazing. He's gentle with me at first and then gets pretty dominant which I've found that I enjoy. Not like pain stuff, but he's strong and can toss me around lol"
Me: "Sounds like orgasms galore lol"
Lauren: "Seriously! I climax every time, and you know that is hard for me to do!"
(My jaw was on the ground at this point because her thing was that she had never cum from penetration - not with me, or with any guy before me. She would tell me she thought it was impossible for her. And now I'm hearing that she cums EVERY TIME with this guy....)
Me: "Amazing!! That is awesome, I'm so happy for you!!"
Lauren: "Thank you!! I'm happy too, you know I thought it would never happen."
Me: "What do you think it is that did it, the size?"
Lauren: "The size is a big part. The shape, how he uses it, I dunno... whatever it is, it works lol"
Me: "That's awesome, I'm glad to hear it!"
Lauren: "I even squirt sometimes!"
Me: "Woah!!"
(I am floored)
Lauren: "I know! I was so embarrassed when it happened the first time, I didn't know what was happening lol. Then it happened again and it would always coincide with a really big orgasm and I now can feel it coming. Crazy!!"
Me: "That is so hot. You must need to change your sheets often lol"
Lauren: "I do! We put an extra sheet down now LOL"
Me: "Lol amazing"
Me: "So this sounds like some best-ever type sex here. Is he a porn star or something??"
Lauren: "It really is. Nope, just a regular guy!"
(Hearing it's the best sex ever for her gave me a feeling in the pit of my stomach, but I was also rock hard)
Me: "Well you better not let him go, it sounds like you picked a winner there"
Lauren: "Oh, he's not going anywhere lol. I want to have sex with him for the rest of my life, I literally can't get enough lol. It's insane."
Lauren: ""That's another part of why I suck him every day, I want to keep him happy lol"
Me: "Damn, that's hot. I bet you guys look insanely hot having sex"
Lauren: "I think we do
Me: "He must love your ass. Is he obsessed with it like I was?"
Lauren: "Oh yeah lol. He's always grabbing it or smacking it. He wants me to wear booty shorts in the house all the time lol"
Me: "I don't blame him! Do you wear them?"
Lauren: "Yup Or just revealing underwear or a thong"
Me: "Holy fuck this is so hot"
Lauren: "lol"

( actually came at this point. I was so hard and was stroking in between texts, and the thought of my sweet, dorky ex walking around in booty shorts for this ripped black guy with a huge cock was too much. I busted an enormous load. Then I started coming down and the I felt a little awkward for asking all those questions, so I felt I should wrap it up. I basically told her that I should go, and thanks for sharing, and she said thanks for being cool and she asked me things about my life and my wife and we chatted a little longer about normal stuff.

Ever since, all I've been fantasizing about it the two of them together. Her cumming, squirting, swallowing his cum, worshipping his cock. I even think about this guy fucking my wife. Like, I have an urge to hand her over to him and let him make my wife's pussy his. Like he deserves her. I picture my wife and my ex sucking his cock together. I picture my wife walking around in booty shorts for him. Her sitting on his lap and kissing him while she strokes his cock. I've been watching more cuckold porn and I never used to. It's like I've gone from a "bull" to a "cuckold" after a single text conversation. I'm feeling submissive, especially towards this guy who I've never met. It's a wild feeling that I'm not used to. Has anyone else experienced something like this? Am I crazy for feeling this way? Is this a phase, or do you think this was something that's been inside me that just got unlocked?

Thanks for reading this wall of text!

Someone is watching too much porn. Lovely fantasy.

 

[vamick]

If I have

This story was already tortured and iffy to begin with, but the racial element just pushes it into the sea of ridiculousness.

First, under what premise are you(a married man) having a sexual convo with your ex? Like seriously, wtf?

Then, in this conversation you are more interested in her hung black boyfriend than you are her?

Also, as if this isn’t the weirdest fucking convo to begin, she keeps going right along and giving you all these juicy details.

~And she’s no street-wise, sexually liberated temptress. No, she’s a down-home farmgirl, but one who’s able to catch lightning in her pussy not once, but twice. First with you, Mr 8-inch and now Mr 8+ inch anonymous new black boyfriend.

And all the while you, the man who has been king-ding-a-ling all his life. Never having been shown up in the ‘inches’ department… You are not only ‘outgunned’ in this tale but the ex tells you about it and your feelings vacillate between jealousy and arousal. You. The Alpha.

Man, come off it - PLEASE!

What’s really comical is me trying to imagine a man with an 8-inch dick being jealous of any other man’s dick. Right.

At best, this is some bullshit diatribe you penned on a slow horny night just to engage people.

At worst, this is a real story and you really are a cringe-inducing man with a repressed tendency to fetishize black and brown people as merely sexual objects that are otherwise invisible outside of your own predilections..

This whole tale is disgusting, disrespectful and I’m incredulous about it to say the least.

Oh brother, "fetishize black and brown people".

People have types. Some people are more attracted to tall men, some black men, some thin girls, some curvy girls. Maybe it's a little odd that he said if it had been a white guy he'd be more competitive than submissive, but stop preaching. There aren't many, if any, people who are attracted to every race, size, and gender. Whether it's fantasy or actually advice shouldn't bring in condemnation.

 

[chesticles55]

Oh brother, "fetishize black and brown people".

People have types. Some people are more attracted to tall men, some black men, some thin girls, some curvy girls. Maybe it's a little odd that he said if it had been a white guy he'd be more competitive than submissive, but stop preaching. There aren't many, if any, people who are attracted to every race, size, and gender. Whether it's fantasy or actually advice shouldn't bring in condemnation.

It’s not preaching. And it’s not a matter of “attraction”. That’s exactly what he’s doing. That’s what a ton of creeps do. The fact that he randomly brings up race in the first place is already a red flag. Then he goes on to say that he’d be “more competitive” with a white guy. The reason for that is he views the hypothetical white guy as an emotional “threat” towards his ex and as a “human” capable of maintaining a romantic partnership. I think you can therefore guess how he views the black guy.

 

[drunkhusky]

So I can compare to this. First girl i slept with raved about my cock. really stroked my ego. so much bigger than her ex. showed it off to her friends. next girl same thing. she lasted a while. we were on and off for a few years. we would get back and go over all the things we did with other people during breaks and it was always a thing of pride that i stay her biggest. she would always make a point to bring that up. until one time she didnt. at first i didnt think anything of it. but it bugged me. tbh i had gotten toothy bjs and handjobs but no sex during our breaks. i was her first and she was my second, and by the time it was done she was still my second and she was on her 20th. I was fat, she was fun, loved my cock during a time when i was very busy with school. it wasnt love and we both knew it but i had to know
me. am i still your biggest?
her: dont ask questions you dont want answers too.
my heart sank. i could see from her face she knew this would hurt me
me: was he longer?
her: yes
me: thicker?
her: yes
me: by alot
her: im sorry but yes
me: alot thicker and alot longer?
her: yes both
i was fucking deflated. my ego so damaged. all i could think about for a while.
3rd girl i slept with I was her #50 and she at that point had 2 bigger. one around the same size but still bigger and another she described as nightmarishly big.
girl #4 was best friend of girl #2. she had slept with same guy. she had been his fuck buddy first and had been the one to set them up to help #2 get over me. she confirmed he was much bigger.
my luck got much better after that but talk about bad luck. really humbled me but for the better

 

[dreamer20]

I'm (~ 8"). My ex girlfriend's man is bigger, the sex is amazing, better than with me. <After she> said that it's <given> me very strong cuckold feelings. TLDR/Texts:
Lauren: "LOL ...I don't want to hurt feelings or make you jealous,
Me: "No, it's good, keep going! It's really hot to hear..."He's a lucky man..." Hearing it gave me a feeling in the pit of my stomach, but I was also rock hard ..stroking in between texts..the thought for this ripped black guy with a huge cock was too much. I busted an enormous load.
I told her thanks for sharing, and she asked me things about my life, my wife and normal stuff.
Ever since, all I've been fantasizing about my ex+ him,..this guy fucking my wife. Like he deserves her. I picture my wife and ex sucking his cock. My wife in booty shorts sitting on his lap kissing him...I've been watching more cuckold porn...like I've gone from a "bull" to a "cuckold" after a single text conversation. I'm feeling submissive towards this guy I've never met. Has anyone else experienced something like this? Am I crazy for feeling this way?

Your ex gave you an erotic fantasy. I'm glad that you enjoyed it/ your sexting session with her. Are such sex texts something you have to keep secret from your wife or are does she condone such activity? There's nothing wrong with you fantasizing about whatever floats your boat. If you want to get your wife involved find out if she too finds your fantasy appealing. Then the two of you could don your booty shorts and worship a black, ripped muscle stud.

 

[haha14]

You just need to prove it and show us your cock here so we can judge

 

[Scott11e]

I don’t know how true OP’s particular tale is, but I don’t think interest in the cock size of someone who is now with your ex is that unusual if you see your cock size as a big part of your identity (either because you think you’re big, or because you are ashamed at being small). But usually it’s the sort of interest that only comes out when you’ve had a lot to drink – I can’t imagine sending messages to an ex about it!

One of the dudes on my rugby team (who has a pretty small dick by any standards) got cheated on by his gf with a guy on another team – and she then dumped him and moved in with this guy. When we were having a drunken conversation one time and I mentioned I had been at uni with this guy, he got pretty obsessed with getting me to tell him whether he was hung or not. Eventually I confirmed that, yeah, he was, really quite hung. My teammate was definitely a weird combo of deflated and turned on at hearing that. Turned out his gf had been telling him she was absolutely fine with his wee knob and that it was the perfect size for her – and then ditched him the minute a guy with a massive log came along Made me laugh, but I absolutely reckon my teammate knocked one out thinking about his ex getting railed by a beast of a cock the minute he got home.