feeling really envious of other guys w/ bigger dicks

[ddgggg]

I’ve been feeling really jealous/envious of other guys online. I’ll see so many that are 8”+ with 6” girth or even more, big flaccid lengths, and big testicles on Reddit/Twitter and genuinely feel so useless compared to them. I know porn isn’t real, and there’s confirmation/selection bias, but even then there’s still a lot of guys. I had been trying to use a pump to get permanent growth, but even then, that’s going to take so long, and there’s no guarantee that I’ll be able to grow to their level. And I know it’s not all about size when it comes to sex, but this isn’t only about sex. I just wanted to feel more masculine and show off as well as the other people here have, and not worry about changing next to other people or using urinals. I see so much talk about big dicks on places like here and on this chat app for college students, Sidechat, that I wished I could be talked about that way to be honest.

 

[Brodie888]

It's like being envious of people who are richer than you. There's always going to be someone else who has more but don't forget there are those who also have much less.

So be happy with what you got and be glad that it works.

 

[blkcocktail]

Thank you ddggg for posting and explaining those feelings so perfectly. You’re definitely not alone, I’d imagine there’s a percentage of the male population that feels this way. I always feel like I’m totally missing out, like I’ve been benched for not having a big dick, and now kinda forced to sit back and watch all the masculine guys and all the hung guys, all over the world , getting off, having sex, and enjoying themselves.

 

[ddgggg]

It's like being envious of people who are richer than you. There's always going to be someone else who has more but don't forget there are those who also have much less.

So be happy with what you got and be glad that it works.

I am happy with what I have, but I still want more. I’m seeing so many dudes and I’m practically nothing compared to them. At least if I were to have a bigger dick, I would have some redeeming quality and something to be fully proud of myself for.

 

[Brodie888]

I am happy with what I have, but I still want more. I’m seeing so many dudes and I’m practically nothing compared to them. At least if I were to have a bigger dick, I would have some redeeming quality and something to be fully proud of myself for.

I'd rather be proud of something that I had a say in the decision rather than something that I had none.

 

[ASK JEFF]

I’ve been feeling really jealous/envious of other guys online. I’ll see so many that are 8”+ with 6” girth or even more, big flaccid lengths, and big testicles on Reddit/Twitter and genuinely feel so useless compared to them. I know porn isn’t real, and there’s confirmation/selection bias, but even then there’s still a lot of guys. I had been trying to use a pump to get permanent growth, but even then, that’s going to take so long, and there’s no guarantee that I’ll be able to grow to their level. And I know it’s not all about size when it comes to sex, but this isn’t only about sex. I just wanted to feel more masculine and show off as well as the other people here have, and not worry about changing next to other people or using urinals. I see so much talk about big dicks on places like here and on this chat app for college students, Sidechat, that I wished I could be talked about that way to be honest.

Honey bear, feeling, looking and being more masculine has nothing to do with your cock size. It’s your confidence. You gotta have confidence, bro. Put those shoulders back, show what your packing (You didn’t say size, but just wanted more…okay, well, this is how you were made, so capitalize on that) wear nice clothes, smell good and look groomed but not over groomed) and get to work!

I’ve been around the block. I don’t see that in a bad light, I was just experimentin. Okay, okay, I was whore. Sue me The thing is, I’ve seen small one, micro ones, medium one, medium big ones, big ones, huge ones and the ever rare “Let me say a prayer before you put that in me” ones. See? Everyone has varying sizes. I dated a guy long term (2 years) who had a normal dick. I could have had a ‘Coke Can Joe’ down the street, but Coke Can Joe didn’t have what my Miles did. CONFIDENCE and, to be honest, Miles was fucking amazing in bed! Let the Coke cans and long dongs come and go in your life, but never compare. It’s who they are attached to and how they are as a man that matters most.

In your case, stop with the pumps, stretching, the “Miracle creams” just found in south east Asia from an “an unknown tree” and all that bullshit. What you need is acceptance of yourself, and the only person who can give that to you is YOU, sweetie. Only you. LOVE yourself, SPEAK KINDLY to your self, EMBRACE YOUR WORTH every DAY! In the end, your clock has very little to do with your outlook and what others think of you. And wishing you had a dick that could move a refrigerator around the room is just that. A wish. A good one, but not a realistic one.

another thought: Think about the young men in the military who have come back, and still come back, from overseas and have stepped on an IED or had gunfire, etc. Some loose their penis AND testicles. be thankful for the bad boy ya got between your legs and get some use out of it. Sitting behind a computer screen wishing you looked like a hot pornstar or a guy you hooked up with is not being kind to yourself.

Kisses on your pink parts
JEFF

 

[Evenflow618]

There is nothing superior about a big penis for the last time

 

[Crex]

There is nothing superior about a big penis for the last time

I think it's more about people wanting what they don't/can't have. Yes, my dick is big, but as fun as compliments are, I have also had problems. I don't get to top as often as I'd like because my penis hurts my partner even with tons of prep. I'm kind of jealous of the smaller/average guys who can have as much anal sex as they'd like without having any problems.

 

[ddgggg]

There is nothing superior about a big penis for the last time

I never said it was, just that that was what I wanted for the things I wanted to do in life (such as feel good about myself).

 

[ddgggg]

I think it's more about people wanting what they don't/can't have. Yes, my dick is big, but as fun as compliments are, I have also had problems. I don't get to top as often as I'd like because my penis hurts my partner even with tons of prep. I'm kind of jealous of the smaller/average guys who can have as much anal sex as they'd like without having any problems.

Also, to be fair, there are still people out there willing to take a bigger dick and want to take a bigger dick. Plus, as is, I'm 20 and still a virgin. At this rate, that might stay that way for a long time unless I can get my body to look good enough. Until then, it would be nice to have something to be proud of myself for.

 

[longstroke7]

Worry about your own cock, and how to pleasure someone with it. Learn how to stroke

 

[Evenflow618]

Listen to @longstroke thats all we can do as men

 

[ddgggg]

Worry about your own cock, and how to pleasure someone with it. Learn how to stroke

It’s not just about sex why I’d want to have a bigger dick though

 

[ASK JEFF]

I think it's more about people wanting what they don't/can't have. Yes, my dick is big, but as fun as compliments are, I have also had problems. I don't get to top as often as I'd like because my penis hurts my partner even with tons of prep. I'm kind of jealous of the smaller/average guys who can have as much anal sex as they'd like without having any problems.

=Can Identify with that!

 

[masonjames]

Honey bear, feeling, looking and being more masculine has nothing to do with your cock size. It’s your confidence. You gotta have confidence, bro. Put those shoulders back, show what your packing (You didn’t say size, but just wanted more…okay, well, this is how you were made, so capitalize on that) wear nice clothes, smell good and look groomed but not over groomed) and get to work!

I’ve been around the block. I don’t see that in a bad light, I was just experimentin. Okay, okay, I was whore. Sue me The thing is, I’ve seen small one, micro ones, medium one, medium big ones, big ones, huge ones and the ever rare “Let me say a prayer before you put that in me” ones. See? Everyone has varying sizes. I dated a guy long term (2 years) who had a normal dick. I could have had a ‘Coke Can Joe’ down the street, but Coke Can Joe didn’t have what my Miles did. CONFIDENCE and, to be honest, Miles was fucking amazing in bed! Let the Coke cans and long dongs come and go in your life, but never compare. It’s who they are attached to and how they are as a man that matters most.

In your case, stop with the pumps, stretching, the “Miracle creams” just found in south east Asia from an “an unknown tree” and all that bullshit. What you need is acceptance of yourself, and the only person who can give that to you is YOU, sweetie. Only you. LOVE yourself, SPEAK KINDLY to your self, EMBRACE YOUR WORTH every DAY! In the end, your clock has very little to do with your outlook and what others think of you. And wishing you had a dick that could move a refrigerator around the room is just that. A wish. A good one, but not a realistic one.

another thought: Think about the young men in the military who have come back, and still come back, from overseas and have stepped on an IED or had gunfire, etc. Some loose their penis AND testicles. be thankful for the bad boy ya got between your legs and get some use out of it. Sitting behind a computer screen wishing you looked like a hot pornstar or a guy you hooked up with is not being kind to yourself.

Kisses on your pink parts
JEFF

Well said and true.

 

[longstroke7]

It’s not just about sex why I’d want to have a bigger dick though

Brother i hope you don't mind, but i looked at your pics.

I say this objectively, your cock is not small at all, and frankly you're girthy. Very muscular shaft, and good length for deep stroking as well. And your glans will definitely stimulate pussy/ass hole thoroughly. I'm not sure what you're into sexually, but if you learn how to stroke (use your hips) and be a very giving lover in bed, you're gonna please any person you have sex with.

If porn is giving you body dysmorphia, stop watching it. It's not real life and frankly, you could do porn with your cock so take that for what it's worth.

 

[FrankieGuile]

I’ve been feeling really jealous/envious of other guys online. I’ll see so many that are 8”+ with 6” girth or even more, big flaccid lengths, and big testicles on Reddit/Twitter and genuinely feel so useless compared to them. I know porn isn’t real, and there’s confirmation/selection bias, but even then there’s still a lot of guys. I had been trying to use a pump to get permanent growth, but even then, that’s going to take so long, and there’s no guarantee that I’ll be able to grow to their level. And I know it’s not all about size when it comes to sex, but this isn’t only about sex. I just wanted to feel more masculine and show off as well as the other people here have, and not worry about changing next to other people or using urinals. I see so much talk about big dicks on places like here and on this chat app for college students, Sidechat, that I wished I could be talked about that way to be honest.

A positive step would be to get off this site and the "Sidechat" app you referenced. Also, there is nothing "masculine" about showing off. Masculine guys are self-assured, protective of others and independent thinkers. Try to be like that and not like a big dick.

 

[ASK JEFF]

A positive step would be to get off this site and the "Sidechat" app you referenced. Also, there is nothing "masculine" about showing off. Masculine guys are self-assured, protective of others and independent thinkers. Try to be like that and not like a big dick.

Frankie knows!

 

[ddgggg]

Brother i hope you don't mind, but i looked at your pics.

I say this objectively, your cock is not small at all, and frankly you're girthy. Very muscular shaft, and good length for deep stroking as well. And your glans will definitely stimulate pussy/ass hole thoroughly. I'm not sure what you're into sexually, but if you learn how to stroke (use your hips) and be a very giving lover in bed, you're gonna please any person you have sex with.

I appreciate this, but if you were to put me up against the other dudes on here that are upwards of 8-9" with bigger flaccid/ball sizes, I'd dwarf in comparison very easily. And I feel like it would be nice to be able to pleasure someone when having sex with them, but that isn't happening around now - which bring me to...

If porn is giving you body dysmorphia, stop watching it. It's not real life and frankly, you could do porn with your cock so take that for what it's worth.

I guess it's easier said than done to an extent. I don't really know how else I could go about fulfilling myself as a virgin who's never been in a relationship that isn't very in shape. And I might be able to do porn with my dick, but not so much with my body .

 

[ddgggg]

A positive step would be to get off this site and the "Sidechat" app you referenced. Also, there is nothing "masculine" about showing off. Masculine guys are self-assured, protective of others and independent thinkers. Try to be like that and not like a big dick.

I can see what you're saying and I appreciate the words. At the same time, unfortunately, many, many people out there don't quite feel the same way. As is, it feels like looks often correlate with masculinity much more frequently than content of character. And I don't how or if I could get myself to be sure of myself in my body in a way. Like if there's a guy that's taller, has a bigger dick, is more muscular, has a better-looking face (like a lot of people on here and elsewhere online), what could I have to deliver as a person in comparison to him?