feeling really envious of other guys w/ bigger dicks

I'd rather be proud of something that I had a say in the decision rather than something that I had none.
The ideal scenario would be having things to be proud of in both circumstances (though I have none, relatively speaking)
 
The ideal scenario would be having things to be proud of in both circumstances (though I have none, relatively speaking)
Yes, but that is not you and there's nothing you can realistically do about it. So all you can do is get over it and be grateful you weren't born with a micropenis.
 
I appreciate this, but if you were to put me up against the other dudes on here that are upwards of 8-9" with bigger flaccid/ball sizes, I'd dwarf in comparison very easily. And I feel like it would be nice to be able to pleasure someone when having sex with them, but that isn't happening around now - which bring me to...

I guess it's easier said than done to an extent. I don't really know how else I could go about fulfilling myself as a virgin who's never been in a relationship that isn't very in shape. And I might be able to do porn with my dick, but not so much with my body :confused:.

Start working out. Nothing crazy. Some calisthenics, walking. Get yourself out of the house. Don't worry about sex for now.

If you get your body in shape, your erections will be harder. Firmer. Take some l arginine to get your balls boiling with sperm.

You don't need a 9 inch penis to fuck someone good. You need to become a bull that makes love to their partners
 
Start working out. Nothing crazy. Some calisthenics, walking. Get yourself out of the house. Don't worry about sex for now.

If you get your body in shape, your erections will be harder. Firmer. Take some l arginine to get your balls boiling with sperm.

You don't need a 9 inch penis to fuck someone good. You need to become a bull that makes love to their partners
I have been going to the gym to lift weights and I started jiu jitsu ~1mo. ago and made progress so far (though I'm already behind a lot of people as is)
 
Imagine if the average size was 9”. I’m bigger soft than most guys hard and end up being used like a toy.
 
I have always been turned on by big dicks. I still am. And i always thought my dick was embarrassingly small (which it can be when soft), but it’s not as small as I thought- I was just always comparing to above average and often absolute monsters of meat.
I’ve grown to really love my dick. It’s pretty thick and its beautiful looking. I also like that it grows so much from soft to hard.
I also have other strengths both outside and inside the bedroom that are more satisfying to ppl than a big dick.
also, your dick is amazing ddgggg. I’m pretty fussy but when I look at a dick and think I wanna suck that for a long time - that means it top of the list. I like dicks with character.
 
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Imagine if the average size was 9”. I’m bigger soft than most guys hard and end up being used like a toy.
My friend was on the receiving end of that in our last summer together before going our separate ways for college. Myself and two "straight" friends went celebrating and met Will's friend, Brian, at one of these parties and the three of us continued the party at his place. Flying high as kites, we found ourselves comparing dick size when we noticed Ed was huge. The other two jumped on him right away "do you mind if i try? me too?!", he just said "go ahead" and they started sharing his cock. I was a bit apprehensive until Ed turned to me and asked if i wanted some too. I couldn't say no. His 9"er was the center of attention that night. Very unexpected too.
 
Imagine if the average size was 9”. I’m bigger soft than most guys hard and end up being used like a toy.
That genuinely sounds like a dream - certainly a change of pace from what I have going on now, whereas I'm still a virgin. Also, it seems pretty nice to be able to show off flaccid - the only time I've ever attempted that (my verification), it came out poorly..
 
My friend was on the receiving end of that in our last summer together before going our separate ways for college. Myself and two "straight" friends went celebrating and met Will's friend, Brian, at one of these parties and the three of us continued the party at his place. Flying high as kites, we found ourselves comparing dick size when we noticed Ed was huge. The other two jumped on him right away "do you mind if i try? me too?!", he just said "go ahead" and they started sharing his cock. I was a bit apprehensive until Ed turned to me and asked if i wanted some too. I couldn't say no. His 9"er was the center of attention that night. Very unexpected too.
Again, seems like a dream :confused:
 
love ya, but…This has turned into “Tune in next time for another chapter of…. ‘As The Dick Turns’” and so, I’m outs….

kisses on your pink parts ❤️
JEFF

But to be fair, [insert some other reason I can make to invalidate what you just said so I can continue to feel miserable] :rolleyes:
 
love ya, but…This has turned into “Tune in next time for another chapter of…. ‘As The Dick Turns’” and so, I’m outs….

kisses on your pink parts ❤️
JEFF

But to be fair, [insert some other reason I can make to invalidate what you just said so I can continue to feel miserable] :rolleyes:
I’m stroking you as we type…
 
: unamused: you don’t get it..
Every single thing you are insecure about I have it worse. If there's anyone who gets you its me. But I also see you arent looking for a way to make things better, just want to vent your frustrations until you finally feel good enough. Which will be never since you only compare yourself to the top 1% and trash yourself in every other way possible because you aren't as good as them.
 
Every single thing you are insecure about I have it worse. If there's anyone who gets you its me. But I also see you arent looking for a way to make things better, just want to vent your frustrations until you finally feel good enough. Which will be never since you only compare yourself to the top 1% and trash yourself in every other way possible because you aren't as good as them.
How am I not looking for a way to make things better if I’m actively trying to chance myself by working out and pumping to get bigger though? Plus, that’s kind how things work. How exactly could I argue that I have anything to offer as a person if anything I ever do and anything I ever try to do has been done, is being done by, or will be done by someone else 10x better than me while they look better than me? :no_mouth:
 
Plus, that’s kind how things work. How exactly could I argue that I have anything to offer as a person if anything I ever do and anything I ever try to do has been done, is being done by, or will be done by someone else 10x better than me while they look better than me? :no_mouth:
Wrong. That's how YOUR BRAIN works. You then erroneously use your way of thinking, values and priorities as the basis of everyone else's thought processes, way of thinking and values. You think extremely literal and only of the absolute best all or northing top 1%. By literal definition we all cant be on the 1% and 99% of us survive, go on and live happy lives.

You've even admitted something along the lines of you have pressure to think your way of thinking is the correct way and thinking otherwise is delusional. If that isn't the biggest red flag of being unwilling to compromise or take advice, and even delusion in and of itself, I don't know what else is...
...I guess I might have a mental block going on that makes me think I'm right in the way I think and otherwise would be being delusional...