I love my breasts, I do, but dressing them is tough going. It was a tad easier when I was heavier, but I've lost quite a bit of weight in the past 3 years (trying not to die from diabetes, lol) so now my band size is much smaller but my cup size is the same. The "large lady" stores carry a lot of 42DDD, etc but a 38DDD is more difficult to find. And I do have to try the bra on. I can't just order online and hope it fits. I suck at returning things by mail.