Gay escorts... have you ever? any tips?

Ok ty. I really want to try rm. Just kinda scared ya know
Try it !! Nothing to be scared abt. I like hiring for a lot of reasons; a big one I think is that I’m not interested in dating atm and I hate hookup culture but obviously I still miss sex and intimacy etc ahaha

I get it though, I was super nervous my first time also. But the guy was soooo nice and took charge without going to fast and I was completely at ease within like 2 minutes of arriving :) these are professionals, remember !
 
What he said ^^^^^

I started hiring this year for various reasons that have nothing to do with the ability to get laid by picking someone up in person or on an app. I only say that because the first step is to thoroughly examine what you want and why you're hiring someone. For example:

You looking for just quick sex or something more intimate?
Are you even looking for sex at all? Many aren't.
Is them being gay or kissing important? If yes, then exclude the straight and bisexual guys from your searches. They'll never be "fully" into it even if they're insanely hot and crazy good in bed.

I have a ton of good advice here but need to know a little more about why you're asking the question to give some better guidance.

Pro tip: Use a VPN to position yourself in Europe and then open a new browsing window on your computer. Then open rent.men, and you'll be able to see long and lengthy reviews where people write about their experiences with the various guys available. These are blocked to people who connect to the site from the USA. Being able to read a written review of someone gives you a whole different perspective.
I agree with you except on one point. I would NOT exclude bisexual guys. My favorite escort of all time is bisexual and he’s always fully into it and it’s literally the best sex I’ve ever had in my life. Plus he LOVES kissing, eating ass, and lots more. I wouldn’t have even known he was bi if it wasn’t written on his profile
 
Other than rent men are there any other sites to find male escorts

Rent Men has about 90 to over 95% of the market in North America, so that is the only place to really find anyone. That's your best bet. For Europe and other places overseas, there in Hunqz.com which has an equal market share.

If you find someone you really like on Instagram or Twitter, a well worded, very respectful message to them asking them if they escort can also be well received if you position it right. You miss 100% of the chances you don't take. :)
 
I'm curious and a little naive but how do you get around the illegality??
I would like to try this in the UK but would worry about finished up being arrested!!

Bit late in the day to reply but prostitution is legal in the UK excluding Northern Ireland.

Certain related activities like soliciting in a public space or running a brothel aren't but if you use a website like rentmen to meet then and they come to your house/hotel or you to theirs you're fine.
 
I am visiting Miami in a few days and am interested but also nervous. If they are on rentmen and have some reviews is it safe to say they are legit & not law enforcement?
If their profile doesn’t say they are on prep or have been vaccinated for monkey pox, how will they respond to those questions?

Any reliable suggestions in Miami?
Does anyone know anything about Dys_passive? (That’s his name on RM)
 
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I am visiting Miami in a few days and am interested but also nervous. If they are on rentmen and have some reviews is it safe to say they are legit & not law enforcement?
If their profile doesn’t say they are on prep or have been vaccinated for monkey pox, how will they respond to those questions?

Any reliable suggestions in Miami?
Does anyone know anything about Dys_passive? (That’s his name on RM)

AndresMiami - Male Escort, Gay massage - Miami | Rent.Men

I know him. He's cool and comfortable and clean and very hot. You'd have a great time. He's in Miami until Sunday. Throw him a message.
 
companyofmen.org is a great website for reviews of escorts and masseurs. I have never hired an escort but have hired a massuer. There are catfish all over and this wesbite helps you determine if the guy is a catfish and if not, you get reviews of the guy.
 
Love this thread because I’m going on a little vacay soon to Miami and would definitely love to connect with a down to earth hot masculine man to have some safe fun with while I’m out there.
 
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Thanks to all who have responded. I have wanted to try an escort for years. I’m not sure I want the sex, but I would love to experience one perfect date with a handsome charming fellow who’s totally into me. Just one enchanted evening straight out of a Hollywood movie that will be a treasured memory.

To the original poster, did you go through with it, and if so, how was it?
 
I'm curious and a little naive but how do you get around the illegality??
I would like to try this in the UK but would worry about finished up being arrested!!
I was worried about getting arrested also. Hired someone from Rentman in Feb. '24, in Montreal (tourist). He had one review, showed his face and body, joined website for at least a year. When he came to the door, pictures matched. He was really nice and respectful, though only 19, LOL, When he came in the door, I immediately put my hands down his pants, both in front and back. If I was going to get arrested, I'm going down enjoying it first.
 
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i do it all the time! Its the only luxury thing i really enjoy

I say just get someone with good reviews who is friendly over chat. start slow :)
I only have one experience but agree. Only hire someone who is friendly. Avoid those that state or imply don't waste my time. One person even blocked me after viewing their profile. I had no other contact with them to cause a block. This was an indication of possible problems.
 
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I only have one experience but agree. Only hire someone who is friendly. Avoid those that state or imply don't waste my time. One person even blocked me after viewing their profile. I had no other contact with them to cause a block. This was an indication of possible problems.
Also, I am of the opinion; respect the other person, their limits, and privacy. Place yourself in their shoes.
 
I have plenty of interest from guys on Grindr, but I find that most of the guys who message me either end up flaking on plans we make to meet, or are only interested in chatting and trading pics.

If I chat with 50 guys in a month, I'll only end up actually meeting with maybe 5.

I've never done an official escort, but services like RentMasseur let you get a full massage, plus happy ending (or more) if that's what you want. Most of the guys are open to at least mutual handjobs and oral if they advertise an "erotic" massage. It's also way cheaper than a full escort from what I've heard.

If I'm getting a massage anyway, I figure I might as well get the bonus at the same time lol