Gay guys who actually find gay men more attractive?

[bigboaster]

Well do y'all exist? I'm only half joking but seriously it's maybe 90 % more common to find gays who are not attracted to/exclusively attracted to straight men.

Any of you out there who are the opposite of that?

 

[englad]

I'm way more attracted to gay men than straight men.

We tend to take better care of our appearance (both style and body), you don't really ever meet gay men who can't string a sentence together in their own language, and have fewer hang ups regarding our bodies, sex, and to an extent, masculinity.

Passionate gay sex is miles better than timid, inexperienced, hang up ridden sex with a curious man.

I honestly think the straight fetishists are a small but vocal minority.

 

[barehole4use]

Personally i would say for me it's 50/50, not really bothered either way if the guy is gay / straight or bi, what is always a concern is can he keep his cock up.

 

[Brodie888]

I am attracted to men who act like men, gay or straight. I just can't be aroused by a man who reminds me of a woman, gay or straight.

 

[bigboaster]

I'm way more attracted to gay men than straight men.

We tend to take better care of our appearance (both style and body), you don't really ever meet gay men who can't string a sentence together in their own language, and have fewer hang ups regarding our bodies, sex, and to an extent, masculinity.

Passionate gay sex is miles better than timid, inexperienced, hang up ridden sex with a curious man.

Yes sex is certainly better with guys with experience. Amen.

I honestly think the straight fetishists are a small but vocal minority.

I don't think it's too tiny but I do think they are generally more vocal than their inverse. Particularly online.

 

[bigboaster]

Personally i would say for me it's 50/50, not really bothered either way if the guy is gay / straight or bi, what is always a concern is can he keep his cock up.

This is close to me own view on it. When it comes to porn I don't care what the porn star identifies as, same goes for movies or TV shows (generally). I don't find the actor/performer "hotter" for being gay or straight or bi. That just seems irrelevant to me? I just care if I find them attractive.

For real life however I have zero interest in straight men. That should be obvious but based on this site and some of the frequent topics posted here... It isn't I suppose. Lol smh

 

[bigboaster]

I am attracted to men who act like men, gay or straight. I just can't be aroused by a man who reminds me of a woman, gay or straight.

Hmm I'm a bit 50/50 on this. I am bi so maybe this affects my thinking on this. But while I do prefer my guys more masculine presenting I don't mind feminine guys either (to a certain degree). Like baseline feminine is fine. Over the top flamboyance however, turns me off but mostly because it seems inauthentic moreso than the femininity itself.

 

[EC1A]

I’ve always found straight guys much more attractive. Unfortunately! The forbidden fruit.

 

[bigboaster]

I’ve always found straight guys much more attractive. Unfortunately! The forbidden fruit.

Are you gonna remain single forever then? Assuming you currently are

 

[hale989]

I don’t find straight guys more attractive. There are more straight guys than gay guys so sometimes it may feel that way. I’m attracted to hot dudes, doesn’t really matter what the orientation is.

 

[bigboaster]

I don’t find straight guys more attractive. There are more straight guys than gay guys so sometimes it may feel that way. I’m attracted to hot dudes, doesn’t really matter what the orientation is.

I agree with this sentiment but this was meant to counter some guys on here who explicitly state they are either more attracted to or only attracted to straight men. It's definitely more than zero. The guy 2 posts above you is a great example. Lol

 

[Brodie888]

Hmm I'm a bit 50/50 on this. I am bi so maybe this affects my thinking on this. But while I do prefer my guys more masculine presenting I don't mind feminine guys either (to a certain degree). Like baseline feminine is fine. Over the top flamboyance however, turns me off but mostly because it seems inauthentic moreso than the femininity itself.

I can only speak for myself. In my outside life I easily pass as straight. In my sexual life I enjoy being a submissive bottom. So my preference for partners tends to be hypermasculine to make it easier for me to feel submissive to them.

 

[ipex]

I'm way more attracted to gay men. Honesty, if I find out a man is straight, any attraction I might have had for them dies.

 

[bigboaster]

I can only speak for myself. In my outside life I easily pass as straight. In my sexual life I enjoy being a submissive bottom. So my preference for partners tends to be hypermasculine to make it easier for me to feel submissive to them.

That actually makes sense to me. I guess it's the contrast of those 2 worlds. Pardon my psycho analysis. Lol.

I'm way more attracted to gay men. Honesty, if I find out a man is straight, any attraction I might have had for them dies.

Fascinating. Does this apply to just everyday men in real life you encounter or also celebrities and influencers etc?

 

[ipex]

Fascinating. Does this apply to just everyday men in real life you encounter or also celebrities and influencers etc?

All of the above. I can see when a man's good-looking but I just don't seem to fee any sexual attraction if I know they're straight.

 

[twinkerbelled]

Like I'm attracted to men, period. Some of those men happen to be straight just purely from a numbers game. But I do honestly become way more attracted to a man when I know he also likes men that I will actually have a real chance with. I agree that we also tend to take better care of ourselves and have better basic hygiene than straight guys.

I think it's fine to have a fantasy about getting with straight guys, or 'straight' guys. But it rarely is worth it or lives up to the hype, so I think it's best to just keep it as a fantasy.

 

[bigboaster]

Like I'm attracted to men, period. Some of those men happen to be straight just purely from a numbers game. But I do honestly become way more attracted to a man when I know he also likes men that I will actually have a real chance with. I agree that we also tend to take better care of ourselves and have better basic hygiene than straight guys.

I think it's fine to have a fantasy about getting with straight guys, or 'straight' guys. But it rarely is worth it or lives up to the hype, so I think it's best to just keep it as a fantasy.

I pretty much agree.

 

[Its_Irrelevant]

Well do y'all exist? I'm only half joking but seriously it's maybe 90 % more common to find gays who are not attracted to/exclusively attracted to straight men.

Any of you out there who are the opposite of that?

Being attracted to straight men is mostly only sexual for me because it's just that for forbidden fruit aspect, but them being straight leaves no room for romance. What I find attractive in gay men comes from sexual and romantic feelings. I always find men more attractive when you're attractive to them.

 

[Brodie888]

I guess there is a bit of an ego boost from having sex with a straight guy. The assumption is that they are less aroused by you than they would be with a woman.

I've had straight guys who've said they can't cum from blowjobs and are dumbfounded when you have them spurting within minutes.

 

[Andrej_u]

For me, I can find a man very hot regardless of the sexual orientation, but what brings it to the next level is if he reciprocates the interest, sends me signals and so on.
So I find gay men much hotter than straight men, on average. They also like to present in a way that turns me on, e.g. with tight pants, nice underwear and so on.

An exception to this is all the "bro" or changing room behaviour of many straight guys. Humping or a pat on the ass registers in my brain as a sex cue, and yeah that turns me on. But then I remember that they are straight, so even in an alternative reality where I would get to fuck them... They would never be able to handle my dick as I wish, and preparing for anal in the right way, like a gay man would.

(Replace "gay" with "bi" and everything remains just as valid)