Gay guys who actually find gay men more attractive?

[bigboaster]

For me, I can find a man very hot regardless of the sexual orientation, but what brings it to the next level is if he reciprocates the interest, sends me signals and so on.
So I find gay men much hotter than straight men, on average. They also like to present in a way that turns me on, e.g. with tight pants, nice underwear and so on.

An exception to this is all the "bro" or changing room behaviour of many straight guys. Humping or a pat on the ass registers in my brain as a sex cue, and yeah that turns me on. But then I remember that they are straight, so even in an alternative reality where I would get to fuck them... They would never be able to handle my dick as I wish, and preparing for anal in the right way, like a gay man would.

(Replace "gay" with "bi" and everything remains just as valid)

I mean. Ya can't argue with this logic. Lol.

 

[bigboaster]

I guess there is a bit of an ego boost from having sex with a straight guy. The assumption is that they are less aroused by you than they would be with a woman.

I've had straight guys who've said they can't cum from blowjobs and are dumbfounded when you have them spurting within minutes.

So some of y'all take this as a challenge then.

 

[Brodie888]

So some of y'all take this as a challenge then.

Challenge is probably the wrong word. Like I've also had gay guys (rare) say they don't cum from blowjobs and it's rewarding to take their loads in my mouth too.

I would put it in the same league as rescuing a baby bird that's fallen out of a tree, buying a homeless person a hot meal or helping an old lady cross the street.

It makes you feel good that you can do something that doesn't take much for yourself to do but is relatively significant for the other person.

 

[SilverDadBottom]

I so on.

An exception to this is all the "bro" or changing room behaviour of many straight guys. Humping or a pat on the ass registers in my brain as a sex cue, and yeah that turns me on. But then I remember that they are straight, so even in an alternative reality where I would get to fuck them... They would never be able to handle my dick as I wish, and preparing for anal in the right way, like a gay man would.

(Replace "gay" with "bi" and everything remains just as valid)

It’s interesting because as a “supermajority” straight guy, I have always disliked most coarse bro-sex-talk: I was in a college fraternity and dudes would watch porn and talk about sex with girlfriends, and it always seemed performative, off-putting, and demeaning (but not in the fun consensual way). I’m talking about a personal visceral response. I can imagine some gay or bi men finding the whole obliviously homoerotic scene sexy as fuck. Instead, I had this crush on this cute, sweet, clearly gay local who worked in the snack bar.

 

[malakos]

The very question confounds me. "Straight" means erotically interested only in the opposite sex, so naturally I am not erotically interested in Straight men. What use would it be to entertain erotic interest in someone I know categorically has no inclination to reciprocate? Sure, I can recognize that a Straight guy is good-looking / charming, but my awareness of that boundary prevents me from developing any strong draw to them. That so many Gay men say they are into Straight men makes absolutely no sense to me.

 

[Robert Dole]

The very question confounds me. "Straight" means erotically interested only in the opposite sex, so naturally I am not erotically interested in Straight men. What use would it be to entertain erotic interest in someone I know categorically has no inclination to reciprocate? Sure, I can recognize that a Straight guy is good-looking / charming, but my awareness of that boundary prevents me from developing any strong draw to them. That so many Gay men say they are into Straight men makes absolutely no sense to me.

I guess there is a bit of an ego boost from having sex with a straight guy. The assumption is that they are less aroused by you than they would be with a woman. I've had straight guys who've said they can't cum from blowjobs and are dumbfounded when you have them spurting within minutes.

I don't see straight or gay guys as more or less attractive per se, but if i'm talking to any guy and he starts giving me signs of interest I will make sure before going any further, and their response tells me more than what they consider themselves to be for whatever reason. What I have found is that a number of guys who would otherwise consider themselves "straight" (by default?) respond, show and develop interest if they feel comfortable and like Brodie888 mentions their physical reactions can be a real surprise to them. That was certainly my experience when I was younger- I thought girls were everything and couldn't get enough, within a couple of weeks of my mindblowing first experience I was addicted to cock and never went back long term.
There are definately guys who are straight and they don't interest me at all, the feeling is mutual.

 

[bigboaster]

I don't see straight or gay guys as more or less attractive per se, but if i'm talking to any guy and he starts giving me signs of interest I will make sure before going any further, and their response tells me more than what they consider themselves to be for whatever reason. What I have found is that a number of guys who would otherwise consider themselves "straight" (by default?) respond, show and develop interest if they feel comfortable and like Brodie888 mentions their physical reactions can be a real surprise to them. That was certainly my experience when I was younger- I thought girls were everything and couldn't get enough, within a couple of weeks of my mindblowing first experience I was addicted to cock and never went back long term.
There are definately guys who are straight and they don't interest me at all, the feeling is mutual.

Interesting perspective, thanks for sharing

 

[rm1128]

QUEERS 4 QUEERS!

 

[Thrisper]

Yep , a man can be incredibly attractive but if i find out hes straight or even bi female leaning its a major turn off . I need to have that potential emotional connection to know he likes the same things I do.

 

[barehole4use]

This is close to me own view on it. When it comes to porn I don't care what the porn star identifies as, same goes for movies or TV shows (generally). I don't find the actor/performer "hotter" for being gay or straight or bi. That just seems irrelevant to me? I just care if I find them attractive.

For real life however I have zero interest in straight men. That should be obvious but based on this site and some of the frequent topics posted here... It isn't I suppose. Lol smh

I agree with you too but i have been caught out a few times checking out the straight or bi mans BIG package even the ones with a wedding ring on walking next to there other halfs, mostly always they shoot me a smile, so then it makes me wonder would they or wouldn't they want to play with another man like me.....

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Well do y'all exist? I'm only half joking but seriously it's maybe 90 % more common to find gays who are not attracted to/exclusively attracted to straight men.

Any of you out there who are the opposite of that?

I'm not into that whole "How do I get this straight guy to like me/let me blow him" phenomenon (I've blown straight guys, but they showed the initial interest/curiosity). I'm not going to waste my time and effort convincing someone to take a shot on being attracted to me when there's PLENTY of attractive, sexy, well hung gay and bi men who'd eat my ass in a second