Has your cock ever been too "big"?

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Mine is not really that big, but pushed the head into a guy and he yelled stop. Then he told me no way and said I was going to have trouble finding anyone who would take it. This sounded odd to me, I mean ppl get fisted by bigger but maybe they work up to it. I did have to have a few attempts with another guy before he was ready ;)
 

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Mine is not really that big, but pushed the head into a guy and he yelled stop. Then he told me no way and said I was going to have trouble finding anyone who would take it. This sounded odd to me, I mean ppl get fisted by bigger but maybe they work up to it. I did have to have a few attempts with another guy before he was ready ;)

I think you are underestimating your size. You show a measured 7" girth in your photos. That's a huge girth!
 

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Mine is not really that big, but pushed the head into a guy and he yelled stop. Then he told me no way and said I was going to have trouble finding anyone who would take it. This sounded odd to me, I mean ppl get fisted by bigger but maybe they work up to it. I did have to have a few attempts with another guy before he was ready ;)

Thanks for the reply, yea actually till i read your reply i never thought of it but i have see porn where girls take a whole hand, so you would think would be an issue, unless its the person and that they are not tolerable where others are?
 
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no it hasnt but i remember one time i couldnt get rock hard it was just this huge semi mess
 
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no it hasnt but i remember one time i couldnt get rock hard it was just this huge semi mess
As of today that hasn't been an issue for me once my pants hit the floor my cock goes up LOL, BUT i can see how that could turn into a mess UGH sorry to hear
 

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I've had a few guys change their mind about being a bottom for me when they saw the actual junk, but I've never had a problem working something out with anyone who wanted to do the deed. In some cases I just don't go in all the way - with a couple guys I used a donut style ring that helped limit thrusting enough that they were okay. Overall I can't say I've really had a problem that could not be worked out to everyone's satisfaction. Patience is the key - and talking it all out.
I would think this would be more common with anal, is'nt the vagina made to stretch where the ass is not?
 

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I had two occasions when I had to stop because I was bruising the wall of the vagina. In one case I had hit the lady's IUD and she was bleeding, nothing serious since we stopped right away.
wow thanks for sharing man! appreciate it!
 

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I would think this would be more common with anal, is'nt the vagina made to stretch where the ass is not?

Reading this thread, I am inclined to agree with you. However my own experiences were the opposite. I've been with women twice, the first time went okay, the second one was a disaster of epic proportions. The second one I could not penetrate her at all. She had to go to a dr. to have her hymen surgically opened because it was unusually thick. My size wasn't the problem - no size was getting through that. With anal, having had a rough first time I have always been a slow and easy kind of guy the first time I am with someone, especially if it is their first time doing anal. Fingers, tongues, massage, lubes, whatever it takes to get to our destination. As I noted there are times when I can't do as deep, but that doesn't mean we can't get it done in a good way for both of us.

for me it is about listening and respecting what is on a partner's mind. When they say, "Hey, I've never done anything like that," or words to that effect then it is time to change the pace and work with them to make ourselves happy with the experience.
 

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Reading this thread, I am inclined to agree with you. However my own experiences were the opposite. I've been with women twice, the first time went okay, the second one was a disaster of epic proportions. The second one I could not penetrate her at all. She had to go to a dr. to have her hymen surgically opened because it was unusually thick. My size wasn't the problem - no size was getting through that. With anal, having had a rough first time I have always been a slow and easy kind of guy the first time I am with someone, especially if it is their first time doing anal. Fingers, tongues, massage, lubes, whatever it takes to get to our destination. As I noted there are times when I can't do as deep, but that doesn't mean we can't get it done in a good way for both of us.

for me it is about listening and respecting what is on a partner's mind. When they say, "Hey, I've never done anything like that," or words to that effect then it is time to change the pace and work with them to make ourselves happy with the experience.

@keenobserver I totally agree with you im not out to hurt anyone either, and if im told to stop or told to slow down i do although my preference is to "fuck hard" i adjust to the situation.
 

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@keenobserver I totally agree with you im not out to hurt anyone either, and if im told to stop or told to slow down i do although my preference is to "fuck hard" i adjust to the situation.

I 'm with you, but I see, and I'll bet you have too, situations where some people feel that just showing up with a big cock is enough and that everything will just take care of itself, like magic. I appreciate this thread bringing reality to that belief. To be fair, however I don't see too much of that attitude on this site (referring to "magic thinking").
 
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I 'm with you, but I see, and I'll bet you have too, situations where some people feel that just showing up with a big cock is enough and that everything will just take care of itself, like magic. I appreciate this thread bringing reality to that belief. To be fair, however I don't see too much of that attitude on this site (referring to "magic thinking").

i never think that... actually its the the opposite for me ....im endowed i know that (im not bragging) i also do not flaunt it or use it to get sex, with the exception of this site im more shy about flaunting my cock.... nor advertise (on purpose) im not sure how many girls prefer bigger anyway, either way once the pants come off and i get the typical reaction, i usually ask how they prefer to have it meaning rough genital ect... i can adjust, i want it satisfying for both not just me i guess this site for me is my place to "let it all hang out" sort of speaking lol but in reality im the total opposite, like i said i dont flaunt on purpose
 

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Only with one or two who would have been too tight for almost anyone, otherwise no
I'm only 5" and average to slightly above thickness and I actually encountered one very small and inexperienced young lady who felt extremely tight on me and she asked to stop because it hurt. It certainly was me so I assume she needed to see a gynecologist. I would have thought she had taken that much by masturbating.
 
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Only once or twice has it been too painful or not been able to fit any further. I'm very thick in the middle, about 6.5, which doesn't help. In saying that, last week I banged someone who could barely even fit the head to begin (recent jelqing efforts has made my bellend wider) but was soon taking me balls deep.
 
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Only once or twice has it been too painful or not been able to fit any further. I'm very thick in the middle, about 6.5, which doesn't help. In saying that, last week I banged someone who could barely even fit the head to begin (recent jelqing efforts has made my bellend wider) but was soon taking me balls deep.
We sound almost exactly the same, 6 1/2 by between 5 3/4 and 6 around
 
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The GF who took my virginity and I both had to learn that a guy could bottom out in a bad way - we were both over 18 at the time. Its not a problem she had had with her prior (smaller) lovers. Nor I since she was my first. I had to learn not too push in too deep, to leave some out, or I'd ruin her mood. It caused her pain. To try to get around that, I like to have a new partner climb on me the first time. It helps me learn what they like. What they can take.