the thing is, its really apples and oranges comparing gay sex to straight sex
A straight man literally has the body of a man. So this isnt really something crazy. Many men like their bodies and dicks. For a straight man to have sex with someone with same body anatomy is different from a gay guy having sex with a female, who is completely alien to him and has different body. This is why I hate this comparison. It would not be as traumatizing for a straight man as a gay man. Its literally like playing with your own body.
Just food for thought. I am not advocating for anything.