You interchanged masculine/feminine with gay/straight. Totally different things.But the thing is, we're pretty much the first major society who's tried to put such hard edge definitions on a person's sexuality, and it's not working well. Most societies revolved more around masculine and feminine energies and behaviors. Like I said, in many, possibly most societies, it wasn't considered unmasculine, unmanly, or in any way feminine to take head from a guy, and it was a pretty routine event. But now it's at least bi.
You’re generalizing and that generalization is not applicable to everyone.And I can't help but notice that the people who are most adamant that a BJ make someone at least bi are guys for whom it seems that the label of straight is super important to their identity. I mean, there's been a ton of comedy done on this where a guy presented as super open minded about labels and anti-homophobia, but then someone assumes that they are gay or bi, and they get super defensive.
Any dicks I see here are when people with kinks show them off in unexpected places. I would not assume that every woman that joined a “big breasts support group” was there because they like looking at breasts. That’s a silly notion.Also, I find it rather ironic that there's a lot of guys who consider themselves 100% straight who spend a lot of time on a site which is specifically about dicks. They're apparently of the opinion that they can have a fascination with dicks, but still be 100% straight.
I would argue that a guy getting a blowie from a guy while thinking about pussy can, in fact, be totally straight, but a guy who's looking at dicks, talking about dicks, and spends a lot of time in the dick department is clearly not 100% straight. In fact, there are a ton of guys who even suck cock who consider themselves totally straight because their interest is strictly about cocks, not men. I think that's BS because cocks are a pretty key part of being a man, but it just goes to show you how ultimately malleable labels can be with people.
Argue all you want. It is really easy to define straight as a sexual preference only for people of the opposite sex. What is wrong with allowing that space?