HELP/ADVICE needed! I want to suck my best friend, what do I do?

[Caseylove99]

A first timer may have a hard time actually asking you to do it or even giving verbal permission. And, the more time you give him to think about it, the more likely he is to back off.

If you find yourself naked in bed with him again, you should assume that he is giving you the all clear. Don't ask. Begin with some gentle caresses and, unless he sternly pulls away, just go for it.

It's obvious that is exactly what he wants from you at this point. He's ready. Don't make him wait.

I'm going to tell him that I'm sucking his dick tonight unless he says "NO" or "STOP"

why do you think he does not want to see your cock? next time he gets naked in bed, you should take your clothes off and tell him you like sleeping naked.

He knows I'm insecure about myself and I just know him well enough where I know he is not down for that, at least not now. He jerks to purely girls and doesn't even like watching straight porn bc he doesn't like look at other guys dicks. Maybe if he hints that would be ok then I would try, but I truly don't want him to "get me off" tbh his dick in my mouth would do that on its own lol

 

[sunandfun]

I'm going to tell him that I'm sucking his dick tonight unless he says "NO" or "STOP"

He knows I'm insecure about myself and I just know him well enough where I know he is not down for that, at least not now. He jerks to purely girls and doesn't even like watching straight porn bc he doesn't like look at other guys dicks. Maybe if he hints that would be ok then I would try, but I truly don't want him to "get me off" tbh his dick in my mouth would do that on its own lol

PS. how big is his cock? just curious

 

[sunandfun]

PS. how big is his cock? just curious

also....why are you insecure about yourself?

 

[hzs3fg]

I'm going to tell him that I'm sucking his dick tonight unless he says "NO" or "STOP"

He knows I'm insecure about myself and I just know him well enough where I know he is not down for that, at least not now. He jerks to purely girls and doesn't even like watching straight porn bc he doesn't like look at other guys dicks. Maybe if he hints that would be ok then I would try, but I truly don't want him to "get me off" tbh his dick in my mouth would do that on its own lol

Even psychologists/psychiatrists with decades of experience are generally incapable of accurately knowing what goes through the minds of their patients.

Don't make the mistake of thinking you know exactly how your buddy's mind works. Or, even your own, for that matter.

I'm going to say it again - if he gets naked in bed with you, then he wants it. Don't disappoint him again. Don't ask him, just do it.

 

[AHandfull]

Even psychologists/psychiatrists with decades of experience are generally incapable of accurately knowing what goes through the minds of their patients.

Don't make the mistake of thinking you know exactly how your buddy's mind works. Or, even your own, for that matter.

I'm going to say it again - if he gets naked in bed with you, then he wants it. Don't disappoint him again. Don't ask him, just do it.

I agree. Sounds like a guy who doth protest too much. If he's willing to spoon you on the couch and get naked in bed with you, eventually you will be sucking his cock and ultimately when he caves, he will be sucking yours.

 

[Caseylove99]

I agree. Sounds like a guy who doth protest too much. If he's willing to spoon you on the couch and get naked in bed with you, eventually you will be sucking his cock and ultimately when he caves, he will be sucking yours.

If that happens then it happens but I just want his in my mouth first lol

 

[Caseylove99]

also....why are you insecure about yourself?

Always have been no particular reason

 

[Georgiaboy028]

Dawg, dude wants you to blow him. Just do it next time you’re in that situation. If he didn’t kick you out of bed for grabbing his balls or eating his cum, then he isn’t gonna do it for sucking his cock.

 

[Caseylove99]

PS. how big is his cock? just curious

I didn't break out a tape measure but I'd guess about 6.5"- 6.7 hard. When he is soft it's about 4.5-5". His dick isn't very thick, on the narrower side but not a "needle dick." But I think that would make it easier to fit in my mouth lol. Dark reddish/auburn pubes. His bush is pretty thick and large with a nice happy trail up to his belly button but his balls are nearly hairless and not a ton of hair on his inner thighs. He is a red-head but not super pale but his dick is on the pale side with a naturally short foreskin, even when he is soft it only covers about half of his tip maximum. When he is hard it's difficult to even tell he is uncut. He does have a really prominent purple vein up the right side on the front that is very noticeable because of how pale his dick skin is. His balls, like I said before, are massive and actually make his dick look average or small even though it is slightly above average. When he is hard it's mostly straight but does curve a tiny bit to the left right before the tip.

 

[sunandfun]

Always have been no particular reason

you should casually get naked in front of him....either change your clothes or maybe when you get out of the shower....and see his reaction.

 

[Caseylove99]

you should casually get naked in front of him....either change your clothes or maybe when you get out of the shower....and see his reaction.

I have studied this pics he sent me quite well, I hope that answered your question, lol. I'm not going to try that suggestion yet but perhaps someday. Like I said, I'm more focused on getting his dick in my mouth and his cum down my throat right now, let's cross that bridge first haha

 

[sunandfun]

I have studied this pics he sent me quite well, I hope that answered your question, lol. I'm not going to try that suggestion yet but perhaps someday. Like I said, I'm more focused on getting his dick in my mouth and his cum down my throat right now, let's cross that bridge first haha

keep us updated!

 

[oliverKj]

He is def down to try things, but he’s just having a hard time crossing the line. He’s def curious and likes the attention from you, I say keep doing what u doing, I don’t think u r pressuring him at all, just go with the flow and let things happen naturally. I was kinda on his shoes before accepting I was bi, so I kinda understand his side too, but He’ll come around. He’s giving too many opportunities. If he wasn’t into anything he wouldn’t even consider sending u any pics or Cuddles, etc. He def wants to try things but doesn’t wanna be labeled as gay… it’s so annoying cause he’s clearly into u but these stupid labels fuck everything up.. would be so much easier if we just went with whatever feels good and comfortable but that’s another conversation haha good luck bud. Ur story got me rock hard haha

 

[Caseylove99]

keep us updated!

Anyone ever sucked uncut, tbh I fantasize about jamming my tongue under his foreskin between the glans when he is soft to get him hard, he washes well so no cheese lol

 

[oliverKj]

I'm going to tell him that I'm sucking his dick tonight unless he says "NO" or "STOP"

He knows I'm insecure about myself and I just know him well enough where I know he is not down for that, at least not now. He jerks to purely girls and doesn't even like watching straight porn bc he doesn't like look at other guys dicks. Maybe if he hints that would be ok then I would try, but I truly don't want him to "get me off" tbh his dick in my mouth would do that on its own lol

I wonder if he’s been curious for a long time and that’s a defense mechanism not to feel gay?! Don’t understand why seeing a guy naked in straight porn would make uncomfortable…

 

[sunandfun]

I wonder if he’s been curious for a long time and that’s a defense mechanism not to feel gay?! Don’t understand why seeing a guy naked in straight porn would make uncomfortable…

I agree. I think he is curious...but maybe ashamed. he would not cuddle spoon... and get naked if he wasnt curious. He is just afraid to ask for it

 

[oliverKj]

I agree. I think he is curious...but maybe ashamed. he would not cuddle spoon... and get naked if he wasnt curious. He is just afraid to ask for it

100%… I hope he breaks free and starts being open. Having a bro you can trust and play secretly would be awesome for him till he figures it out

 

[Caseylove99]

OH MY FUCKING GOD!!!! So I told him a little while ago point blank "unless you stop me, I am going to give you a blowjob tonight when we go to bed" he just stared at me and said "why do you want this?" And I said "because you're my friend and I love you and I want to make you feel good because you deserve to be satisfied." He just stared at me and said "oh... I love you too, but this wouldn't be fair to you, I'm not going to be do anything back" and I said "unless there comes a time when you want to, giving you the pleasure and making you feel good is enough for me to be happy" he thought about it and nodded slightly. We kept watching tv and was like "so I'm going to take a shower and clean up for you" and I said ok and then he asked me if "I wanted him to shave because none of the girls he was with that would suck him would if his bush was grown out like it is now" and I said "fuck no if you shave or trim I'll be mad, haha." He asked me "if i change my mind or if it gets too weird before or during would you stop and not be mad at me" and I said "only if that works both ways" and we agreed. He asked me "will you seriously let me finish in your mouth" and I said "yup." Then he said "when we go to bed tonight I'll take a shower and come to bed naked and I'll get in bed and then it's all you I just want it to be dark so I don't have to see anything because this is just going to be really weird for me I think" and I said "same" and he was like "remember I can stop it at anytime" and said yes and he was like "if I have trouble can I pull a blanket over my head and watch porn" I said "yes you could get your VR and watch VR stuff too and treat me like the girl in the video sucking you" and that peaked his interest lol. So yeah everyone I'm gonna be sucking his dick tonight probably in less than 2 hours.

 

[Caseylove99]

He is in the shower now cleaning up for me to suck his dick oh my god I am so fucking nervous right now. He shook his bulge at me before he went into the bathroom and told me to go in his room make myself comfortable and "get ready for a cockmeat sandwich bitch." I don't know what to do first suck his balls or tongue under his foreskin or tongue his piss slit either way I'm definitely playing with his foreskin at some point and am going to have a mouthful of his cum!!!!!!!!!

 

[lilcamel]

It's so fun when they first start getting hard as your looking in their eyes and look down to that magnificent cock as it's growing and the foreskin is starting to roll back and your mouth just starts to water.