Help! i need to come to terms with penis size.

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I'm so confused. On the one hand, I don't like it when gay guys make such a big deal about big cocks. I even had a guy that wanted to date me recently mention that he had a big cock and told me that as a versatile guy that anyone with a cock smaller than 6 inches won't work for him. Well even though I knew he was interested in dating me, he kind of basically stated that I wouldn't be sexually acceptable (since I'm 5.5 inches).

Then on the other hand, I had sex with a sweet guy that I had sex with about a year ago. Sweet, sweet guy. But his cock is even smaller than mine. I tried to do enjoy it with him but after having sex with my three most recent that were 8.5 inches, 7.5 inches, and 7 inches respectively, I have to admit that I also like a larger than average penis in me - otherwise it just doesn't turn me on.

I want to stick up for average or even less than average guys and not contribute to the dehumanizing aspect of stating that someone is not sexually appealing just because they were born with a penis not larger than average.

Yet I have to admit myself that as primarily a bottom, I also like a bigger cock. And I like the look of cock that is bigger than mine.

I would appreciate respectful thoughts on the matter. Can anyone relate? Any words of advice? How can I come to terms with this so it doesn't distract me?
 
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You can't help what you like and, in terms of anal sex, that means a bigger guy. It is what it is. As long as our preferences are made clear in a sensitive and respectful way which doesn't diminish people. You need to be honest and respectful. Feelings will be hurt I know, I'm around your size and I've been told it's not enough
 
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bigmanfan said:
You can't help what you like and, in terms of anal sex, that means a bigger guy. It is what it is. As long as our preferences are made clear in a sensitive and respectful way which doesn't diminish people. You need to be honest and respectful. Feelings will be hurt I know, I'm around your size and I've been told it's not enough
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Maybe it's okay to just feel the feelings....all the way around. Being a midwesterner we have difficulties with dealing with feelings.
 
You guys know that in a loving relationship that sex is not everything and your average size will please most people!! As you have stated you really need to come to terms with your normal penis size as there is so much else you have to offer!!
 
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BillM said:
You guys know that in a loving relationship that sex is not everything and your average size will please most people!! As you have stated you really need to come to terms with your normal penis size as there is so much else you have to offer!!
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You are so sweet Bill. Will you marry me?! :)
 
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fournineteenfiftynine said:
Maybe it's okay to just feel the feelings....all the way around. Being a midwesterner we have difficulties with dealing with feelings.
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Oh honey, I was born in England - you think you have issues with feelings. By the way I checked out your pics, .. I would ! Just sayin' ;)
 
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I can't really help.

I want mine to be much longer and thicker than it is. Maybe like the top 10 inches of the fat end of a baseball bat.

And everyone else's to be much smaller. Like the size of a Snickers

It's just how I feel about this. .
 
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Exbiker said:
I can't really help.

I want mine to be much longer and thicker than it is. Maybe like the top 10 inches of the fat end of a baseball bat.

And everyone else's to be much smaller. Like the size of a Snickers

It's just how I feel about this. .
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I think there are a lot of similar sentiments on this site, having just checked out your pics it might noy be as big as you want but it is a looker !!!
 
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Exbiker said:
I can't really help.

I want mine to be much longer and thicker than it is. Maybe like the top 10 inches of the fat end of a baseball bat.

And everyone else's to be much smaller. Like the size of a Snickers

It's just how I feel about this. .
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God I wish mine was as big as yours....and as a bottom I'm not sure I'd want anything much bigger in me.
 
I never knock the desire for size and never will. Big cocks are hot and always will be. But in a way I feel for people who can have sex with nothing but big cocked men. I understand it, but feel for them. Here's my take if it will help you to come to terms with your size. How many times have you, or have you ever seen a guy so hot you said you didn't give a shit if he had three inches? I'm not saying you haven't already experienced what I'm talking about, but you can, as others can with you, have just as hot of sex with "less than" as others have with more than.

I have always had the philosophy the guy makes his cock hot and for me it is quite true. In my book when you look at it this way there is much, much more hot sex to be had. And believe me it is quite possible to have smoking hot sex with a guy who is not as large as some.To me, when a man or woman realizes that and can do it, that's when sex gets good.

Remember also, if you can feel that hotness toward someone "less than", someone can feel that way about you.

The pic below to me is a fine example and of course, not knocking the hot guy at all..
 

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I never knock the desire for size and never will. Big cocks are hot and always will be. But in a way I feel for people who can have sex with nothing but big cocked men. I understand it, but feel for them. Here's my take if it will help you to come to terms with your size. How many times have you, or have you ever seen a guy so hot you said you didn't give a shit if he had three inches? I'm not saying you haven't already experienced what I'm talking about, but you can, as others can with you, have just as hot of sex with "less than" as others have with more than.

I have always had the philosophy the guy makes his cock hot and for me it is quite true. In my book when you look at it this way there is much, much more hot sex to be had. And believe me it is quite possible to have smoking hot sex with a guy who is not as large as some.To me, when a man or woman realizes that and can do it, that's when sex gets good.

Remember also, if you can feel that hotness toward someone "less than", someone can feel that way about you.

The pic below to me is a fine example and of course, not knocking the hot guy at all..
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And that guy is really larger than average most likely....he is definitely not small and probably on the high end of average...
 
fournineteenfiftynine said:
And that guy is really larger than average most likely....he is definitely not small and probably on the high end of average...
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I sort of see what you mean, but maybe that's missing the point... ?

The guy is stunning. Very handsome, and he's done amazing gym work.

His hair and face and teeth (I'm guessing) are very well looked after.

His dick size simply doesn't matter at all. Looks maybe slightly small, but it's ok. Sex with him would be wonderful. Almost all gay men aspire to good sex with someone like him...

Now. I don't think we are saying that only gym- fit good looking men are desirable. That would be just a diffferent kind of nonsense...

But we can certainly make the point that different things appeal to different people - and there is someone for everyone.

For some it's about humour. Kindness. Outlooks on life. Personal style. Shared ways of being ...

Please don't imagine that that one bit of flesh and skin is completely decisive ... it just isn't. At all.
 
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My dick is just reaching the 6 inch mark and it is apart from my glans rather on the thin side. Nevertheless i had a few sexual encounters with young gay guys (i was sort of the straight dad for them) and it was smoking hot for both of them. One even cummed hands free as i fucked him from behind and whispered dirty things into his ears...

It is kind of obvious, cock size turns anyone on - but it's the passion and strong stamina that can achieve so much more...
 
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