hi there, sorry for this so straight forward question but in my experience, I have encountered many homophobic men, and 99% of those were white. I live in diverse area (So we have many ethnicity people here who I regularly interact with) but the kind of homophobic questions i have gotten from white straight men are hilarious..i mean i have gotten this question "are you gay?" or "I don't want to talk to you as i think you are gay" from them for asking simple questions like "how was your day or how was your workout or where is this shop, i mean simple questions.. and ofcourse, if I try be friends with them, then definitely, this is no.1 question and then the list of questions go worse.. but I have not gotten these questions from other ethnicity straight men, so i am wondering what could be the reasons behind that.. any comments would be helpful..or any tips would be helpful as maybe I need to approach them differently so that this is not their first question...lol and just to be clear, i am just trying to be normal friends here, nothing else at all.