Honest Answer on size difference.

[The_Young_One]

So I'm in a situation where I'm the one holding off on sex because of the size she clams her last lover was (11 inches)

Being small kinda hampers the ego anyway so when she told me that I kinda lost a lot of interest in sex with her. I know a lot of people so techniques and foreplay helps.

So my question is once you had sex with a guy who has bigger cock, is a lot harder to get off with a guy on the smaller side?

Be as honest as possible. Got pretty thick skin.

 

[Mercurygirl]

I'm of the opinion she just made up the 11 inches because you pressed her and couldn't stop talking about the size of your penis. I don't know of any woman who would mention their former partner's size before (or even after for that matter) she even had sex with a new guy.

 

[Patchos]

So I'm in a situation where I'm the one holding off on sex because of the size she clams her last lover was (11 inches)

Being small kinda hampers the ego anyway so when she told me that I kinda lost a lot of interest in sex with her. I know a lot of people so techniques and foreplay helps.

So my question is once you had sex with a guy who has bigger cock, is a lot harder to get off with a guy on the smaller side?

Be as honest as possible. Got pretty thick skin.

you sound like you're too immature to be having sex

 

[D_Birdy_Swallows]

Nothing at all wrong with your tool. If she doesn't like it, plenty of women will.

 

[Jillang]

I agree with Mercurygirl, why would she even tell you that? You might not know this but I'm going to tell you now, every girl knows guys are "concerned" about and "obsessed" with their penises no matter what size it is.
Another thing you need to know, most girls would not want their bf to have an 11 inch penis. Maybe she does but if he was so great then why isn't she with him now?

 

[The_Young_One]

I'm of the opinion she just made up the 11 inches because you pressed her and couldn't stop talking about the size of your penis. I don't know of any woman who would mention their former partner's size before (or even after for that matter) she even had sex with a new guy.

It came up just through normal Conversation. Not really sure why she said it.

 

[TinyPrincess]

No need to worry - 11 inch cocks doesn't exist in real life (unless you use porn inches).

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

So my question is once you had sex with a guy who has bigger cock, is a lot harder to get off with a guy on the smaller side?

Not in my experience. As long as I share a connection with the man, and he knows his way around the female anatomy.. it's all good in the hood.

I think she exaggerated the size of her previous partners cock (it's not just men that will do that, although I have no idea why some women do) and I think it's bullshit that people think the majority of women need a huge wang to get off. Just be yourself, and try not to be self-conscious.

 

[AlteredEgo]

I disagree with the other ladies. I know my answer to those kinds of questions is scary for a lot of men. If they are stupid enough to ask specifics about past partners, I will answer honestly, and relish the awkwardness created. If they Can let it go, and be the same happy, confident guy who attracted me in the first place, we can move forward. If it fucks with them? Oh well. Have a nice life. Try not to worry about it with the next woman. Did it to yourself.

The differences in size make sex feel different, not better nor worse. I can, and have, enjoy very large, and very small in the same day.

 

[MickeyLee]

the best thing about being a mostly gay woman? i've only had sex with one dude... he NEVER asks this question.

*skips out of thread*

 

[The_Young_One]

Thanks for the answers. Being a small guy sucks a bit but I guess of you have a connection it does matter as much.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I disagree with the other ladies. I know my answer to those kinds of questions is scary for a lot of men. If they are stupid enough to ask specifics about past partners, I will answer honestly, and relish the awkwardness created. If they Can let it go, and be the same happy, confident guy who attracted me in the first place, we can move forward. If it fucks with them? Oh well. Have a nice life. Try not to worry about it with the next woman. Did it to yourself.

The differences in size make sex feel different, not better nor worse. I can, and have, enjoy very large, and very small in the same day.

I never said I wouldn't be bluntly honest if asked about previous partners:wink: but I also won't tease if he's not as big.. I'm not a size queen.. I happen to have a man with a big cock.. but that's not what makes the sex good.

I agree with you though.. if a guy can't let the thought of past partners go I can't move forward.

 

[Tactfulgal]

Nobody else here has said anything like this except you. I think this whole thread is obvious humiliation fetish. I agree with others who have said 11 inch penises don't exist, it is not normal for a girl to be mentioning an ex's penis, and it's really unattractive when a guy obsesses about his size.

Thanks for the answers. Being a small guy sucks a bit

 

[AlteredEgo]

I never said I wouldn't be bluntly honest if asked about previous partners:wink: but I also won't tease if he's not as big.. I'm not a size queen.. I happen to have a man with a big cock.. but that's not what makes the sex good.

I agree with you though.. if a guy can't let the thought of past partners go I can't move forward.

Sorry I missed your post. What I disagreed with (which I didn't make clear at all) was the idea that she had to be exaggerating, or lying. I've had a partner that big recently, and my boyfriend, whose dick is three inches shorter is eventually (he always does) going to poke and prod and ask me enough questions about fucking that guy that be will find out the size difference. It's going to bother him. How much it bothers him determines how well we continue to get along and connect to each other. But I won't lie. Just like I didn't lie when he asked if he was the biggest, or if he was the best. No to both. Don't like it, don't ask. But I don't play it up either.

 

[Tactfulgal]

Threads like this make me feel good about my ability to pick 'em lol. I've never had a guy dig for info about a past guy I was with. But it would be completely annoying that I cannot stress enough to guys, don't do that . It would make you seem really insecure and that's really unappealing.